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I won't eat it, I'll definitely cut it.
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If it's something nutritious, I'll eat it.
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But I'm not a picky eater, and my parents are well-intentioned.
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My parents wouldn't let me eat anything I didn't like.
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If you don't like what you eat, your parents will let you eat it, and they have a compulsive attitude. Your heart must be very annoying, and your heart is extremely broken. You can't tell your parents, "I don't like to eat", I don't think your parents will respect your opinion, and it will hurt your parents' hearts.
For a person with a strong desire to control, he suddenly finds that his life is not under his control, first, he has a mental breakdown and exerts more pressure; The second is that he is secretly sad and has suicidal thoughts.
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Whether you like or dislike something is your personal subjective feeling. Although we have the right to choose what we like. This one represents our individuality.
But if your parents make you eat something you really don't want, you can't show that emotion right away. It's very likely that he will mistakenly think that this emotion is the emotion that you hate him. You have to make him understand the reason why you don't like this food.
Let him understand you and know you. Then your refusal to eat the object can be understood. Secondly, your parents will not harm you, he will let you eat something very nasty, it may be very healthy food, but it is not particularly high-quality in taste.
But the food can be very good in a way.
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I believe this is a situation that everyone encounters, especially a few years old. Like the grandparents' generation, their standard of living is not so high, and they have many brothers and sisters, and sometimes it is very good to eat a meal of meat. Now that living conditions have come up, they want their children to eat more and absorb more nutrients, and this perception is also affecting this generation.
As the material conditions get better and better, children not only have meat to eat at every meal, but also eat a variety of food, and they can choose what they like to eat. If your parents let you eat something you don't like, I think it's probably fish and shrimp, some vegetables, and so on. Although these ingredients are nutritious, many people will not be able to accept the taste.
In this case, you can be honest with your parents that you can't accept this taste, and you will even vomit after eating it, and I believe your parents will understand. But don't show a nasty mindset so they'll think you're just a picky eater.
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I think so :
1.The child is also an individual, and it is very normal for her to have things that she likes and hates to eat. Especially for young children, it is normal for picky eaters to occur; When this happens, you should find out what part of the ingredient your child hates, whether it is the texture or taste, or even just the color or shape;
2.After understanding the reasons why your child hates the ingredients, if you still want your child to try the ingredients, then you may wish to change the cooking method to avoid the factors that your child hates the ingredients, so that your child may be able to accept it. If you know the reason why your child hates ingredients, but you don't avoid this reason, and just ask your child to accept and eat it, I think this is indeed like a "desire for control", and it is also a manifestation of a lack of respect for your child's personal consciousness;
4.If you're a kid and your parents know you hate a certain food, but still make it for you, maybe they want to give you some kind of nutrition through this food.
Then you might as well put aside your past aversion to such ingredients for a while and try it in small bites. Maybe the factor you hated this ingredient has disappeared with the new way of cooking, and maybe this time your parents' cooking will suit your taste
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What do you think about your parents making you eat something you hate? Okay, I think most of the things you said are extremely annoying things that have special things, such as nutrition.
Or what you lack, you have to understand the good intentions of your parents.
Remember, parents are loving you sometimes.
It's better to talk and communicate.
Parents also have qualities, and you should understand that too.
Just talk like that.
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I'm sure this is a situation that happens to everyone, especially a few years old. Like their grandparents' generation, they do not have a high standard of living and have many siblings. Sometimes it's good to eat meat.
Now that living conditions have improved, they want their children to eat more and absorb more nutrients. This concept also affects today's generation. As the material conditions get better and better, children not only eat meat at every meal, but also eat many kinds of food.
They can choose what they like to eat. If your parents let you eat something you hate, I think it could be fish, shrimp, vegetables, etc. While these ingredients are nutritious, many people won't accept the taste.
In this case, you can honestly tell your parents that you can't accept the taste and even vomit after eating. I'm sure your parents will understand. But don't show an aversive attitude so that they will think you're just picky about food.
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Pity the hearts of parents in the world, if there are some things, parents think this thing is very good, if you eat it, it is very good for your physical development, even if you hate your parents very much, you will also knock on the side of the side, so that you can eat a little more, because from the perspective of parents, this behavior must be right, but from your point of view, this behavior must be annoying, after all, you don't like to eat this thing, and force yourself to eat, so the problem from different angles, The result is different, if he is a niece, we should learn to think from the perspective of our parents, although it is unpalatable, but at least it can be eaten, so in order to make my parents laugh, I would rather pinch my nose and eat it.
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If your parents let you eat when you were a child, and you don't like to eat anything, you can't refuse, and you can't refuse to quarrel with them, which makes both parties very unhappy.
After all, when I was young, I had no economic conditions, and I had to rely on my parents for everything, from food, clothing, housing, transportation to eating, drinking, and having fun, I had to rely on my parents in all aspects, and if I didn't have my parents, I would definitely not be able to survive. There are many times when parents are too strong and give themselves something, even if they don't like it, they can't refuse, just like when I was a child, I especially hated eating white-cut radish, even if I rebelled, the family could only be cabbage radish, without the slightest change, sometimes I would choose not to eat, because even if you told the adults, you can't change it at all, and you still eat cabbage and radish every day is such a dish, so sometimes you choose not to eat, saying that you don't want to eat, because if you want to quarrel with your parents, it's very bad.
But when you grow up, it's different, when you grow up, you have economic conditions, if you don't like something, or you don't like to eat, you will choose not to eat, and then buy some other things that you like to eat, but also eat with your parents, you can eat together at the table, after all, there are many choices, you can't choose when you are young, and when you grow up, you can choose what you want at will after you have economic strength. Even in some ways, or at some point, parents will like the things you buy for them, and they will feel that you have grown up, and they will be very considerate of them, and they can think of them at all times and buy them some good things, so that parents are also very happy.
There are actually many ways to refuse what you like, and there are many ways to refuse what you don't like.
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For parents, let you eat something you don't like because he thinks it's nutritious and good for your health, but it's hard for you to swallow, and although their intentions are good, everyone has their own preferences and should respect your way of eating.
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Parents let you eat a few things you hate, I think eating, you can't eat what you like according to your preferences, you don't eat if you don't like it, in fact, the nutrition of the human body is very comprehensive, it is multifaceted, and it should be rich. Not picky eaters. I think this behavior of parents is also for the good of their children.
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Parents let you eat things that you hate very much, in fact, there are many times when your parents let you eat the most nutrients that you supplement the corresponding nutrients, which is very helpful, in order to let you develop the habit of not being picky eaters, that is, to understand the good intentions of your parents.
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I feel a little sad when parents let themselves eat something they really don't like, and I don't even remember what food their children don't like to eat, and they don't get respect from their parents, after all, most people still like to enjoy mealtime, and this behavior of parents greatly affects the mood of eating.
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Parents let you eat something that you hate, in fact, parents are for the good of their children and don't want their children to be picky eaters, so even if you hate it, he will not give you any reaction, and the things that parents let you eat are healthy foods, so you can accept it.
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Try to argue with reason.
First, argue for method 1 based on reason
I know that the second one may have some bad operations, because the uncomfortable thing may not be expressed, of course, you can use other methods, I mention this because I have a bad stomach, I have some things I don't like to eat, and I will really vomit after eating. For example, sauerkraut, green onions, ginger, garlic, etc. For those who cannot adopt this method, the first method is recommended.
But what do you usually do when this kind of thing happens?
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Will eat a little, but not too much, symbolically coping with it, or tell them about other foods you are interested in. I really can't stand it, so I should tell them directly.
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Find a suitable time to explain your views and attitudes to them. First of all, thank you for their concern; Second, say why you don't want to eat and hope they understand. You will take care of yourself.
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I'll be honest with my parents that I don't like to eat these things and tell them not to cook them for me next time.
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My parents don't, they always cook what I like to eat, and I think sometimes parents may be good for your body, and there are some things that are good for the body.
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If your parents make you eat something you really don't want, here are a few ways to consider it:
Gradual acceptance: Some foods may take time to get used to, and you can try to accept them gradually. Try eating a little bit at first and slowly increasing the amount until you get used to it.
Communicate positively: Communicate positively with your parents and tell them why you don't like eating this stuff. If it's a matter of taste, tell your parents about your taste preferences, or try to come up with other alternative foods.
Try cooking: You can try your hand at making this food and learn how it's made and what ingredients it makes and how it tastes good.
Show gratitude: If you still end up having to eat something that you don't have to eat, try to face it with a positive attitude. Express your gratitude and try to make your parents feel your appreciation, and maybe they will prepare other foods for you that are more suitable for your taste.
In short, try to face your parents' demands with a positive attitude, communicate with them in a rational way, and find the best way to solve the problem.
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1.Give your opinion: Be as polite as possible by asking your parents what you don't like or hate, so that your parents know what you think.
2.Try to do it another way: Try to negotiate with your parents to see if you can make the food in a way that is more palatable, such as changing the fiber to a spice or ingredient.
3.Try a new taste: Sometimes you don't like a food because you're not familiar with its taste or characteristics, try a new taste, or ask your parents for advice on how to eat it.
4.Gratitude mentality: Although we sometimes encounter foods that we don't like, we need to learn to be grateful, because this is a sign that our parents care for us, and we should try our best to respect and obey.
In short, we need to learn to deal with things we don't like, try to solve them in a positive and rational way, and master the skills to deal with relationships so that we can better handle interpersonal relationships.
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If your parents make you eat something you really nasty, here are a few things you can do:
1.Be honest with your parents about your actual needs and preferences and let them know how you feel and think. If you don't want to talk to your parents directly because of relationships or other reasons, you can also talk to other trusted people, such as other family members, or even teachers or counselors.
2.Try to express your thoughts tactfully and let parents know that your rejection is not an attempt to disobey their wishes, but simply an attempt to meet their expectations in a way that is more suitable for you.
4.Understanding the nutritional content of foods and their importance to your health will give you a clear picture of why these foods are highly recommended by parents.
Ultimately, communicating with parents is the best way to address these kinds of issues. You can be honest with them about your thoughts and feelings, while trying to put them in the other's shoes rather than being attached to one side or another. This reduces conflicts and allows problems to be resolved.
First of all, I would like to express my understanding and sympathy, because I also have almost the same experience as you, I know that life in this situation is complicated and difficult, especially your biological grandmother in the same village, it can be said that the world is not chaotic, and at the same time, it can be seen that your adoptive parents are good people, they understand the feelings of your biological parents better because they adopted you, and always let you see your biological parents, which can also be said to be for your sake, but they don't understand that this is originally a love for you but embarrassed you and hurt you, I believe that few people can happily ask your questions, because the reality varies from person to person, so it is different to deal with it, my feeling is that the grace of parenting is greater than the grace of childbirth, the best of both worlds, and I can't have both, I choose adoptive parents, even if I am forced to return to my biological parents, I can never forget them who raised you, this topic is too complicated, it is difficult to explain and difficult.
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