Entering middle age, how can you get along well with your children?

In fact, many parents, especially women, are facing menopause after middle age, and the experience of getting along with their children must be particularly painful. The children's incomprehension combined with the husband's lack of concern caused their menopause to become more and more serious. ThatHow can we maintain the most harmonious relationship with our children, and even with our families?

That is to suggest that you can keep a bowl of soup at a distanceWhat is the distance of a bowl of soup? In fact, the distance of a bowl of soup is the intimate distance between hearts; It is a relationship that cannot be separated and broken.

In fact, in today's society, many parents choose to keep a certain distance from their children, and the first aspect is that they are afraid that their children will dislike them. Because children have children's lives, if we go directly to live with our children when we are old, we will face them face to face every day. There will definitely be a generation gap in life, so there will be quarrels about getting together.

The second aspect is the work factor of the children, so they can't be with them often, but this distance is a warming of emotions.

WhileProper distance is also for the happiness of the family；We all know that the current relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult to get along with, so keeping a distance is to be happy together; To put it bluntly, the distance of a bowl of soup is the distance of the heart, that is, you stand in front of me, I still care about you, but it is no longer so obvious, because someone will take care of you so much instead of me!

So I really want to say to some parents, produce a bowl of soup distance, because this is for ourselves, and even our children to have a better life, only work hard not to become a burden to them, to maintain such a distance, this is the best aspect of our parents!

Think more from your child's point of view.

Think more about what you thought when you were younger.

In the long course of life, whether it is raising or educating or supporting or supporting, as the age changes, a good relationship between parents and children is an important factor in maintaining and improving the mental health of family members and making the family happy and energetic.

Many parents are worried about their minor children, and even become helpless when they encounter some difficult things. The main reason is the lack of understanding of their children and the lack of scientific home education methods.

1. Excessive doting and accommodation. Parents relax their children's requirements for coarse and correct behavior, consciously or unconsciously make children develop "self-centered" behaviors, which promotes their selfishness, willfulness, recklessness, and lack of self-control.

2. Excessive protection and interference. Some parents do not fully understand the psychological characteristics of children's activity and curiosity, and do not understand the characteristics of their desire to explore the world more freely, restricting children's activities, making them timid, cowardly, afraid of difficulties, and lacking autonomy, enthusiasm and willpower.

3. Excessive arrangement and care. Some parents' love for their children is manifested in their refusal to let their children exercise, taking care of all things in life, study, and labor, so that children encounter difficulties, appear incompetent, and develop the inertia of dependence.

4. Excessively high expectations and requirements. Some parents go against their children's young minds and set excessively high demands on intellectual education according to their own expectations, resulting in excessive burdens on their children and even rebellious mentality, which directly damages the healthy development of their children's personalities.

Parents in the world, who doesn't love their children? In particular, motherly love is particularly strong. For the sake of their children's physical and mental health, parents should be loving but not spoiled, and strict in teaching rather than harsh.

Only when there is strictness in kindness, teaching in love, moderation of love, and strict character, can children cultivate good character and habits, and children can love and respect their parents, so that the love of parents and the respect of children are harmonious and harmonious, and the relationship is naturally very close.

Be good at making friends with children, make close friends, let children talk to their parents freely, deal with family affairs together, don't be afraid of disputes, respect children's ideas, and strive to achieve unity. We should do something, solve difficulties, and share the worries and joys of the family.