My girlfriend is going to break up with me because of family and teacher pressure, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-29
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You have to decide if you really love her, if you think of her. Then go to her and see what she thinks, whether it's really because of pressure, if so, then it's not a big deal, she doesn't really love you, it's good for you to let go; If not, then what? As long as you can be sure that you love each other, then carry on the love to the end!

    I have friends who have been obstructed by parents and teachers, but they withstood all the pressure and are still together, and now the two have begun to talk about marriage.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    From a girl's point of view, if she is thinking about the scorer with you, you should not try to redeem it, because it is very likely that the original beauty will be lost. Everyone has their own thoughts, and the opinions or pressures of others are only external factors, and it is the internal factors that can really determine her.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's a university, so teachers probably won't interfere with this issue. It's possible for parents, hehe.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't break up, if you miss it, it's gone, go for it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Friend, you can ask him what's wrong, I think he's probably angry now, I want to vent to you, you have to talk to him, if there's anything you can talk about, maybe it's an excuse to break up with you, think about it yourself, because there are many things that can't be thought of, and only he knows,

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Let's break up! Those are just excuses! (It's better to think that way).

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Emotional matters are very complicated and helpless

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    As a boyfriend, I may not be able to help my teacher's girlfriend with the problems she encounters at work. But we can take care of our girlfriend's daily life, such as tidying up the room, buying groceries, cooking and washing dishes, and a series of trivial things, so that our girlfriend has more time to solve the problems encountered at work, so as to reduce her stress. In addition, you can also take time to take your girlfriend to the movies, shopping, and eating food, which are all good ways to relieve stress; If you don't have enough time, just walk around the beautiful streets nearby, walk and talk together, guide your girlfriend to talk about the pressure she faces at work, achieve the purpose of release, and at the same time give advice with the mentality of a bystander and give some help within your ability.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The best way is to accompany your girlfriend more when she is resting, and usually prepare more lozenges for your girlfriend to protect your throat, so as to make your girlfriend's life more convenient.

    And my girlfriend is under a lot of pressure at school, and she generally likes to talk about the bad things she encounters in school, so you must listen carefully at this time.

    No matter what your girlfriend says, we have to stand firm, comfort your girlfriend and blame each other!

    While listening to your girlfriend's stress, your girlfriend's emotions will also be released.

    Then pour a glass of boiled water for your girlfriend, and you can easily release the pressure

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    After all, you're not a teacher either, so you don't know how to help him in his work. You can take advantage of his weekend when he has nothing to do, go to the amusement park with him, go shopping, watch a movie, and let him relax. You can also buy him something he likes, or when he gets off work, you cook him a good meal, all you can do is try not to add trouble to his work.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The profession of a teacher comes under a lot of pressure, with leaders, students, and parents. What you can help her with is not the problem of education, but the fact that she is low in mood when she encounters these pressures. At this time, you can communicate with him more, channel him some emotional problems, don't make him feel too burdened, spend more time with her, go out shopping with him, and relax.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Summary. Kiss, <>

    You can have a good chat with your girlfriend to see what kind of attitude he has, if his attitude is relatively hard, and he always wants to break up with you because his family, then what you say in the back has no effect, if he is not firm, and still wants to be with you, then you can talk to him, no matter what difficulties, the two of them discuss to solve, there will always be a time to overcome difficulties.

    Your girlfriend is breaking up with you because of your parents and teachers.

    My girlfriend broke up with me because of my parents and teachers.

    What am I going to do.

    Hello, happy to answer your questions<>

    If your girlfriend wants to break up with you because of your parents and teachers, you have to determine if you really love her first. Didn't you identify her? Then go to her and see how she pretends to be a key to watch, whether it's really because of pressure, if so, then it's okay to say, she doesn't really love you, it's good for you to let go.

    No, then dig love into the light and dig to the bottom of the hall.

    Kiss, <>

    You can have a good chat with your girlfriend to see what kind of attitude he has, if his attitude is relatively hard, always want to break up with you because of his family, then what you say in the back has no effect, if his attitude is not firm, and he still wants to be with you, then you can stand up and say to him, no matter what difficulties, two people discuss to solve, there will always be a time to overcome difficulties.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Seeing your question, I felt a shock in my heart, because I also came from a time like you, so I am willing to share my experience, and I hope that there are lovers in the world who will eventually become married.

    My boyfriend and I have been together since college, and we have known each other very well for four or five years now, from children to society. We were sure that we were in love with each other, so we planned to meet our parents after graduating from college, get engaged, and get married when we were more stable.

    The ideas are all good, but the reality is often cruel. When I met my parents, my parents disagreed, saying that he was too young to take care of me at all, and that it was too hasty to get engaged without a stable job. I was really torn between someone I had liked for many years and my parents who had raised me for many years.

    My boyfriend was also anxious because he was desperate for my parents' approval, so he had to keep trying to find a way. But he couldn't bear to hurt me, so he behaved calmly when facing me, for fear that I really didn't want him if I was under pressure. Later, he had a meal with my parents and learned that the problem was **.

    Later, they agreed that for half a year, as long as his monthly salary was over 8k, my parents would not object.

    My parents probably didn't really need his salary of 8,000 yuan a month, but wanted to see how far he could do with me.

    So the most important thing you should do is to find out what her parents' concerns are, and then conquer her parents through your own efforts, so that they can rest assured that their daughter will be handed over to you. Don't put too much pressure on your girlfriend at this time, because the pressure she is under comes from two sides, and she can't give up on both sides. Even if you can't comfort her, you need to be more understanding.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Find a way to talk to her parents and tell them that you have to be capable, that you are good, that you are sincere enough that they trust that you can give their daughter happiness.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Your girlfriend's work is stressful, it should be that your girlfriend is a strong, positive teacher, serious and responsible for her work, and has high requirements for students, you can usually chat with her more, take her out for a walk, watch movies, you can relieve the pressure, and the most important thing is to love her a little more, give her encouragement and comfort.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Take her out for a walk, and be sure to do a good job of relaxing. My girlfriend is a teacher, she works overtime a lot, and she has a lot of work pressure. I often ask her to go on outings on weekends, and she must go out for activities, not always at home, and see the outside world. Finally, I wish you all happiness.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You are so blessed! When I get married in the future, I can raise the next generation...

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Go home and listen to his complaints more and talk to him less, it's not easy to get it at school.

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