Am I stressing out a lot on my boyfriend? My boyfriend is stressed, what should I do?

What exactly does he think, only by asking him in person will he know that there are actually a lot of subtexts behind the breakup, which we need to think about and explore! Every breakup should be an experience that allows us to grow from it!

He may not only be referring to the economy, maybe it is because you have a stronger personality than him, he doesn't feel like a real man with you, and you may be the one who makes decisions and solves problems.

When you encounter the next relationship, it is recommended that you show weakness appropriately, don't show everything openly, take care of the man, people are spring-like, and if you are strong, he will naturally be weak. For example, when a couple of men and women go to a restaurant to eat, and the lady always preemptively speaks, orders, and consults with the waiter, then the man is naturally habitually on the passive side. Slowly, if he goes somewhere else in the future, maybe this man will no longer have the idea of taking the initiative, but will be at ease to stay under the umbrella opened by his girlfriend.

In fact, men have the desire to protect women, but when he feels that women don't need his protection, he no longer protects and takes care of them! So you should slow down and give him a chance to take care of you!

Tell him that you need him, tell him about your past, don't keep it, show that you are weak. Tell him that he didn't show it before because he felt that he should be self-reliant. But after leaving him, I found that my heart is actually very fragile and needs his comfort, you cherish the relationship between you very much, care about his feelings very much, and hope that he can stay by your side to care for you and love you.

Trust that if He loves you, he will come back to you.

You just talk to his friend, someone who knows him, to see if he thinks the same as you say, maybe your care, he feels that he is very unmanly, he wants you to rely on him, this dependence is not all dependence, it is emotional dependence, you have known him for so long, you should know him better, so go to him and sit down and tell him your inner thoughts, maybe it can reveal your inner confusion!!

It's better for a woman not to always complain to a man directly, I guess he just can't stand your complaints and leaves. If you can encourage him often, or have a high encouragement and evaluation of his existing struggles, your happy days are coming. Women have to be coquettish occasionally, remember that you are a woman.

Everyone longs to be cared for and loved.

According to you, your boyfriend is a very sympathetic, kind-hearted person.

Plus you're better than him, and he'll think a lot.

It's all broken up, so many questions, so much fun.

1. Understand what he does.

If you don't put yourself in his shoes, you won't understand him, and you won't be able to help him, because you may oppose a lot of his actions, and this will only increase his pressure, so you need a certain understanding, how to understand it? Of course, it's communication, and you have to reach a consensus on one thing.

2. Accompany him to exercise and decompress.

When your boyfriend sits and smokes or drinks because of pressure, it means that he has a lot of mental activity, and it is very annoying, you can directly pull him out for a walk or exercise, there are a number of studies that show that exercise can help people release stress, I think most people have a deep understanding of this, go out for a run, sweat, and the mood will be much better in an instant.

3. Travel and relax.

In addition to the usual exercise, you can also travel on specific holidays, which can not only release stress, but also enhance relationships. Traveling is a necessary activity for many people and families. As a girlfriend, if you find that your boyfriend is out of breath due to stress, you can consider finding a suitable holiday to take him out for a walk.

4. Let him play the game freely.

Most boys love to play games, if a boy will occasionally play after getting married, as a girlfriend should not be forbidden, because this shows that he is releasing pressure, the process of playing games is always happy, only the content of the game in his head, so the whole person will be more relaxed, don't think that he is not doing his job or too naïve, just make him happy.

If your boyfriend's personality changes due to stress, you can first guide him to talk more about the grievances and troubles in his heart, try to let him express himself more, and don't hide his thoughts in his heart. As long as he is willing to talk to you about his troubles, the pressure will be much less. At the same time, you should encourage him to participate in various social and recreational activities and turn his attention to other things, so that he will ignore his troubles for a while.

In addition, you can also accompany him for physical exercise, running, climbing, playing badminton, etc., which can release stress.

Yes, as long as you run the two supermarkets well, it shouldn't be difficult. You have to communicate more often, even if you can't buy a house and a car, you are just as happy, and you must have the idea that you can't buy it, so that there is not much pressure. Of course, if you have enough funds, buying is not a problem.

It's good to stay with him steadily, and if the two supermarkets are too busy, you can consider hiring someone to help. As long as two people work hard together, life will always get better.

Help him do what you can, first of all, give him enough company, he doesn't have a good dinner when he comes home, and having a warm home feeling is more important than anything else. There are also things in the store, if you don't know how to do it, just hire someone, and you can do what you are good at in the extra time.

Human emotions are staged, sometimes it is inevitable to fall into a trough, and when you get back on your feet, you will have an unexpected sense of achievement. If you are tired, it means that you are a person who does everything with your heart, and you are also a good man who is more responsible. Know that no matter what you do, there is never the best, but only better.

Take a break when you're tired! Relax and give yourself a vacation. There is a time when the boat sails into the harbor, and there is a time when the birds are tired and returns to the forest.

Firmly believe in a word, contentment and happiness!

First of all, do what you can do, and secondly, you can take your boyfriend to relax properly, and if you can't leave, watch a movie together, a combination of work and rest!

Buy a house and a car. Is it necessary to spend a lot of financial resources? Can't you live by renting a house or taking public transport?

Do your best, help him, work together.

It is advisable to use the cash register system, ask the staff and then do what they have to do!

Chat with him, take a walk, the pressure comes from the first, try your best to solve the problem at the source and go to the restaurant to have a good meal, what you want to eat.

Find a feeling of freedom.

There are many ways to decompress.

Eating bananas can reduce stress, and studies have found that bananas can help the body produce "happy hormones", reduce psychological stress, and relieve depression. Before a job interview, rushing to an exam room, or participating in a debate tournament, you may want to grab a banana to relieve tension and stabilize your mind.

Also, drinking plenty of water can also help de-stress.

When your boyfriend is under a lot of pressure, when you come home, all you have to do at this time is to accompany her. For example, if you pour him a glass of water, pull it down and say dear, I see if you have been under a lot of pressure at work in the past two days, and your mood is always very good. At this time, the man usually thinks that you understand her sentence and speaks through his mind.

At this time, although the man is very reluctant, he will say that the boss and I are the most important task, and then he starts to complain, at this time girlfriend you better go forward and comfort her, you can sit next to him, put your hand on his lap, and say honey drink a glass of water, it's okay, it will pass. It seems that you have been very anxious recently, and I understand you very well, maybe you are very worried about being criticized by your boss in this current state of stacking, and men will fall into deep thought when they hear it at this time.

Girl, you start to say further, since the problem can't be solved now, then we might as well relax, relax your body first, so that your body is not nervous. This way your body will be comfortable, your mind will be clear, and I am sure you will get through this period soon. I'm willing to accompany you, you see what you need me to do.

Hearing such a caring girlfriend talking, there are a few men who are not moved, and they may take the initiative to hug you at this time. Getting along with men and women is nothing more than trying to make each other understand themselves.

1. Learn to listen.

When your boyfriend confides in you that he is stressed at work, don't rush to comfort you, learn to listen first.

Listen carefully to the distress expressed by your boyfriend, understand the specific pressure of your boyfriend, try to "delay" a reply, and first brush up on what your boyfriend is expressing in your own brain.

Only by listening to the pressure expressed by your boyfriend can you put forward a more targeted solution and a better connection.

2. Catch your emotions.

Of course, not all the pressure, all the troubles we can help each other solve, and usually, we also feel powerless.

Then the most important thing at this time is that since you can't give a solution, then learn to catch the other party's emotions.

At the same time, we must also learn to recognize emotions and then give empathy accurately.

In this way, the other party can feel your understanding of him to a greater extent and obtain a certain degree of psychological comfort.

3. Warm comfort.

This is due to the long-term psychological pressure is relatively large, the spirit is in a high state of tension, the formation of a symptom, Chunqi recommends to relax the mood, maintain a good attitude, usually pay attention to more rest.

Why is there pressure, and what is the economic aspect.

Good morning, subject!

After reading your description, I feel that you really love your boyfriend and can tolerate some of his shortcomings, but at the same time, his personal pressure and irritability can easily affect your emotional state.

The subject repeatedly mentions that your boyfriend thinks you don't understand him, and you really try very hard to understand him and understand him, I think you are asking, do you really understand him? What can you do to make him feel that you really understand him?

I had a similar experience with your boyfriend's feelings. In the process of getting along with intimate relationships, I think it is very important for the person who is more nervous and anxious, of course, because my family's financial conditions are relatively poor, and I have had to earn my own living expenses since college. I can very well understand the state of your boyfriend's job is not stable and the family support is not enough, and I believe that the subject can also understand the impact of economic conditions on people.

The subject is a relatively optimistic person who is more confident about the future, which is not the same as your boyfriend. I think the real difference is here, when you persuade your boyfriend not to be too anxious and not too nervous, he may be thinking that you are denying his emotions and behaviors at this moment, because in his opinion, all the tension and anxiety are for a reason, how can you not be anxious and not nervous, obviously you can't substitute for his situation.

Even though he often says this, I believe that the subject still brings a lot of positive energy and a lot of security to my boyfriend. Maybe you can pay more attention to the way you express yourself, for example, empathize and express empathy, encourage your boyfriend to express his emotions more, just simply feedback his emotions to him, maybe he feels that you have understood him, rather than simply telling him not to be nervous, no need to be nervous, this may be more effective. Secondly, add a sentence, no matter what, I will accompany you, I am always there, let him feel your support for him.

Good luck getting better

Hug the subject, you can see from the text that you still love your boyfriend very much, you want him to be good, you hope he doesn't put too much pressure on yourself, I hope he can have a better temper and a calmer mentality.

Judging from the text, his boyfriend is a single-parent family, his father has never contacted him since he was very young, and his mother's family is not very good.

It can be seen that the boy is carrying a lot of things, or that his original family gives him insecurity, does not have much self-confidence in life, is not warm, lacks fighting and love.

As a result, he is now emotionally unstable, and he may not have learned how to deal with the relationship between his lover in his original family. So he is very afraid of losing your feelings, so he shows his lack of self-confidence.

In the face of the current situation, we may need to buy a house, raise children, support the elderly, personal growth and other problems in the future, and we may have a lot of uncertainties or feelings of unconfidence in our future.

In this case, when he faces many problems, he is prone to annoyance, annoyed by all kinds of unsatisfactory life, annoyed that his efforts are not understood by others, and will instead vent his negative feelings to you, maybe more often, he has not learned how to express love.

I don't know if the subject will consciously show in each other's lives, miss his parents, shed tears, his parents' love for him, and he still regrets coming to this city in his heart.

I am very envious of the living conditions of my classmates, and I hold my mobile phone to show each other, see who is doing well, go to **travel, go to **what to eat, etc.

He has expressed his dissatisfaction with his family, the environment in which he grew up in a single-parent family, and will bring it up.

Words such as expressing strong dissatisfaction with the current state of life, when will I be able to buy a house, and so on.

I believe that the subject loves her boyfriend very much, although he does not look very smooth in the eyes of others now, but you believe that you will live well in the future. You will take care of his wounded heart, and the unhappiness of the original mound court does not mean that your life will be unhappy. You will create a loving home for him, and you will make him feel your love with your actions.

In the process, you may be emotionally hurt by your loved one. I believe that your tolerance, tolerance and love will gradually warm his heart, which takes time, each other's efforts, and more importantly, you need wisdom to solve the emotional crisis faced by each other, and then resolve and reduce the trouble for yourself.

I can feel your love in every bit of the text.

Trust you!! I'm here, waiting for you!