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This actually depends on the individual, some people even if they have low self-esteem, they will not show any such thoughts, because in fact, they are so inferior that they dare not let others know that I am inferior, and some people are happy all day long, and they will take the initiative to communicate with others, and they will not resist community activities or anything, and even have the courage to laugh at themselves, and then generously admit their shortcomings, saying that I really can't do this, in fact, I know more clearly in my heart that it is better to admit it frankly, Maybe this will cause a little less objection, just take the example of a school I changed before, there is a friend who is not particularly familiar, but his behavior is obvious. I don't know if it's counted.,I'm nominated in class.,Always standing.,Just stumble or simply stare at the book.,I don't often take the initiative to participate in group activities.,And then others look for him or something very cautious.,The first kind of person I said.,It's probably more to be accommodated with society.,It's easier to be accepted.,But in private, it's actually equivalent to torturing yourself.,Because others won't know that you're probably an inferiority person.,So talk., Maybe not so much attention, but it's just such a person who is very sensitive, so there are a lot of things to think, sometimes I want to express and I'm scared, I will be said to be too unatmospheric, the second kind is probably the opposite, although many people say that the people around them should accept more, to get along more, but to be honest, people are not more willing to stay with the people they want to stay with, so they are more willing to fit in with their own more intimate circle, I don't know the second kind so well, but I'm the first kind of person, let me confess, Even from the tone of my voice, you can see that what I said is more neutral and hopeful, and it is less likely to be talked about by everyone, so...Actually, it's quite tiring.
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Introverted, as long as the mind is open, it is not difficult to live a wonderful life. I'm not an introvert, but in real life, I don't want to meet acquaintances or friends. Because there is nothing to say.
Nowadays, as long as you talk, it is either the house or the income, or the children or the past of the old sesame seeds. There's nothing new about it. Let's put it this way, I don't speak more than ten sentences a day now.
But I'm alive and well. Because, my mind is open. Read some idle books, write, draw, and carve a seal on a whim.
The most common are online games. It's very nourishing to live every day. Therefore, whether you are introverted or don't communicate with others, it's not a big deal.
Living yourself well is the comfort of life. But one thing is very important, that is, the brain hole cannot be closed. As long as you have something to do and an idea, life will be fun.
Every day, I feel that there is not enough time, and I am a wonderful life.
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Most introverts are introverts, introverts are just not good at socializing and talking to people, but they can be mentally extroverted, for example, cultivate their own interests and hobbies, and strive to have their own spiritual pursuits. Be a person with pursuits and ideals, and you can also be very outstanding! Secondly, introverts are often not good at words, but their hearts are very delicate, good at listening, is a good listener, can also make good friends, in short, introverts, if they have their own interests to pursue, their own ideals and ambitions, and persistence and pay, life is also sincere to the truth to others, can also achieve an excellent self, if you bloom, the breeze comes!
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I used to be a talkative, but then I became a familiar person. Now I have no interest in talking to anyone but my family and friends! My personal feelings, to strangers, except for their own privacy, you can say anything, bragging, lying, and ridiculing each other!
Anyway, we won't see each other again in the future, as long as we are happy! For colleagues, 3 points of truth, 5 points of reserve, and 2 points of leeway. It is best to focus on work and life.
To tell the truth, there are really few colleagues around us who are interested in our lives, except for people with ulterior motives! For the family, it is 7 points of truth and 3 points of leeway. When you want to say something, you must be cautious and don't hurt the other party!
5 points of truth to friends, 3 points of reserve, 2 points of leeway. The topic can be a vast sky, it can be work, interests, ideals and life. But don't touch the other party's bottom line and privacy!
By the way, magpies and eagles, standing at the top of the food chain does not depend on who calls Huan!
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I guess I'm an introvert. But sometimes I'm willing to take the initiative to talk to people, when I'm in a good mood, I'm a friend, and when I'm in a bad mood, I'm a stranger, but when I don't wear makeup, I feel inferior, because I feel fat and ugly, and to be honest, I just feel that I'm not good anyway. But I will not give up on myself, I am not willing to fall, I set goals for myself, find directions, and I will have a small sense of accomplishment and satisfaction in this direction.
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Introversion and incompetence are two different things, and there is no conflict with self-improvement, I just feel that because I don't have much socialization, I have a lot of time to do what I want to do. Introversion doesn't prevent a person from working hard for himself, and I'm no different from others except for the lack of social interaction.
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Tell me about myself......Because I was introverted, I didn't have any friends around me, and then I always felt that I was doing something wrong, and I kept reflecting on myself, and then my psychology was really bad for a while, and my body was not very good, and now I have anxiety ......Still being adjusted.
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Their lives are very boring, they even have to tremble when they talk to people, and their lives are very timid and boring.
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They live a low-key life, they speak and do things very low-key, and do not take the initiative to talk to others.
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They are alone and don't communicate with anyone, and even when someone occasionally communicates with them, they don't talk much.
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I think these people should change their personality, because introverts will suffer a lot if they don't communicate with others in life, and such people will not have many benefits, so at this time, they must change their personality and communicate with others more.
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For introverts, you should enlighten yourself, there is nothing wrong with it, you can take the initiative to play with friends, participate in activities, go out and travel, so that life is good.
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They should find someone they like and have a cute pet in order to live happily.
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OK. Clause. 1. Low demand for socialization.
Carl Jung pointed out in his research that introverted people have a very low need for social interaction, and they do not need to socialize in their lives, nor do they get pleasure from socializing.
They rely mainly on their own thoughts and spirits in life to gain self-identity and self-satisfaction. This type of person has an extremely rich inner world, but they just don't like to share it with others.
They like to be alone, like to think, like to be immersed in their own world, so they are more oblivious to external influences and stimuli, and show a low need for social interaction.
Due to the requirements of modern society for people, extroverts and eloquent people are more able to be recognized by others, therefore, in the eyes of most people, introverts are not easy to socialize, and they are a kind of character with defects, and they cannot leave a good impression on others.
Therefore, there are many introverts who want to take the initiative to change their "flawed" personality when they realize this.
Clause. Second, socializing will make introverts "high energy consumption".
It turns out that forcing introverts to fit into a wide variety of social situations is an "energy-intensive behavior" that can be extremely painful for them.
For those who are not socially adept, forcibly socializing with others can take a lot of energy, and forcing introverts to socialize frequently will only make them resistant.
Psychologists point out that introverts do not need to be forced to socialize too much, because they do not need to socialize too much with too many people.
So, where do introverts get their self-satisfaction? Psychologists point out that introverts only need "self-interaction".
The concept of self-interaction was first proposed by Brumore, in which self-interaction is described as a process of self-consciousness formation and awakening, which ultimately leads to the emergence of a sense of self-identity in the individual. And it is this sense of self-identity that satisfies the inner needs of introverts.
Therefore, introverts do not need to go through socializing, information interaction, etc. to achieve inner satisfaction.
In this way, even if they do not participate in all kinds of social interactions, they can build a relatively close "social connection" of self-centeredness in their hearts, and naturally, they will feel tired and disgusted by the complicated social interactions in reality. Therefore, in life, they prefer to leave time for themselves alone.
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