After a breakup, I hate it in my heart, and many people only understand regret after a breakup, why

Understand your thoughts, after all, once loved deeply! If you have paid true feelings, you naturally hope to be long-lasting!

But the world is like this, nothing is certain, so when we have it we cherish it, we lose it we are relieved. Don't hate him, because he used to be your favorite, if you love, there is kindness, hatred has no meaning, the only effect is to make you more miserable! Why bother?

Now that you have separated, it will hurt if you are a little chic, but don't torture yourself with this pain anymore, if you are separated, it will prove that it is not suitable, why do you care if it is not suitable?

As for the first time, I think everyone is an adult, so you can take responsibility for what you have done, and you don't have to worry too much! You are still you, as long as you want to live a good life, no one has the right to take it away!!

Although I am a man, I think some men are really irresponsible, and you! I said, how can you sell yourself!

I don't know exactly why, but since some things have already been done, don't regret it. The sun will still rise tomorrow! Let go of the past, facing today, each of us has a lot to do!

Remember the old saying: If you want an hour of happiness, please go to a nap; If you want a whole day of happiness, go shopping; If you want a week of happiness, go on vacation; Want a month of happiness. Please go and get married; If you want a year of happiness, please go and inherit the inheritance; If you want a lifetime of happiness, please help others!!

Time will dilute everything! I didn't think so at once, but after I was in a relationship, I believed it! So it would be beautiful to put it down!

There is no hate in love, only love If you didn't want to love at the beginning, would you be together You broke up It's him who is sorry for you Breaking up is a good thing for you Aren't you looking at Qing now What kind of person is he Miss You will find a better love.

Think of the present as another starting point.

Many people may not have thought it through when they end a relationship, and they may not be able to fully analyze the consequences of a breakup. When we end a relationship, we may feel relaxed for a short period of time, but when it gets longer, we may feel particularly sad and regretful.

There are a lot of people who don't necessarily want to really break up, they are just a momentary emotion, and it is also just a spur of the moment, and when they can come back to their senses, they may salvage the relationship. Many people only understand regret after a breakup, why is that? I think there are three reasons:

1. I don't know how to be blessed in the midst of blessings.

I think the reason why many people regret it after a breakup is because there are many people who are in the midst of happiness and do not know the blessings, they may feel particularly bored in the process of falling in love, and they are not able to let themselves look at their other half in a more objective and neutral attitude, they may not be satisfied with their other half, and they may not be able to let themselves find the advantages of the other half, and they will regret it because they can see the advantages of the other half after the breakup. <>

Second, I understand the importance of my ex after the breakup.

I think the other reason is that a lot of people don't realize how important their ex is until after a breakup. They don't necessarily value their ex more when they're with their ex, and they don't appreciate their ex more, and they may think about their ex from time to time after a breakup, so they regret it. <>

3. After breaking up, you can experience the previous happiness.

Many people are not able to feel true happiness in a relationship, and they may not be able to communicate and communicate more closely with their ex, they may have more conflicts, and they may not be able to solve the problems between two people, but they can experience the previous happiness after the breakup, and they can also experience true love, so they will regret it. <>

These are the three reasons I analyzed.

This is because after the breakup you have the opportunity to be alone, thinking about the feelings between you and how good he is for you, so you will regret it.

The original breakup was because of the conflict between the two people, but because they were more emotional at the time, they did not deal with the conflict, so the two people broke up, and when they calmed down, they knew that they regretted it.

This is when you don't know how to cherish it, only when you lose it will you know the good of the other party, many people feel that the other party is the person they love the most after breaking up, and only then do you know that you regret it, I'm afraid it's too late.

Because I didn't cherish it when I got it, I felt that the other party was really important when I lost it, and the other party was also a very good person, so I woke up.

Some people only understand regret after a breakup, why is that? Generally, only after a breakup will you think about the good of the other party, so you will feel regretful, which is human nature.

This is because many people miss each other after a breakup, but by this time it is already too late, so it is useless to regret it.

After many couples break up, the last thing they understand is how naïve they were at the beginning, and they actually missed each other's most loved ones for the sake of a trace of temper.

Because there are many people who don't take their feelings very seriously, they will only have a playful mentality, so this situation will occur.

When they break up, they are all angry, and most of them have calmed down after the breakup, and then in every bit of life, they will think of the other party's goodness and regret it.

In fact, to tell the truth, love has been painful, it is not easy to completely forget, and there are a few people who can really forget, it may be absolutely impossible, and they are also deceiving themselves, some memories can only be buried deep in the heart forever, just use time to slowly forget, learn to give up. Some people or some things, inadvertently missed or lost in the years of time, occasionally pick up the memories, will spontaneously give birth to a wisp of romantic feelings recalling the past, it contains a sense of seeing things and thinking about people, the sigh of the past. Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go, letting go is a helpless despair, and it hurts my heart.

When the people who once really loved the release of life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized that what they thought was eternally long, in fact, it was just a meeting in Pingshui. I once thought that I could hold hands all the way down like this, but let go to understand that everything is just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, when everything disappears, the parallel lines are still parallel, even if they are not far apart, it is also the end of the world, the price of bravery is to let go of themselves first, admit failure, accept helplessness, sigh softly, helplessly wish them happiness, from then on, if the heart stops, it is difficult to make waves. In fact, it is impossible to completely forget a person quickly, and it is also deceiving yourself, just keeping the deep affection in the memory and forgetting the pain of the past, because the most beautiful blessing is to remember a person, the best hard work is to think of a person will cry, the greatest satisfaction is what you give, and love will become unforgettable after suffering something. --

If you love him, don't hate her