SOS SOS! Emotional problems chasing girls!

Updated on society 2024-02-26
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hehe. My experience is exactly the same as yours, I also started playing with him after I met him, I confessed, and he also said that he wanted to think. He also said that he was not worthy of me.

    I was depressed, I didn't know why, and I liked him too. But we have always been friends, I know that I was chasing last month, I asked him why, he said that he would think a lot, there are family reasons, etc., I now know that falling in love, unlike what we men think, if you like it, you will chase, and some good girls think more problems, you can only wait slowly. Surprise him but don't be too direct, friends do better and better, and when one day he will feel bored without you, brother I can congratulate you, the time has come, but as a man you have to give her responsibility and care.

    Remember to wait until this time to take him to ride the Ferris wheel at dusk. Or a cable car will do. Alone together.

    A bouquet of flowers is hidden in a quiet part of the park. Trick her into picking it for her.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    According to what you said, he still has a certain affection for you, but for some reason, he doesn't want to continue to develop with you, if you really like it, work hard, and move her with practical actions! I wish you success

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Maybe he really doesn't call you and treats you as a girlfriend I'm like this to my buddies After a long time, they will understand me So don't blame me Every time we have a good time, after that, there is a cold period, and then the next time you play, it's still the same This has nothing to do with feelings It's just lonely people together to relieve boredom.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    ThisThisI don't want to nag too much, but feelings really can't be reluctantly dropped.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    First of all, I am also an Aquarius, and the bottle woman is indeed surprised by the sudden confession, but, as for the nervousness, I never speak to you again, I dare not look directly and so on, either I am shy, or your appearance is really an error in 2012. Either his refusal, or you came too suddenly, you! It's you.

    Have confidence, ask to understand, a manly husband, if you can't, give up, be a good friend, a bosom friend, a confidant, her BF dares to bully her, you definitely won't endure it, right?! So, it's better to be her dependent. She's happy, aren't you happy...

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    First, from the above situation, she likes you, and she talks to the whole class, but she doesn't talk to you, which is a phenomenon that attracts your attention.

    Second, if you confess to her, she neither refused nor agreed, which means that she does not resist you and waits for your "onslaught".

    Third, a big man, if you like it, don't grind it anymore. Even if you get a "no".

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think she has feelings for you! And it's the same way you first felt about her!

    Don't give up, a woman is afraid of getting hurt, she will try to discover you! The reason why there is that series of behaviors is because she wants to test your attitude towards her! Depth!

    She must be good at studying (or working), and if she wants to maintain the status quo and not want to be disturbed, she has already planned a goal for the time being.

    She's also choosing, considering! Because of your appearance, she will definitely put the experience on your side! However, she also wants to maintain her unchanging goals!

    Try harder! Iron rods can be sharpened into needles! Brother support you!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Not long ago, I had the same experience, the boy who was very chatty suddenly confessed to me, which made me feel very embarrassed, I didn't feel this way for her, but I didn't want to lose this friend, after all, we really got along well, so I had to subconsciously see less and text less to avoid embarrassment, hoping that this matter would pass quickly and we could continue to be friends.

    Your situation is very similar to what I have encountered, and after you confess to the girl, if she is interesting to you, she will indeed be reserved for a while, but she will never be hot and cold, but you will find that she is more gentle than before, because subconsciously she will want to make a good impression on you.

    So, either hurry up the chase or quickly give up and return to the position of a friend, ambiguous not everyone can handle it well.

    Good luck

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You ask her directly, maybe she really has her reasons for insisting on herself. However, you can't grieve yourself. So it's better to be direct.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Maybe she had a good impression of you before.,After confessing, she felt that what was too easy to get wasn't very good.,Just。。。

    But you have to take practical action, and stick to it for a long time, girls are easy to impress. The main thing is four words: take the initiative and persist.

    It's easy to say, it's hard to do, you can do it yourself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    "Comrades, I didn't like a girl so much before, should I give up now? Do I still have a play? "

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Did you know she's shy? And she doesn't seem to want to be your girlfriend very much, the reason why she is giggling with you is because she wants to hide what you used to say, she wants to forget, no, the mood of the bottle girl is incomprehensible!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    She tells you about her past, and these things may be the key to what you need to think about.

    She loves you, hehe!

    But you won't get her, and if you want to get it, you have to wait many years before we meet again!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I'm a girl, I know, she has feelings for you, but how to say it, she has his reasons, and you haven't fully opened her heart yet.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I like you, but there are things in my heart that I can't let go, so you should find a time to talk to her.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    She cares about you, but what she cares about is the friendship between you, maybe she insists that friendship lasts longer than love, and some people are suitable to be friends for life, because she cherishes the encounter with you.

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