Regarding the question of blind dates, girls should pay attention to the problems of blind dates

It is not good for you to measure a woman's work by your man's income, everyone thinks about problems in different ways and looks at problems from different angles and positions, and has different requirements for themselves, and you can't use your own requirements to ask your other partner.

Since it is a blind date girl, it means that you are introduced to a blind date through acquaintances or relatives, then she also knows your family background and social status, and it is impossible for her to not know that your family works in the hospital, and she mentions her family's situation to you to test whether you are interesting to him? At the same time, she also wants to use your family relationship to see if you can waive the hospitalization fee or something, I remind the landlord that the girl who has stayed in the big city is generally experienced, don't think that your other partner is not as smart as you.

Because of his experience of working in a big city, I generally think that this lady will not be simple, there is no pie in the world, she took the initiative to talk to you, is to show that she is interested in you, look at you below, I think you are a man who can give her the life she wants, if you can't give her what she wants, then she will not take the initiative to contact you.

She told you that she wanted to make sure that you meant that to her, to see if you could give help or comfort, and she told you that she wanted to see what you really meant.

Through your family background and workplace employment, I think you are a responsible man who can give her the life she wants, and I judge that the age of the blind date girl of the landlord is about 25 or higher than 25.

The salary at home will naturally be much less than the salary in the big city outside, you say too little, people still think you are affirming what she is saying, so like this kind of girl, you just tell people if you want to consider changing jobs, isn't it better to be direct?

There is also a teenager, people just tell you about her current situation, don't think too much, don't impose your own thoughts on others.

Having said that, in a word, you just have no interest in others, and if you do, you want to know her very much. But as a boy, be a gentleman, don't think about things, let alone judge others. ok？

<> "Problems that girls should pay attention to on blind dates.

After adding VX, briefly understand the other party's preferences, don't involve privacy, don't talk too deeply, and don't make an appointment to meet as soon as possible for more than three days! (if you want to know more deeply).

1. Don't make an appointment to eat the first time you meet in the palace, make an appointment with a café or milk tea shop, the first time you meet depends on the man's appearance and temperament, don't think about knowing a lot, look at her way of thinking and expression skills through chatting, if you feel good, you can make an appointment to eat, if the other party does not refuse to say that it feels OK to you, then you should pay attention to table manners when eating, and see if the other party will take care of you and whether the tastes of the two are similar

2. Don't make an appointment for dinner for the second time, make an appointment in the playground or escape room and other lucky relatives. You can take a look at his on-the-spot adaptability and his exploration of unknown projects, and you can choose some sports, badminton and the like, to see how well the two of you have a tacit understanding.

3. When you meet for the third time, you can choose to go shopping this time, pick clothes and the like to investigate the other party's consumption concept, which is very important!

If the blind date is just to eat and watch movies, then you don't know the whole thing about this person, according to these three steps, you know basically all aspects in your heart, and you will know whether it is suitable for you

In the process of blind date with a girl, if the girl has the following actions, it proves that she does not fancy you and does not want to have further contact with you!

<>1. Always talk about various considerations.

If the two meet and chat, the female ant Huifang said I will go back and think about it, or discuss it, and then make a decision. If so, then you're almost out of luck, and you don't have any hope. Girls are generally embarrassed to reject you directly, which is to save some face for you.

2. Absent-mindedness when chatting with you.

When chatting with you, even if you say a lot of things, you can't arouse her interest, and the whole blind date process is absent-minded.

3. After chatting, the woman will not say goodbye to you.

After you finished chatting, the woman walked in front of you and didn't even say goodbye to you, indicating that she didn't have good ideas for you.

4. Always look at the time.

Being with you may feel very boring and think that it is a waste of time, so you may often look at the time, which is enough to show that you are not enthusiastic about this blind date.

5. Shake your head or frown often when talking to you.

During the conversation with you, as long as you say something, she will frown, indicating that she does not agree with what you say, and has no good thoughts about you.

6. Deliberately do not leave ** for you.

In order not to have the next step of development with you, when you say to stay a**, they will reject you with various reasons and excuses.

In fact, if you want to gain the favor of the other party and even succeed when you go on a blind date with a girl, you have to pay attention to some methods!

Point 1: Pay attention to your own image.

Maintaining a good image is the basic skill that each of us must do, of course, in addition to blind dates, we must also maintain our own image at work. It's important to choose a decent outfit and a clean and crisp hairstyle. It is best to choose a hairstyle that is suitable for your age, and it is best to choose some more mature and stable clothing.

A casual suit is a great choice that shows how much we value the blind date, but at the same time doesn't give people a too rigid feeling.

Point 2: Pay attention to speech and behavior.

When you meet for the first time, you must talk about all aspects, and a person's cultivation and morality can be seen through chatting. So when chatting with girls, be sure to pay attention to your speech and behavior. In fact, the reason is very simple, as long as we can relax ourselves, behave naturally, and look into each other's orange sail eyes when we speak.

Being too nervous can lead us to say the wrong thing or even make some inexplicable little gestures, which can affect the impression of people.

The third point: learn to give people a sense of security.

When we met for the first time, we weren't familiar enough with each other. At this time, the other party is still relatively unfamiliar with our personality and character, so this time is also the best time for us to establish a personality. You must know that what girls lack most is a sense of security, and what they hate the most is stuffy oil bottles.

Therefore, we need to give the other person a sense of security, so as to inspire the other person to continue to associate with us.