When did you start the love you were looking forward to, and you were no longer extravagant?

After going through the ordeal. In our lives, we need to experience some things to be able to know what our life is like, and to know how difficult it is to live a good life as an ordinary person. We need to go through all kinds of tribulations in our lives, and it is precisely because these tribulations continue to hone our willpower, constantly hit us, and make us face life and continue to move forward.

After experiencing the following three things, I realized that life is very difficult.

1. The death of parents. I think one of the most painful things for all children is that they want to raise their children but don't treat them, especially when their parents are sick and hospitalized, but they can't do anything, and when they have passed away, they know that they have no home in this world, and have become a duckweed, as the so-called only where the parents are is home. When you no longer have a shelter from the wind and rain, you will feel very sad, it turns out that life is so difficult, and you can only go alone.

2. The failure of marriage. Marriage is often not as simple as it seems, and many times in marriage you need to invest more time and energy to manage your marriage, once there is a mistake in any link, it means that the marriage is likely to fail. In the process of getting along with two people, even if they don't have any fault, it is the other party's mistake that leads to the failure of the marriage, but people will make themselves feel very self-blamed, and they will feel that life is very difficult, why can't they even manage their marriage well.

3. Failure of the cause. When I failed to start my own business, I suddenly became embarrassed from the once rich life, experienced great joy and sorrow, and fell from heaven to hell when I realized that life was so difficult, and how difficult it was to have a successful life and a happy life. There are all kinds of variables in our lives, and these variables are beyond our grasp.

Since I graduated from college, I have no longer expected love, let alone luxury, because the social pressure is too great, which has made me understand a lot of truths.

It may be that after I have become older and older, so the relationship has become very extravagant, and making myself happy and happy is actually the most important thing, whether or not there is the company of emotional love.

Before the age of 30, I was a little girl, and I always looked forward to Prince Charming, but after 30, I became very rich and experienced a relationship, and love was not extravagant.

After getting married, I encountered a lot of things after getting married, but his performance was not satisfactory, which made me disappointed in him and no longer had extravagant love.

I should have waited for a long time, but I still haven't found someone I like, so I don't look forward to love anymore.

Probably after suffering a love injury, I no longer have expectations for love, but I feel that it doesn't matter if I love or not, as long as I find a suitable person, the other party is good to me, so I really execute.

When I was young, I didn't understand love, and at that time I thought that love was all we had, so when I reached the age when I could talk about love, I fell madly in love with a person, and at that time my eyes were all each other, and I loved each other unreservedly, and overdrew all my love, at that time, I always felt that this was love, although it was not as beautiful as I imagined, but this was my first love, especially cherished, and extraordinarily baby, but even if you love someone so hard, Even if you hold all your sincerity in front of the other person.

But people are not rare, people don't need your sincerity, and they don't need your love so hard, you talk about the love of a lifetime, but people talk about the love that arises spontaneously, so in the end it is you who are hurt, the first time you love someone so much, you are so hurt so cold, it is really difficult to fall in love with anyone again.

Because I once thought that love was only sweet, I thought that love should only be sweet, but I didn't expect that love was more bitter and painful, and I didn't want to mention love anymore, and because I had advanced too much love, I didn't have much strength to fall in love with another person.

So then I had no expectations for love, no longer expected love to come, no longer expected love to bloom, just hoped that when I reached the age, I could meet a suitable person, meet someone who really liked me, and then treat me well, so I got married and had children.

And then when I got older, I did it, found a suitable person, talked about love for two or three months, and then got married and had children, I don't think there's anything bad about it, compared to the love that hurts people at those moments, I think this kind of life is actually very good.

From the beginning when it involves two families, it is beautiful to fall in love, but when it comes to two families, it feels a little powerless.

After my ex ran away with another man, I had no expectations for love, I felt that love was complete nonsense, and there was no true love in the world at all.

I have been thinking about a girl carefully for many years, but in the end I got a sentence that she didn't think I liked her much. Since then, there has been little expectation of love.

When I gave birth to his second child, during the confinement, when the child cried at night and didn't hear me beat, I no longer had expectations for love. There is nothing more disappointing than that.

After I broke up with my ex, I didn't expect love anymore, because I felt that love must have material factors mixed in with it, and it will not be so pure.

The moment I split my legs with my boyfriend in a relationship, I no longer had any expectations for love.

Since getting married, because I have personally experienced the transformation from strong love to plain family affection, love is a bubble.

It should be that when I was deceived by a scumbag again, it made me feel that I no longer had expectations for love.

I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years, but I didn't expect him to empathize with me, and this incident hit me very hard, so I no longer have expectations for love from this incident.

I was disappointed in love after three bad relationships, and now I feel like I'm good to be single and free.

From the moment I was broken up, I felt that I no longer had expectations for love, and I felt that love was nothing more than that, it was all a lie.

If you don't call each other back, I was completely disappointed in love at that moment, and no matter how good the relationship is, it will eventually disappear.

When I got divorced, I lost confidence in love, and I no longer expected any love, and I felt that love was really unreliable.