When did you feel that love was not so important?

There were many times when he did a lot of things that made me lose hope in love.

At the beginning, he was very kind to me, whether he was happy or unhappy, he would share with me as soon as possible, and when I wanted to eat supper in the middle of the night, he would not hesitate to get up and go downstairs to buy me something delicious. He remembered my menstrual period every month, and on those days of each month, he would be by my side to boil brown sugar water for me, and almost blew up our kitchen; He remembers every anniversary we had together, and on the day of the festival I would receive his carefully selected roses; When I'm unhappy, no matter how busy he is, he will run to my side as soon as possible and give me his most stable shoulder, and I always feel that I am happy because he has become very happy.

But gradually I found that he became more and more impatient, and he didn't seem to be the same person anymore. Once, for some reason, I urgently needed money and I wanted him to lend me some of his savings, and I said that if I borrowed it, I would definitely pay him back exactly what I borrowed, but I didn't expect him to hesitate for a long time, and finally refused, he lied to me and said that he had spent all the money, but I knew very well how much money he had on his bank card. If you don't borrow, don't borrow.

What I care about the most is his changes, and it is precisely because I have seen the way he looks when he loves me very much, and I know very well what he looks like when he doesn't love me. So in the end we parted ways, this relationship hurt me a lot, it took me a long time to come out, he used to make me feel the happiness of love, but also made me lose hope in love for a while.

Sometimes it's better to have a boyfriend than to have a dog, which is warm and cute.

When I have my own circle of friends, I don't think it's a very important thing to have a boyfriend, after all, when I have my advantage, as long as I talk about it in the group, there will be many people who come to help me give advice, and I don't have to carry it alone when I'm sad.

After going through calculations and betrayals, I feel that love is not so important. With the growth of time, with the growth of years, with the growth of experience, you will feel more and more that love is a very unreliable thing, but also a very unimportant thing, when you have experienced the process of acquaintance and love, until the calculation and quarrel, endless quarrels to separation, after this process, you will feel that love is not so important at all, and in the end the person who lives with you is not the person in love at all.

If you look at everything and look down, you will think that maybe love is really not that important, after experiencing too much betrayal, deception, or despair on a certain thing, love once made me imagine that it was particularly beautiful, and I always experienced too many disappointments, and slowly I was vague about love.

After experiencing the ups and downs of life, I often feel that the things I once valued are not so important, such as life and death and the illness of relatives. Sometimes I always feel that love is all that people have, this concept is wrong, often after experiencing a life and death parting, you will know that in fact, the health of yourself and your relatives is often much more important than love.

After experiencing betrayal, I thought we were the happiest couple, from the sweetness of the beginning of love, to the gradual indifference, speechless, not speculative, but I still tried to save, but he gave up, I saw something, it's time to give up, love, I may not believe it in this life, the appearance of love has made me the happiest person in the world, and it has also made me the most indifferent person

After experiencing the economic pressure of the family, I feel that I understand that love cannot be eaten, so people come to the world, love is just a game, don't think about it with some emotional problems, the important thing in life is to have experience, strength, without these supports, nothing is perfect, you can't take money to parents, give children what they need, the expression of love, so don't waste too much time to talk about love, improve your ability to make money is the most important, only to have love, family affection!

Generally, after getting married, you begin to repeat the same life rules every day, in the trivial things of daily life and face some pressure in life, and the other party may no longer be as motivated as before marriage after marriage, or it is possible that the husband and wife are angry and annoyed after quarreling because of some trivial things, these situations are easy to lose information about life and no longer take love so seriously.

For example, when you are most helpless and need the company of others, but your boyfriend is not around, and you will not care about yourself in time. Always obscure about their own affairs, very cold and even ignore themselves. On the contrary, when your friends care more about you than your boyfriend, you will feel that friendship is much more important than love.

When you find out that your boyfriend is trying to step on two boats and enjoy the blessings of everyone. You may just know that when your boyfriend tried to step on two boats, love suddenly changed its taste, once you and his sweetness were like the past fluttering in the wind, everything you and him will make you feel uncomfortable, at this time, the status of love is low, there are more men, why hold on to this kind of man, the man who can't be caught is like the sand in his hand, since I can't catch it, then I will raise it, at this time I will not feel that love is still a beautiful thing.

After getting marriedI don't think love is really very important. Of course, it's not that married life doesn't need love, but in addition to love, if you want to live a happy life, you need to meet many factors. For example, stable economic conditions, harmonious family relationships, and the same concept of life as your lover, etc.

Love is one of the essential elements of marriage。Before getting married, lovers think that there must be love in order to enter into marriage. Because only by entering into marriage with the person you love can you live a happy life.

Such a concept is of course correct, after all, two different individuals live in the same family, and if there is no love as the glue, there will be many irreconcilable conflicts and contradictions in life. Only by loving each other can we tolerate each other's shortcomings and faults. Therefore, marriage must have love.

But love is also strong and light, and a happy marriage does not necessarily have strong love. Some people love so much that they regard their lover as the most important person in their lives, and such a life may not necessarily lead to happiness. Because marriage not only has lovers, but also parents and children, only when you pay attention to your lover, you also have the energy to pay attention to others, so that your life can be harmonious and happy.

In addition to love, a happy life needs other factors to support。As the saying goes, poor couples mourn everything. This means that even if the husband and wife love each other deeply, if they live in poverty, there will be conflicts in life, big and small.

This is also the reason why people have to weigh the economic foundation of both parties before getting married, after all, human beings are only qualified to talk about spiritual needs if they can maintain basic living needs. In addition to finance and love, married life also includes interpersonal interactions, such as relationships with each other's families. If you don't get along well with your in-laws, even if the relationship between the husband and wife is good, conflicts will arise over time.

After all, the lover and the parents are at both ends of the scale, the palms and backs of the hands are full of meat, if the two do not get along well, life cannot be perfect and happy.

Therefore, if you want to live a happy life, in addition to paying attention to the relationship with your lover, you should also pay attention to the economic level and pay attention to interpersonal communication.

After falling out of love, I feel that love is not very important.

When watching Master Xuanmen, Zi Liuli used a thousand machine hexagrams to calculate the future of her and Zhang Ling, and gave a six-word answer: I don't know until I lose it.

Before falling in love, I had the idea of a little girl, thinking that love is the most sacred, the sweetest, I am full of longing for love, when I first taste the forbidden fruit of love, the heart of the first acquaintance, the blush of emotion, the patience of lovesickness, etc., and the last hysteria, just like that sentence, I don't know what to do, and I go deep and ......

The winter of 2020, the turbulent epidemic that year, the online classes of that year, the heartbeat of that year, the sweetness of that year, the love of that year, I like him, I want Sherlock Holmes if I like it, pay attention to all kinds of details, I am afraid that he will not like me anymore, I am afraid that he will leave, I am in love with him in my third year of high school that year, school starts in May, the epidemic is under control, school starts as usual, we are over, the short and not like love love, let me fall into it, when I quarrel, I stay up at night, wait for a person's news, The space is a sad copy, childish and ridiculous.

Then, I lost him, insomnia, nausea, I don't want to study, I hate him, but I can't forget him, I think after the loss I understand what love is, love is not the whole of life, without his days, I don't affect at all, it's still normal, love and the end is not the same whether they are together, like is the emotion, the mood will change, and the most stable person is the sense of need.

But I know that if I don't have a stable economy, I can't rely on anyone, I can only rely on myself, and love is just an additive in life, and from this time I feel that love is not very important.

Many of my friends and classmates will choose to divorce soon after they get married, and their lives will change dramatically after marriage, and I feel that love is not very important at this time.

It is the result of many relationship failures, and then I feel that love and non-love are not so important, and no matter how much I like them, people may be separated.

When I was about to get married, I felt that love was not as important as I thought, and love was worthless in the face of money.

From the time I stepped into the grave of marriage, in fact, my love has been going downhill, and when I was busy with firewood, rice, oil and salt, and children's education alone, my love has ended, at this time, love is actually not a beautiful thing for me, but a shame, what I have worked hard to pay for, in my opinion, is a joke, from this day on, love is the source of my pain.

At this time, love is far less important, and it is not a necessity, at that time I realized the pure rolling and deep love of my parents, because I have my own children, I understand, blood is thicker than water, and I feel more and more that love is worthless.

When I knew that love was not so important, I really couldn't abandon him easily, and I had to think about my children, so life was always in conflict.

Therefore, brave people are still willing to respect their hearts, and will be brave to end such a marriage, such a love, and will not be bitten by a snake once, and ten years of fear of the well rope to bravely pursue new happiness, so if there is such a marriage, such a love, the brave end, to meet the new beginning, is the best choice.

The Wu Tuanjia seems to think that you don't attach so much importance to love, and feel that love is not as important to you as oranges, so people want to ask when it started, then you should say that I don't know either, it seems that it is like this unconsciously.

In fact, love has always been very important. It's just that when some people are older, she feels that love and family are a kind of constraint for him. So he doesn't want to be bound by his family, and wants to get rid of this realization of absolute freedom.

That's why they feel that love is not important. Even if a person dies, love is indispensable to him, and it is also the greatest comfort to the soul, otherwise he will have no family affection. Because he will not have offspring at all.

Since I was 35 years old, I began to feel that love is not very important, because I have been single for almost half my life, and I am already very old to many children of my age, which makes me feel that love is actually not very important at this time.

Generally speaking, people are middle-aged, especially when they reach the stage of 35 to 45 years old, they will feel that love is not important, after all, at this stage, what needs to be shouldered is more family responsibility, for the support of parents, for the education and upbringing of children, etc., therefore, for adults, what is really more rational, not emotional.

When you lose a relationship, because you have already experienced this feeling in the relationship, after the loss, you feel that it is not really a very important thing.

Since I was in college, I felt that love was not very important, but that my personal improvement was more important. Because when you live your own life, everything will come to me, not to me.

When people reach middle age, especially those aged 35-45, they feel that love is not important, because they need to shoulder more family and support responsibilities and the education and upbringing of children, so middle-aged people feel that love is not so important, and more rational emotions are more.

I think people will feel that love is not important when they reach middle age, and people aged 35-50 need to shoulder more family responsibilities, support for parents, education and upbringing of children, etc., so middle-aged people feel that love is not so important, and what is really more rational emotion.