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Let's talk about the specifics, and I want to think about it.
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Would you choose to share a room with a good friend? Why?
Personally, it is recommended not to join the late rush to rent, someone said: no matter how good the friends are, it is not suitable to stay together for a long time, because it is easy to have conflicts, so I will not share a house with a good friend, and it is okay to stay overnight with each other once in a while. Just like now I share a house with my own sister and will bump in life, for example, sometimes she will catch up on dramas very late when she goes to work at night, and I am a relatively light sleeper, I can't sleep with the lights on, so I will quarrel, and on daily necessities, two people like different flavors of toothpaste, laundry water, laundry detergent or something, or, will be zoned, don't put your things here with me, or something, a lot of small contradictions, so if you are friends with yourself, it is estimated that it will take a long time, Feelings may also break down, although I am not the kind of person who cares about pounds, small money is fine, but what about the bigger ones, after all, it is not easy for everyone to make money, so sometimes I go out with good friends will AA or you buy movie tickets and I buy small snacks to divide labor, because friendship is also to be managed.
I can accompany you all over the street to find a house, or I can live with you for a few days (because moving to a new place, girls may be a little scared), but I just don't want to live together, because I know that sometimes it can really ruin feelings, for example, if you want to cook food I don't want to, and then you cook and call me, I should sentence you to get out of the way, and you shouldn't let you be wrong, you may feel that you didn't just say you don't eat (it will make people feel like serving the emperor), shouldn't you, can you feel like this? Kindly call you, don't give face, just such a small contradiction and then cause a big contradiction, it's better to have a little distance, occasionally make an appointment to go to the house to have a hot pot meal or something, there is a kind of psychological comfort ......
But now it's more convenient to find a house, I don't mind you can go to the leopard to grab a single order to find out around yourself, you can make an appointment to see the room if you are suitable, and the village rents are more standard four points: water heater, air conditioner, bed, wardrobe (two appliances and two sets).
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Renting a house alone is more free, renting a house alone, there are advantages of renting a house by one person, but there are disadvantages and advantages, first, it is more relaxed and unfettered. Living alone in a rented house, you can do whatever you want, you don't have to be constrained by other people, you don't have to go to work on weekends to get up at what time you want, you don't have to be woken up by other people, you can eat whenever you want, you don't have to worry about other people, even if you want to go out for a walk in the middle of the night, you don't have to be blocked by other people. How you want to decorate your home and how you want to furnish your furniture are up to you, and you can mess up as much as you want, and you can put it aside if you want to clean it up in a few days.
In general, it is a place to be alone, and you don't have to think about anyone's feelings. Second, sometimes I feel like a list of solitary models. Living alone in a rented house, no one can play with you, no one can eat with you, no one can talk to you with you, chatter, when you are quiet, the whole air is full of loneliness, everything is done by yourself, no one can help you when you are tired, you have to do the more difficult things yourself, no one can call, no one can share the joy when you are promoted, no one can comfort yourself when you are sad, everything is your own business.
Third, I am gradually getting stronger. When I didn't leave my parents, I always relied on my parents, and I felt that my parents were there for everything, and I would help us, and when I grew up, I knew that my parents could not accompany us for a lifetime, and I lived in a rented house alone, and I had to rely on myself for everything, whether it was in my heart or in dealing with things, I would feel that I was getting stronger and stronger, and I could live a good life alone.
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Of course, renting a house alone is cool, and it is refreshing!Don't think that girls will think it's cool to live alone, we men also think it's cool to live alone, okay?
There are many benefits of living alone, when you want to play games, you want to yell as loud as you want, you want to be shirtless in the summer, you are no longer afraid of walking around, you don't have to sell the game in the morning and grab the toilet with someone, and you don't have to tiptoe to worry about disturbing your roommate when you bring your girlfriend home
In fact, except for those who are afraid of loneliness, most people prefer to live alone. It's just that the cost of living alone is too high, and the yuan is stopping them. Brothers and sisters, don't be discouraged, money is always like that, and the cost of renting a house in the chain is not impossible to come down.
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A person can live in a rented house freely, independently, or simply lonely.
Here are some possible feelings:
1.Freedom: A person renting a house can freely dispose of their own time and space, do not need to consider other people's opinions and arrangements, and can enjoy their life and hobbies to the fullest.
2.Independence: A person who rents a house can independently bear various responsibilities and expenses of life, learn to live independently and self-manage, and improve their quality of life and ability.
3.Loneliness and loneliness: Renting alone can also feel lonely and lonely, lacking intimacy and social skills, and struggling to find a social circle and support system that works for you.
4.Financial pressure: A person who rents a house needs to bear various expenses such as rent, utility bills, living expenses, etc., and may feel financial pressure, and need to plan and manage their finances reasonably.
In conclusion, there are both advantages and disadvantages to living in a rented house, and you need to make choices and adapts according to your own situation and needs.
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It depends on a number of factors, such as:
1.Personal preference. Some people prefer to live alone and enjoy their own space and time; While some people prefer to live with roommates or family members and share the joy of life.
2.Economic strength. Renting is sometimes more cost-effective than buying a house, but there will always be certain financial burdens associated with renting, utilities, etc.
3.Housing condition. The size of the house, facilities, location, rent, etc., will directly affect the living experience of residents.
In general, renting a house is still more convenient than jujube. You don't have to worry about asset management, maintenance, repairs, etc., and you can choose the housing method that suits you more flexibly.
But in the long run, buying a home makes more economic sense.
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Although the advantage is that a person is relaxed and free without being disturbed, the disadvantage is that the cost of renting a house is relatively high, no one shares the pressure, and the other point is that it is lonely and lonely without one to accompany it, and the overall feeling is not as suitable as sharing a house with others.
As an older single person, I sat alone in a vacant rental house every day after work, smoking, and feeling like an orphan. Sometimes I wonder if the world has abandoned me, or if I have abandoned the world. I didn't dare to sleep on weekend afternoons, and when I woke up at five or six o'clock, boundless loneliness flooded over and went deep into the bone marrow.
I was so depressed that I wanted to cry, and I felt like the whole world had abandoned me. Sometimes I really envy others and have a good family!
Not in the center of the city, I have to make a long car when I go out, I can only sleep at home until I get dizzy on the weekend, I don't turn on the lights after coming in after work every day, sit in a daze, start washing, and then brush my phone and sleep. Cooking, non-existent. One time I had a cold that was a bit bad and I lay at home for three days and no one knew.
Now too, Okino wakes up and looks at the sun outside the window, and then plays with his phone until it gets dark. Actually, I was bored, but I couldn't find anyone to talk to.
I used to think that it was good to be alone, but now I think about it, it's ridiculous. If you want to go out for a walk, you don't know where to go, no one chats with you, listens to you, and you can't talk to your family, of course, more importantly, you don't have any money. I'm afraid I'll get sick if I continue like this!
In the future, I really don't want to rent a house by myself anymore, and I have to find someone to share the house anyway. Here I also have a piece of advice for friends who want to rent a house alone, that is, if you can share a house, try not to live alone, because there are too many shortcomings, and there is really no benefit to yourself.
The landlord still misses it, once you see it wrong, you may pay your most precious for it, and you will regret it when the time comes, (I have a friend like this) and miss it, because there is still a chance.
In fact, to tell the truth, it is not painful to give up a person who loves you very much, it is painful to give up a person you love very much, it is even more painful to fall in love with someone who does not love you, it is destined to be a tragedy, some losses are doomed, some fate will never have results, you don't have to have someone to love, but you must cherish someone if you have one. Since you don't love, then let go in a word, there is a kind of love called letting go, only letting go is a kind of relief, but also a new beginning and having, let go of the burden of the mood is much easier, in the moment the tears fall turn around and leave, don't let yourself hurt, why hang on a tree without sweetness, no happiness, no happiness, people don't love you, then, how to tie up people, twisted melons are not sweet, why embarrass yourself? Why let yourself lose your self-esteem and self-love, indulge in pain, let yourself walk physically and mentally exhausted, scarred, why bother? >>>More
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