Emotional expert Both of us have feelings, I m married, but I m a little disappointed after marriage

Now that you are married, if you have something to sit down and communicate well, it is not easy for the two of you to be together, so you have to cherish it.

You have a bad mentality! That's it.

As a man, I understand your feelings very well, if you often have conflicts between husband and wife because of you, then I think you should not divorce, you have to think deeply about yourself, is your own problem that makes the relationship between your husband and wife have problems, or your wife's problem, if your repeated accommodation in exchange for only the pain of marriage, then you can open the skylight with your wife to explain, if it is your wife accommodating you, then I think you should cherish it, find someone you love, it is better to find someone who loves yourself.

The other woman in front of you, whether you are happy with her for a short time or happy with her for a long time, and whether you marry another woman will also cause unhappiness between marriages, you have to figure out. First of all, another woman knows that you are married and still dating you, which is itself intervening as a junior, which is a premise, you have to observe what the other woman means, whether she simply loves you, or has another purpose, or is she just heartbroken and wants to find a replacement.

A hundred years of repair can be crossed in the same boat, and a thousand years of repair can be slept together. You have to reflect on it.

Big brother, don't be half-hearted! Let's take it seriously to your own wife! If you like it outside, you can clean it up after a while.

Ask yourself if you still love your wife in your heart, and is your wife still worth your effort?

The woman you are tempted with, are you impulsive or true love? Has she taken a fancy to you, you are all adults, and you want to be comprehensive. If you don't have the ability, don't be capricious.

Most of the endings like you end up being a family breakdown, and you can't get that woman, and you become a loner.

Of course, if you have no feelings for your wife, you can't live anymore, so it's better to leave as soon as possible. Do not deceive yourself, and do not delay your wife.

You can write so much, so detailed, I think in your heart you are still reluctant to her, I just hope you give a reason, 2 years is a bit long, know each other too well, but the pressure to get married is greater, if you don't want to get married, you won't be so anxious, because you feel that some of her practices you can't accept, afraid that you will regret it when you get married, especially her attitude towards your mother is what you are most worried about. Think about it differently, she may be the same, maybe she just thinks that you listen to your mother for everything, afraid that she will have no status at home when she gets married, at this time, many of the actions that you can't accept are testing her position in your heart, just don't pull your mother into the river to see who you save, or talk openly and honestly, say the concerns of both parties, be able to talk about marriage, feelings will definitely not be as simple as you say, the important thing is that the two of you analyze the form of marriage together and reach a consensus. You're right, men have more important things to do, but the backyard must be stable, can't **, it's normal to smoke, I wish you happiness!

After reading it patiently, I can see that you also want to vomit quickly.

First of all, support you, the girl is really excessive, too capricious, and she doesn't look big. Can you ignore the old man's face and play casually? That's not right, she deserves to be criticized.

Secondly, you, you have to treat her as your daughter, just smile and pass, it's not a big deal. If you look closely, those little girls who are not yet ten years old are like this, selfish, willful, and unreasonable. Girls, it's all like this, it's unreasonable, and it won't grow up to ten years old in this regard.

My family, even more excessive, I walked home from the unit in ten minutes, went to the supermarket to buy something to eat, fifteen minutes, came back and she was noisy, why fifteen minutes, where did you go, did you see any women, did you see any beautiful ones on the road? (She is like a little fairy, and she is still worried about this, it's really inexplicable) You are going crazy when you interrogate. What to do, you have to get used to it!

In the end, you are a gentleman, don't be a child, how can you say that you may not get married. You have to tolerate it, you have to persuade both ends, there is also pressure on the girl's side, marry you, are you the best for her, it is normal for her to murmur in her heart.

Be generous and take the initiative to resolve it. Then you will be happy for a long time.

Hehe, I feel that you are not lightly angry, please dissipate your anger! First of all, let's talk about your girlfriend, girls are prone to marital phobia when they are about to get married, especially girls with poor psychological tolerance! Your girlfriend clearly has a feeling of discomfort in her marriage, and this uncomfortable feeling is reflected in the bad mood of uneasiness, anxiety!

Let's talk about you again, decorating the house is a very tedious matter, not to mention that there are other things that are bothering you, although you feel that there is nothing wrong with you speaking, but sometimes the same words will give people different feelings because of the different tones and tones! At present, the two of you are in an extraordinary period, if you can't understand each other, then quarrels are inevitable! It is recommended that you go to see your girlfriend, she is sick, comfort and comfort her, and communicate with her calmly!

She needs you very much now, although some of her behaviors are a bit willful, you can communicate with her with emotion and reason, and her tone is as soft as possible to make her easy to accept!

Hehe, buddy is good to women, support you; should be hot and cold to a woman, and she can't be too pampered, lest she treat herself as a treasure; Do you feel that she may no longer love you, love is indeed as you said (vanity, money), if you can, two people have a good opportunity to talk, what do you think? If you love, be more tolerant, and if you don't love, let go.

As a woman, maybe the other person is insecure, or premarital phobia. You should communicate well, say everything in your heart, you are about to get married, there is no need to hide any secrets, some contradictions will be more serious if they are not resolved as soon as possible after marriage, no matter what the outcome is, I wish you happiness!

I think the two of you also lack communication, and the two of you don't get along at all, they don't give in to each other, if you don't make changes, even if you get married in the future, you will still leave, which is even more troublesome.

I don't think it's as simple as you say. There must be something else that you should have with your fiancée and have an open and honest conversation.

It's been 2 years... I'm getting married... You're too straddle ...

Then divide it, I guess you will have a lot of troubles when you get married!