What is the mentality of people who think about divorce when they encounter problems?

They were already dissatisfied with the marriage, but they kept finding reasons for themselves to escape.

When two people step into married life hand in hand, the two people who are supposed to work together for future happiness may sometimes be the two people who want to escape from this marriage the most. Under this psychological effect, if you want to divorce when you encounter a problem, you just give yourself an excuse.

Because of different purposes into marriage, the mentality will naturally be very different. My lover and I entered into marriage because our parents urged us to get married, and we were ready to get engaged and get married after knowing each other for two months. When I first got married, I didn't think this marriage was worth cherishing, because we didn't love each other much.

My friend and lover have been in love for three years before they enter the marriage hall. In their marriage, I don't think anyone would want to use divorce to solve the problem, because after the test of time and society, that relationship has gradually strengthened.

In fact, in real life, there are not too many couples who enter marriage because of love, and most people choose to compromise for various reasons, rather than because of love, and there will naturally be differences in mentality.

There is no love between two people, and when they encounter problems, they want to divorce, but they just want to give everyone an explanation. In fact, this is a very typical rebellious psychology, I didn't meet the person I loved, but under the urging of the pressure of life around me, I had to step into marriage, and I would be a little disgusted with this marriage.

When two people encounter contradictions and disagreements in their lives, this disgust in their hearts will make the relationship worse, and will cause you to infinitely diverge your thinking towards the bad, and this married life is destined to be bumpy from the beginning.

I have a friend who is like this, and the two of them also entered into marriage because of pressure, but neither of them wants to let anyone in life. After half a year of marriage, the two divorced, in addition to the fact that both parents were not urging, perhaps only the extra 100,000 yuan was the most important witness to this marriage.

In fact, in a marriage, no matter why two people enter into marriage, as long as they are willing to live well, life will definitely continue. But when some people don't want to live a good life and want to solve the problem with divorce, they just don't want to bear all the pressure themselves.

People should always learn to take responsibility, otherwise marriage will be like a farce.

This kind of person's mentality is generally more extreme. When you encounter a problem, you just want to get rid of yourself through divorce.

When they encounter a problem, they want to divorce, and this person's mentality is that they don't want to solve the problem, but want to escape, or it can be said that their mentality is not mature at all, and they just avoid the problem and don't want to solve the problem.

This kind of person is probably an irresponsible person who wants to use this way to avoid problems and does not think to solve them.

This is an escapist mentality, after all, he does not dare to face his own problems. And I don't want to deal with this kind of problem, which is very difficult to solve.

I just think that there may be a lot of changes in marriage, which is particularly unreliable, so I think about divorce.

I didn't have much expectation for marriage, and I got married just to make a living, so I wanted to divorce when I encountered problems.

The attitude towards marriage is particularly unserious, and I always feel that marriage is a promise, so I don't cherish it so much.

I don't particularly attach importance to marriage at all, so I have the mentality of divorce and want to find a better person.

I think these people are very irresponsible, and they are also very reckless and impulsive, and they feel that marriage is child's play.

Why do some people divorce because they don't want to settle? Changes in social values are one of the important reasons.

Mainly in the inner insecurity and panic about the unknown life, self-regulation, both come and be safe, since this road has been chosen, no matter how bumpy and tortuous, but also try to move forward, after all, another road is not necessarily a smooth road, believe in your original choice, as an adult, you should also be responsible for your choice.

Marriage is not child's play, be cautious, if it is because marriage finds that there are more places that bind you, making you feel impatient, I personally recommend that you divorce and do not get married. In a relationship, there must be one person who either gives in and fulfills each other. This is a problem of oneself, try to mediate the state to accept and enjoy the bondage of this happiness, and maybe you can go on happily.

Marriage breakdowns and divorces do not come without warning, and our relationships may not always be smooth. Everyone can only listen to their own inner thoughts. In marriage, you need to make sure that you and your partner are single-minded so that the marriage lasts.

When you want to get a divorce, you don't have to ask us if we should get a divorce. You ask yourself, do you need a reason for divorce? Or is it a loss of faith because you can't change?

When a marriage makes you think about whether to divorce, please don't divorce yet, because it's not enough, and please know why you are doing it well. If you find the reason, you can find the way, leaving later will not make you regret it, and impulsive divorce will not make up for it.

Some thoughts of divorce may diminish with the run-in of the relationship and the growth of both parties, but if you are neither able to run in nor want to grow, and make the marriage a pot of raw rice, you should face yourself and the relationship deeply. Whatever the reason, it is better to find the answer by taking a step forward, rather than waking up from a dream like some people who have been in a nightmare for decades.

If there are some realistic conditions that suppress your thoughts of divorce. It depends on whether the actual conditions can be solved. If you want to divorce because of your heart's needs, for example, some people just want to be free and don't like to be bound by their family, then determine whether you can bear the consequences of your decision.

It is a very normal phenomenon to always have the idea of divorce in marriage, after all, it is normal to have conflicts in trivial things in a marriage, and it is good to take the initiative to speak out and communicate clearly, but the communication is really unclear, and then choose to divorce.

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Dear, hello, if you often want to divorce your lover, first of all, it cannot be ruled out that you may no longer love him, if there is no love for a person, the first thing that comes to mind is to separate from the other party, so you yourself must first determine whether you still love your lover, if you don't love it, it is recommended to communicate with your lover, if you still love each other, you should also communicate with each other, it may be that your lover often works overtime to care less about you, which will lead you to have the idea of divorce.

Hello, if you always want to divorce in your marriage, as long as there is no principled problem, try to control your thoughts, if it is just because the other half is not motivated, life is difficult, this situation is not recommended to divorce.

Don't always think about some unpleasant things, or always find fault with your husband, it's not good or that, don't compare him with others, especially those with high salaries, divert your attention, look at books, think about how you can make more money, think about how to improve your ability, think about the happy time with your husband, and slowly it's fine.

If you always have the urge to divorce, which actually means that you are not satisfied with this marriage, then in this case, you can leave the current marriage completely, because it does not bring you a good feeling.

In marriage, you always think about the idea of divorce, which may be because you don't have a sense of security in life, and you don't really put your heart into this family. You should put your heart into your home so that your life will be more harmonious.

If in marriage, you always have the idea of divorce, it means that you don't respect marriage and treat marriage as child's play, if you pay attention to marriage, you won't think about divorce, unless you want to be a bachelor for life.

If you always want to divorce in your marriage, it means that your sister's married life is not happy. That's why this kind of thought arises, and if you want to eliminate this kind of thought, you have to communicate more and communicate more with each other. Let each other feel each other's love and care.

You can think about the other party's good Divorce is not right Don't even think about divorce as a last resort You will hurt the family and hurt the children You must understand each other Mutual and take care of each other It will be fine.

We should establish a correct view of marriage. Some things cannot be solved by a divorce, it is very important to learn how to get along with husband and wife, otherwise, if you are really divorced, you will still face such problems if you enter the marriage again.

You must cut off such thoughts, otherwise it will affect the couple's feelings and the heart of life.

It shows that there is a rift in the relationship between two people, and this time needs to be re-cultivated and create opportunities for solitude, so that it can be changed.

When encountering such a situation, I think you should adjust your mentality, and then you should also manage your marriage with your heart and don't think nonsense.

Then expand your hobbies, circle of friends, and communicate more, which will enrich yourself, so you won't think of some bad ideas.

There is always the idea of divorce in marriage, and I think maybe your marriage is coming to an end.

Everyone's marriage is not perfect, and managing a marriage is a process of constantly encountering problems, constantly analyzing problems, and constantly solving problems!

If you think of divorce as soon as you encounter a problem, it is an evasive behavior, an irresponsible behavior to your lover, to yourself, and to your marriage!

Some of the problems in marriage are their own principled issues, and if they are principled issues, you can make your own decisions!

But many are very common marital problems, which require us to face them bravely and work hard to solve them!

If it is a very common problem, if you divorce at every turn, then even if you leave, it will be difficult for you to have a good relationship and a good marriage in the future, because as long as you are not satisfied, you will think of divorce to solve it.

There are also people who are in a weak position, unable to face the difficulties of the other party or feel that the other party does not pay enough attention to themselves, respect their own feelings, and want to make the other party compromise through divorce, so that the other party values themselves and respects their own feelings! But often, it will backfire, and in the end, instead of letting the other party pay attention to and respect themselves, they will really divorce!

Don't divorce easily, because this is your life lesson, any marriage will encounter all kinds of problems, face the problem and solve the problem, not divorce and escape, if you don't face the stupidity and don't solve it, escape, unless you never get married in the future, you still face the same problems, divorce is not a solution, unless domestic violence, you can't live together.

If you want to divorce when you encounter problems in your marriage, what are the specific problems? What is the nature of the problem? If you want to divorce because of a minor problem, then you may want to think about whether you are not satisfied with the marriage from the beginning.

Maybe a lot of things happened in your marriage that made you despair and made you lose the confidence to continue. But please believe that if you don't have the ability to solve problems, even if you get divorced, you will still not be able to find yourself. If the problems encountered in marriage do not touch your moral and ethical bottom line, and can be solved through communication, coordination, etc., then finding a way to solve the conflict is the right way.

Otherwise, even if you end this relationship, you may end up in failure in the next relationship. However, if the problem you encounter is relatively big, it is a problem that touches your principles and bottom line, and the hand sparrow is something that you can't convince yourself to accept and forgive, then give yourself time to calm down first.

In May 2020, the law proposed to establish a "cooling-off period for divorce", so you can also give yourself a "cooling-off period" and wait until you are no longer very excited about the problem of waking up early. This involves the objectivity of decision-making, and in order to ensure that our decision-making is objective and accurate, we need to make decisions without emotion!

There will always be some friction between husband and wife in the process of getting along, and couples who love each other have the urge to strangle each other 100 times in the process of getting along. It is relatively normal to quarrel every day when you just get married, and it is a run-in period, so you must stick to it. When they first got married, they belonged to the newlywed period, and the identities of both of them were excessive.

Although many people's newlyweds are sweet, there are also a lot of things to run in with trouser games. When a girl is unhappy when she is in a relationship, she may coax a coquettish boy and it will be fine. But after you get married, there are many things in life that need to be run in by both of you.

Because when you get married, the two of you need to run it together, this marriage. Therefore, when you just get married, there will be a run-in period, as long as you pass this run-in period, don't think about divorce. There is a solution to everything, and divorce does not solve the problem.

It's like when we first started to fall in love, there was also a run-in period, and only after the run-in was done can we move towards the palace of marriage. When you just get married, there is also a run-in period, and only after this run-in period can your husband and wife's life be happier, so you must not give up.