How to become a good girl in everyone s hearts

Good girl: follow the rules, want to do everything, work hard, want everyone to like her, be gentle and frugal, wait for praise and promotion, dare not face up to problems, care about the opinions of others, and never take risks.

Long hair, fine white **, crooked eyes when laughing. Good girls are the girls that all the older boys who have just passed puberty want the most, they are not so "women", so that the big boys are not stressed, not so worldly, and just match the fantasies of the big boys. It's a pity that the guy that a good girl likes the most is often the "cool" guy with a scruffy beard.

Yin and Yang are balanced!

Why be a good girl? Need for work? Emotional needs? It's too tiring to do!

The temperament of a good girl is probably:

Innocent, virtuous, steady, empathetic, ingenious. To have the virtues of a good family girl in addition to a good wife and mother.

Even so, it's hard to satisfy everyone, can you change the standard of "good girl" at any time for everyone? It's really tiring to do, it's better to be yourself.

Listen to teachers and parents, study hard, don't go out at night, don't have a boyfriend before the age of twenty, don't talk loudly, walk steadily, dress generously, and be empathetic.

That's probably it.

Aha, it's easy.

At home: Sweep the broom around if you have nothing to do, don't let people disturb you from studying, keep your room silent (you have to hold a team to enter), as for what you do after you go in, you must always pay attention to the movement outside the door.

Outside: help the grandmother cross the street, greet acquaintances, etc.

At school: listen carefully to lectures, etc.

You can go to the kindergarten to ensure that you can find all of this kind of thing, and then modify it in your own way.

Listen to Xiao Xiao's reserve!

In fact, be gentle and generous with others, and you can do it!

Be gentle and don't be too bold. Don't often hang out with song halls, bars, Internet cafes and the like, and honor your elders.

This is a good girl.

Be obedient, do what your parents allow, and don't do what you don't allow.

If it's not that kind of character, or it's too far from what you're used to, then don't be a good girl.

The hardest thing is to play a role you don't like.

Changing yourself is not an easy task...

I think everybody has something lovely about it, and there's no need to change yourself. Believe in yourself, you're the best girl in the world!

Gentleness is the most important thing.

Learn to be reserved and steady.

A boy's point of view.

Strongly ask the landlord to be himself, it's everyone's responsibility! Of course, change your shortcomings.

The good girl in everyone's eyes must be cute and generous, gentle and virtuous, especially sensible, knows the hard work of her parents, knows how to understand her parents, and knows how to help her parents share housework!

Good girl, never do those bad things, such as going to KTV and going to the bar, this kind of thing they only know to learn and learn every day.

Most of the good girls look like they listen to their parents, their personalities are more gentle and lovely, from childhood to adulthood, they are the darlings in the eyes of their parents, all parents don't have to worry about it, and life and study can be arranged well!

Some bangs, big eyes, baby-faced voices rubbing Nono's. The character is well-behaved, sensible, and obedient. Don't let parents worry about it, recruit teachers to like it, and don't do rebellious things.

Listen to your parents at home and your teachers at school, be kind and lovely, have a sense of justice and love.

Be quiet, behave softly, and study well.

Some people like to be good girls for the following reasons. First of all, because a good girl can be liked by her elders. The second is to be able to get the care and love of the elders.

Because it is easy to be loved and recognized, children who listen to good bad words have candy to eat, and obedient girls will indeed get praise and recognition from more people around them, while rebellious children usher in more negation and criticism, and tend to destroy the advantages and avoid the disadvantages, so they prefer to be good girls.

It is also related to the family's Zhengsheng education, just like Xiaobei is that some people only like to be a royal sister, everyone's temper is different, and he likes to be a good girl just because of his personal hobbies.

Dare to say no to things you don't like or don't want to.

I think that the good girl in the eyes of parents actually doesn't like to be considered a good girl by everyone, so I am quite disgusted that parents say that I am a very sensible and obedient child in front of outsiders.

I always felt that the word obedient was like something that the master ordered the slave to do, and as a person with a mind of his own, I did not want to be called obedient.

So, how can you change the image of a good girl in the eyes of others? I think the first step is to be the most authentic self, in the past in order not to worry about some things you have to choose to compromise, if it is not for the premise that it will bring great harm to yourself or your family, then I think we have the freedom to try, we should not give up what we like for the sake of the title of a good girl, for example, a girl who is considered a good girl by others likes rock and roll**, then a girl should not give up her hobby because of other people's eyes.

The second point is to dare to resist, not blindly accept the life that your parents have arranged for you, but you yourself are very or even disgusted, like a girl who obviously likes the guitar, but the parents say that the girl is still suitable for the guzheng, so because she is a good girl in the eyes of others, she went to learn the guzheng, not with the original intention of hobbies, and it will be really painful to learn things.

So, in the face of something you don't like, there's really no need to force yourself to accept it.

In addition, when others think that you are a good girl, there are always some unfriendly people who like to see you bully, please this and please you that, if you really agree, you just can't get along with yourself. So in the face of this situation, you should learn to say no to others at the right time.

The good girls I think are not really good girls in their hearts, but only because of their parents' education and environment. So if you want to change the image of a good girl, you need to make more friends who are different from you, try some new things, see more things you encounter, and slowly know what you want and what you want to do.

I was also a good girl before I went to college, a good child who studied in addition to studying in the eyes of my teachers, and a good girl who would not get into trouble in the eyes of my parents. In addition to eating and sleeping in my daily life, I am left to study, because I can't bear to make my parents sad, my mother takes care of our food, clothing, housing and transportation at home for our study, I can't live up to my parents' hard work. After going to college, I didn't have the constraints of my parents, I had a vast sky, so many clubs, and I could do what I liked.

Because I actively participated in various school activities, I got to know a lot of people, many people who were different from what I usually met. They all have their own ideas, they know what they want, and after getting along with them for a long time, I have become less obedient to my parents than before, and I have begun to know what I want, and I will do it desperately.

Trying something you haven't experienced before may also change the image of a good girl in the past. Guan Juer in "Ode to Joy" broke through himself and talked about the first love in his life with rock singer Xie Tong. After falling in love, she is no longer the quiet and introverted obedient girl who follows the rules in everything, she is desperate for love, and has done a lot of things that she never dared to do before.

Breaking through yourself and doing something you haven't done before can also change the image of a good girl.

May you have a tiger in your heart and smell the roses.

If you want to change the image of a good girl, first of all, you have to contact with a cheerful person, and in the process of dating, you will slowly become a girl with a big personality.

First of all, the image and temperament should be changed, as well as the inner cultivation, and the feeling of language and speech should be changed in an all-round way, so as to change your current image.

When getting along with people, you must learn to speak first, take the initiative, communicate with others more, and slowly the people around you will think that you are an extrovert.

1. For things you don't want to do or say, be brave enough to say "no".

2. Don't always obey others, learn to speak your own mind, so that others will respect you.

3. Overcome your inner fears, and you will get better and better.

A change in dressing style can achieve the fastest effect, and the highlight is that you have to change the hairstyle with a personality point.

Change both inside and out, become strong on the inside and personality on the outside.

You have to be optimistic and confident, and dare to express what you really think in your heart...