What does it mean for a person to scold you a lot?

There are many ways to chase a girl and bring you closer.

He is the same as everyone else.

You want to ask if he likes you when that needs to be added.

Hitting is pain, scolding is love, this sentence has no logical concept at all? It simply doesn't work? Why scolding you? Is there a reason for that? I guess you know the reason very well.

It means that you are very annoying, and cowardly and incompetent people are always scolded.

cares, either buddies, or being sisters, or ambiguous, or liking.

Whether the opposite sex is the same sex or the same sex, what kind of tone and what kind of expression it looks like has a lot to do with it.

It depends on who it is, if it's a parent, it's a sign of loving you and caring about you.

How does he or she have a relationship with you? What are you talking about? What expression speaks? The emotions in his eyes, etc., provide these clues, and basically what does his scolding represent?

Also, did you have anything to do with him or her before this?

It shows that his skin is itchy and underbeaten! Unless it's a girl!

Relationship iron, treat you as a buddy.

It depends on the identity of the person who scolded you and what the situation is.

It depends on what scolds you, or is this a verbal gluttony.

It means that he doesn't like you.

If you don't like it very much, you hate you very much.

Either I hate you, or I don't love you.

There will be the following psychological effects:

One is the psychology of cowering and cowardice, always nervous and always worried that he will make a mistake. Scolding a person because of trivial things is easy to destroy the sense of accomplishment he should have done a good job, so that over time, his inner evaluation of himself will naturally become negative, and he has no bottom in his heart to do anything.

There is also a kind of stimulated psychology, which is opposed to the person who scolded him, you say that I can't do well, I will do a good job for you.

I have low self-esteem and no sense of security! Because it is the scolding of the family, it is easier to feel insecure, feel very bad, and unworthy. It's that when you grow up, you feel that a very good and excellent person likes you, and you don't think it's possible to reject him.

If it's a girl, it's really more sensitive and suspicious.

The effect of A scolding B on B's own psychology:

In the period when B's personality is not yet finalized (before the age of about 18-20): he is always exaggerated and criticized, and his personality traits such as low self-esteem, anxiety, misanthropy, extreme, pessimism, and introversion will plant seeds in his heart. If there are such people around the subject, please seek professional help or study relevant psychological knowledge on your own and help yourself.

In the period when B's personality has been stereotyped (after about 18-20 years old): people with different personalities have different levels of acceptance of being scolded and are affected differently. People who are more emotionally stable, more extroverted, more lively, or have a more pleasant personality (easy to get along with) are not affected as much as people with sensitive and emotionally extreme personalities.

But it needs to be emphasized that for the vast majority of people with normal socialization, no matter what kind of personality they have, it will definitely cause psychological damage to this person. It may vary to a different extent, but it is bound to leave a more negative impression.

Moreover, when B mentions relevant events (such as the little things he was scolded), he will also reflexively feel depressed. There are psychological implications for this.

In short, whether it is the scolding person or the scolded person, if such "scolding" does not exist for the purpose of truly and effectively dealing with the problem, but after adding a certain emotional factor, such scolding is a kind of harm to both parties.

For A, he did not find a strong channel to release his emotions or deal with problems correctly, but instead caused deep damage to his relationships, which is a negative thing. For B, he is a great psychological victim, with some latent consequences, and in extreme cases, more people are hurt because of the harm he has suffered.