What does it mean to be married on both sides in the countryside?

It's really bad to live on both sides of the marriage :

Living on both sides means that the woman's family lives for a period of time and the man's family lives for a period of time. The little couple basically doesn't have their own space.

1. The woman's family lives.

Living in the woman's house, the husband feels very unaccustomed, after all, it is in someone else's family, and he has to take into account the habits of the mother-in-law. My husband also knows very well that he is an outsider and can't say some of his mother-in-law's habits, but it is a pain in itself to endure this.

2. The man's family lives.

For the wife, there is no big problem with the customs and habits, that is, after arriving at the mother-in-law's house, you have to do things every day, and after doing it for a long time, you will find that the mother-in-law has habitually regarded you as a coolie, and her son is like the emperor at home, he doesn't do anything, he knows how to command others to do things. It will be very unpleasant to stay for a long time.

3. There is little private space.

Young people should have a young world, have their own space, if they live with the elderly, they have to think about the old people's thoughts all day long, they are tired enough from work, and they have to worry about going home, which is even more tiring. Parents are very possessive of their children, always feel that their children can't live without them, and always want to participate in their children's decisions.

2. Does running at both ends of marriage count as a big deal?

It doesn't count as a burden, this is not marrying, not marrying, running at both ends.

1. This marriage model means that after men and women get married, they share family responsibilities and educate children and the elderly. Moreover, there is no dowry and dowry in a two-end marriage, and both parties will ask for equality in assets, children, and overnight visits to relatives.

2. To give birth to two children, the reincarnation generally follows the father's surname, and the second child follows the mother's surname. Buying a car and buying a house after marriage is also a matter of repaying the loan together between men and women, and everything is five or five, which can also be understood as the AA model.

3. There are still many marriage models, each model has its drawbacks, and the marriage that runs at both ends has its drawbacks, but the marriage that runs at both ends is relatively fair to both families.

Summary: There are indeed some disadvantages to living on both sides of marriage, living with your parents, you always have to be managed, you can't sit here, you can't sit there, you can't feel free anymore. A marriage between two ends is considered not to marry or not to marry, not to be rich.

Rural marriage on both sides is usually referred to:

1.Woman's house: The man lives in the house for a period of time and the woman lives in the house for a period of time.

2.The man's house: For the wife, there is no big problem with customs and habits, but it will be very unhappy after staying for a long time.

The above is the specific meaning of marriage on both sides of the rural area.

It means that both parents are there.

Marriage on both sides of the road is actually after the marriage of both parents need to be taken care of, the husband and wife will live with the parents of both parties, or take turns to live in two homes. Because many young people are now only children, parents do not want to lose the company of their children, so couples will consider getting married on both sides in order to take care of both parents.

For some single-child families, it is convenient for both families to go on both sides of marriage, and there is no bad or bad lead, which can be said to be a win-win situation, so that parents on both sides can take care of it, and parents can also get more children to accompany them.

Marriage on both sides of this form is a unique form of marriage customs in Jiangsu and Zhejiang, according to the local saying is not counted as a door-to-door, children generally have to give birth to two, the surname of one with the father and one with the mother, who first and who can be discussed.

The so-called "marriage on both sides" model of marriage and residence, that is, when a man and a woman get married, as long as the man and woman are willing to have a house. The man does not pay the gift money, the woman does not pay the dowry, the man buys a happy event, gets married and lives in a new house, has children and two families share, and the two parties jointly support the elderly of both parties.