What should I do if my child suddenly doesn t want to go to kindergarten?

When parents hear their children say, "Mom, I don't want to go to kindergarten", they are confused. Ask your child why he doesn't go to kindergarten, the child is either distracted or unreasonable, in short, it is all kinds of procrastination, you can feel the child's emotions about going to kindergarten, but often unable to find a solution rationally.

What is the reason why children are reluctant to go to kindergarten?

1. If the child has just entered the kindergarten, it may be due to the unfamiliar environment and people that bring the child a sense of insecurity, so that there is instinctive resistance to going to kindergarten.

2. If the child is suddenly reluctant to go to kindergarten after a period of time, it is necessary for parents to understand the reason for the child. For example, if you are not feeling well or have received criticism from teachers at school, recent neglect by parents, conflicts between children, etc., children may not want to go to kindergarten.

What should mothers do when they face babies who don't go to school?

1. Understand the situation. You can find out the real reason why the baby does not want to go to kindergarten through the communication with the child, the teacher's communication or the baby's children's communication.

2. Give children enough sense of security. The child's insecurity can sometimes happen when the parent is not with the child, and all parents should make the child feel that no matter what happens, the parent is capable of protecting him.

3. Cultivate children's self-care ability, so as to establish a self-evaluation system and self-value system for children.

4. Accept the child's emotions at this moment, the child's memory is not very clear, and he will often confuse reality with imaginary things, or things today and tomorrow. But what we have to believe is that the child's feelings at this moment are real, and as parents, we must return the child's empathy for his feelings and accept his small emotions.

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What should I do if my baby suddenly doesn't want to go to kindergarten?

Explain the reason for the leave directly, and if you feel embarrassed, you can say that there is something at home.

1. Hello teacher, because the weather is bad today, and my home is far away from the kindergarten, so I won't go to the kindergarten today, and if I don't send the baby to the kindergarten, I will ask you for a leave, and then I'm really sorry.

2. Hello teacher, the weather is bad today, I am afraid of heavy rain, and it is more troublesome to pick up the children at that time, and then we go to work again, only the elderly are at home, so I hope you can understand this special situation at home, and ask for a day off today.

3. Teacher, it's too cold today. My family Haohao is also a little runny, so I won't send it today, so I'll observe it at home.

4. Teacher, my child went out yesterday and froze, so she will rest at home for a day today and send her to kindergarten tomorrow.

5. Hello teacher, the weather is very cold today, my home is far away from the kindergarten, and it is not good to take a taxi to go there, so I will not go to the kindergarten today, and I will take a day off, which is troublesome.

6. Hello teacher, there is something at home today, so I won't send xx over.

7. Hello teacher, because I am a little busy at work, I don't have time to send my children today, so I take a day off today, I'm sorry to trouble you.

1. It is necessary to eliminate the subconscious idea of "children are unwilling to go to kindergarten" and find ways to resolve the anxiety caused by entering the kindergarten. Children into the kindergarten is the first step into the society, due to the change of the environment, the child is more or less uncomfortable, so when you think of the child into the kindergarten, parents will be anxious, subconsciously worried, these will be intentionally or unintentionally manifested in their own behavior in the judgment, have an impact on the child, so that the child through the parents' speech, emotions, with the parents to their own care, distressed emotions, to achieve the purpose of not going to kindergarten. Therefore, parents should have the awareness to control their emotions, influence their children with positive emotions, and let their children like to go to kindergarten.

2. Understand the reasons why children are reluctant to go to kindergarten, find strategies, and prescribe the right medicine. Generally, there is a reason why children are reluctant to go to kindergarten. Some children do not socialize with their peers and feel lonely without playmates; Some are introverted and do not get the attention of the teacher, thinking that the teacher does not like him, and some children are occasionally bullied by children; There are also separation anxiety caused by the discomfort of new entrants.

Parents should find out the reasons why their children are reluctant to go to kindergarten and prescribe the right medicine.

3. Contact the class teacher to understand the child's performance in the kindergarten, especially to understand the child's shining points, and to preach the child's shining points to the family when they return home to help the child build self-confidence. It is necessary to cooperate with the teacher to discover and use a certain strengths of the child, so that he can show it in the group, and when he is praised by the teacher and peers, he will have the confidence and can get along with his peers at ease.

4. Talk more about the life and learning activities of the kindergarten with the children, so as to arouse the children's interest in the kindergarten, teachers and children. Family members are so concerned about kindergarten life, can children not like to go to kindergarten?

5. Do not reinforce the child's behavior of not destroying the world and being willing to go to kindergarten. When a child is reluctant to go to kindergarten, parents should find ways to divert their child's attention, especially not to repeatedly mention the child's reluctance to go to kindergarten in front of others, but to downplay it.

Kindergarten is a very important moment in a child's life, after which the child will leave their parents to go on their own to live a relatively independent life. But some children don't want to go to kindergarten and cry every time they go to kindergarten, what should I do? For children who have just entered kindergarten, it is mainly necessary to prepare for entering the kindergarten:

1. Tell children more interesting stories about kindergarten and stimulate children's desire for kindergarten.

2. Lead children to visit kindergartens, familiarize themselves with teachers, familiarize themselves with the environment, feel the joy of kindergarten life, and cultivate children's initial adaptability.

3. Master the specific requirements of the relevant children put forward by the kindergarten, cultivate the child's initial self-care ability and good habits, arrange the corresponding work and rest time for the child, shorten the distance between the kindergarten in family life, health habits, etc., and let the child experience the indirect experience of the child in the kindergarten.

4. Be reasonable, give encouragement to children, let children be psychologically prepared, and have a preliminary understanding of the meaning of going to kindergarten, so as to carry out activities in the children's voluntary garden.

For children who have already gone to kindergarten, it is important to find out the cause and find out the crux of the problem:

1. When children encounter difficulties or criticism in kindergarten work, parents should help children overcome difficulties, find out the reasons for doing wrong things, and educate children to bravely overcome difficulties, admit and correct mistakes, and become a strong child.

2. If the child makes a request to his parents, he should try his best to meet the reasonable requirements; If it is unreasonable or reasonable but cannot be satisfied for a while, explain the reasons to the child. If you find that your child is unwell, you can temporarily leave the kindergarten and observe at home; It is also possible to send your child to kindergarten, but explain the situation to the teacher so that the teacher can take care of him if needed.

3. If the child does not go to the kindergarten due to illness or other reasons, parents should do patient and meticulous ideological work in advance, so that the child can be psychologically prepared before returning to the kindergarten. At the same time, sending children to kindergarten should be persistent, and no special circumstances can be interrupted at will.

It is common for children to be reluctant to go to kindergarten, and some of them may be due to not adapting to kindergarten, or because they are not comfortable with leaving their parents, or because they have an unpleasant experience in kindergarten. No matter what the reason is that the child is reluctant to go to kindergarten, parents should actively find out the reason and actively counsel, in fact, as long as the child adapts to the kindergarten, you can live a good kindergarten life.

When a child reaches a certain age, he or she will go to kindergarten to receive learning and exercise. However, due to the young age of the children, on the first day of kindergarten, the children are often reluctant to go to the kindergarten, which makes parents in a dilemma. ......To solve this problem, parents need to be prepared before the first day of kindergarten so that their children can go to kindergarten happily.

Specifically, parents can solve this problem in three ways: arousing their child's interest in socializing with children, giving their child his favorite gift to distract them, and leaving the child as soon as possible after leaving the kindergarten teacher.

1. Parents can make their children more willing to go to kindergarten by arousing their interest in socializing with children.

The reason why children are reluctant to go to kindergarten is because the environment there is unfamiliar and uncomfortable. ......But kindergarten has a very unique advantage, that is, children can meet a lot of children of the same age in the kindergarten, and everyone will be very happy to play together. ......Because of this, parents can make their children want to go to kindergarten by arousing their interest in socializing with their children, so that children will not be unhappy on the first day of kindergarten.

2. Parents can prepare their children's favorite gifts to divert their attention.

For children in kindergarten, the child's age is young and the attention can be easily diverted. ......Because of this, parents should prepare their child's favorite gift before the first day of kindergarten and give it to him before or after the child goes to kindergarten, so as to effectively divert the child's attention and make the child happy to go to kindergarten, so as to properly solve this problem.

3. Parents should leave as soon as possible after sending their children to the kindergarten teacher.

For children, they are closest to their parents and cannot do without them for a moment. But when they leave their parents and come to kindergarten, they are actually very well-behaved in front of the teacher, and they will be very happy when they adapt to the new environment. ......Because of this, parents should leave as soon as possible after sending their children to the kindergarten teacher, so that the child's mood will stabilize more quickly and the problems on the first day of school can be properly resolved.

Parents take the opportunity to tell the child that he is doing well and that the teachers and children like him very much. This helps children build confidence. Let children dare to speak and speak.

Children have a relatively small social circle since childhood。Nowadays, the children in the city are all independent families. Seldom contact and play with children outside.

Only occasionally play with a few friends in the community, and the social range is limited.

Perhaps you can also refer to my method and ask your child what is going on. The child's willingness to talk more at home proves that his home is safe, so it shouldn't be difficult. Once you know the cause, you can address your child's problem.

Communicate more with teachers and children to see if the child is in kindergarten and what problems are encountered? If your child does have some problems, help him with the part of the kindergarten that he doesn't feel safe about the kindergarten.

One is that the child is too young to adapt to the kindergarten environment, and over time, the situation may improve when the child gets to know other children. Second, if the child is unwilling to communicate with other children or teachers in kindergarten, the child arrives in a strange environment and encounters a group of strange teachers and children, at first there will be some introverts and do not like to talk, but if they get along well and the extroverted child will slowly become outgoing and talkative. But after entering the park for a long time, he still kept his mouth shut and did not communicate.

Some children are self-cooked, and some children are slow-burning, and the children have just entered kindergarten, and they are not familiar with this environment, so they have to adapt slowly. Children can only relax in their own comfortable environment, which is the same as adults. The simplest thing is for adults to express their feelings to other family members, feelings about things, feelings about children's behavior, feelings about cartoon characters, etc.

When adults express more, children will naturally express and be willing to express.

Introduction: For many parents, sending their children to school is a difficult thing, especially sending their children to school for the first time, so every time I am at the entrance of the kindergarten, I will always see some children, crying, unwilling to leave their parents. So what should children do if they don't want to go to kindergarten?

In fact, some children are very afraid of some unknown situations, so they will be afraid of kindergarten, after all, kindergarten has never been in contact with this place, and they have to leave their parents, and children should have fear in their hearts. However, if children understand that kindergarten is a place to learn with friends, peers, and parents, most children will be interested in new things and gradually develop a strong sense of self in the process. Therefore, parents should learn to let their children correctly understand the function of kindergarten, so that children will have a psychological preparation.

Of course, if children learn in kindergarten, they will definitely encounter a lot of things, and crying is inevitable. But one way or another,Be sure to praise your child's progress in a timely mannerBecause when children want to be praised, they will feel that they will get these praises because they are in kindergarten, and they will be very happy to be able to tell some new stories to their parents every day. Therefore, parents must give their children a positive incentive, so that this incentive leads their children to like kindergarten, and feel that kindergarten is a very beautiful place, which can bring rewards to themselves.

Some children are also very sad when they see their parents sending them away, and even cry even more fiercely when they look back. Therefore, parents should first be tough at this time, ask the child to go to the kindergarten, and put on their own strict attitude, at this time the child will not dare to always refuse.