What should I do if my child doesn t like to go to kindergarten?

Updated on parenting 2024-02-18
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If your baby doesn't want to go to kindergarten, be sure to give more encouragement, you can use the following methods:

    1. Be sure to have more verbal comfort, encourage the child to go to kindergarten in time, when the child behaves better, such as actively going to kindergarten, there must be more encouragement, more verbal praise. If the child is reluctant to go to kindergarten, such as crying, playing scoundrels, etc., it is also necessary to be appropriately tolerant, more patient, and more explained;

    2. Be sure to analyze the reasons behind the baby's reluctance to go to kindergarten, such as some babies are more introverted, sensitive, afraid of teachers, afraid of classmates, at this time must be more tolerant, but also communicate and communicate with teachers;

    3. If some babies have separation anxiety and are unwilling to leave their mother or their own family, they should be more patient at this time, communicate more with their babies, and at the same time put the baby in kindergarten can not repeatedly pay attention or go and return, but learn to ignore the baby's crying behavior.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Oh, it may be that you did not help the baby to do sufficient preparation before entering the kindergarten, the child is afraid of strangeness, and other children can not communicate, then now parents are 80s parents, we used to have many playmates, and now we are basically only children, so there are few playmates, so the child may have less contact in this area, afraid of strangers, or he has a problem with self-care ability, such as dressing himself, eating by himself, etc., may be slower than other children, resulting in himself being more introverted. Here, it is recommended that mom or dad usually depict the scene of kindergarten for the child.

    First, first stimulate the child's interest in the kindergarten, for example, there are many children playing together, the teacher will praise you, parents should also encourage more, you praise him, happy for a long time, you criticize a sentence, he ignores you for a long time.

    Second, you have to communicate with the child, why don't you like to go, you must not take violent behavior here, otherwise the child probably does not want to go to kindergarten, even if you go, there will be no happy memory, you must reason with him.

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  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Communicate more with your baby, and describe the benefits of going to kindergarten to him as much as possible every day, such as: There are many children who can play games together! Are there a lot of toys in the kindergarten?

    Then, parents also try to know one or two children in the class, so that their babies can become good friends with them, then he will be motivated to go to kindergarten every day, you can go to your good friends to play, after all, children like to be lively, like to play with their own children, I wish your baby a smooth transition to kindergarten.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What should I do if my child is reluctant to go to kindergarten?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's normal for children to be timid and out of place, and here are some tips to help them adapt to their new environment:

    Give a sense of security: Let your child know that it's safe even if they're away from home. Communicate frequently with your child and emphasize that the school can give them care and protection.

    Involvement: Encourage children to participate in varied and fun activities in and out of school so that they can participate in their peers and learn about their surroundings.

    Gradually connect: Help your child create new opportunities to make friends, such as inviting friends to play, joining interest groups, etc., to build conversations and friendships through shared hobbies.

    Pay attention to children's self-worth: School teachers and parents should praise children for their positive progress every time, so that children can realize their own advantages and values, and improve their self-confidence.

    Active listening: Listen to and respond to your child's feelings, understand your child's emotional changes, understand their situation, and encourage your child to express their emotions. Absolutely beautiful.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Children who have just started kindergarten may be timid and out of place, so you can try the following methods:

    1.Make a plan with your child. Before your child goes to kindergarten, you can make a plan with your child to tell your child about the main learning and living content in kindergarten to help your child better understand kindergarten.

    2.Schedule social events in advance. Before the start of kindergarten, you can arrange some social activities for children in advance, such as going to parks, swimming pools and other public places to play, so that children can meet other children of the same age in advance and establish friendships.

    3.Cultivate children's ability to be independent and confident. In life, encourage children to try to do more things that they can accomplish, such as dressing and tidying up toys, to help children build self-confidence, so that they can be more confident and brave in the face of strangers.

    4.Help your child adjust to kindergarten life. After the kindergarten starts, parents should communicate with their children more to understand their children's life and learning in kindergarten, and help them gradually adapt to kindergarten life.

    5.Take the child to the kindergarten. During the child's initial adaptation period, you can give the child more time to accompany the child to the kindergarten to help the child gradually become familiar with the kindergarten environment and teachers, so as to reduce the child's anxiety and resistance.

    6.Involve your child in extracurricular activities. Children can be encouraged to participate in some interest classes or extracurricular activities, such as painting, dancing, etc., so that children can meet more young people, so as to reduce children's loneliness and discomfort.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    First of all, the child's dependence is relatively strong, and changing the teacher is like facing a new environment for him, so at this time, parents need to pay attention to the skin infiltration: 1. More than the children's communication, to encourage the children to actively go to the kindergarten in the way of encouragement and praise. 2. When communicating with teachers, don't just pay attention to some usual performance, because children's performance at home and in kindergarten is different, so pay more attention to spiritual communication.

    Teachers need to pay attention to shouting old: 1. Hug the children more every day, pay more attention to the children at the beginning, and have body language, which will eliminate the children's avoidance psychology and help the children enhance their good impression of the teacher.

    2. It must not be limited to verbal praise!

    It is believed that with the cooperation of parents and teachers, children can escape the psychology of dependence.

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