On the one hand, there is family affection, and on the other hand, there is love, and there is a dil

I feel that if it were me, I would continue to work hard to make my family and boyfriend accept each other. If I really can't do it, I'll definitely go out with my boyfriend for a while to show my family how much I care about him. In the end, if my family still doesn't agree, I choose love.

When I was faced with such a problem, I chose love! But I hope you can choose family affection! Because I regret it now!

I think it's better for you to choose family affection.

Where's your boyfriend? What did he do to your parents? It's not about you or your parents insisting on or giving up, it's about how your boyfriend tries to get your parents to accept and approve of him.

You have to show his strengths and weaknesses to your parents, as long as he can be motivated, ambitious, caring, and sincere enough, I think your parents will accept it, after all, they really love you.

If your boyfriend doesn't or doesn't want to work hard at all, then the answer is very clear, 27 nothing, now people's minds have changed, I am also 26 still very comfortable living my single life, to introduce a lot, but I don't want to end a lifetime of things in such a feudal way, I said to my family, bitter, he has to suffer, but bitterness is willing and complaining, to be strong but not reluctant, fortunately parents are very open-minded, pity the world's parents, I believe they really love you, Communicate with them more so that they know what kind of partner they want, and your love, communicate with their parents like friends, give it a try! Whatever the result, I think you'll get the answer you want

I think love is bigger. After all, it's a day for two people. Your mom is just a reference.

Let me analyze it, if there is anything bad to say, please forgive me!

1: Ask yourself first: What do you really like about him?

Love him for what? "What do you want, nothing, no job, no education, no family. "Just because he is good to you, can you disobey your parents' advice?

You feel that he is a capable person, why does he have the ability but no stable job? Is competence freelancing? I'm just talking about things.

Maybe he is really good to you, but gratitude is not affection, love. You may just be grateful to him! Maybe not really love him!

But it's up to you to find out for yourself. You have to be clear about your thoughts!

2: Is 27 years old big? I don't know Ai!

I'm 24 now, and I haven't graduated from college yet! Then I'll come out and wait to be single! I'm not a bad boy either, I just start school late!

Age is no excuse either! There are times in life when you have to have it, and there are times in life when you don't want it. It's your happiness that no one can stop, but it's not your happiness, even if you get it, you still have to let go!

3: It's a small thing if your family loses face, but your happiness is the big thing. You will definitely suffer with him in the future, but there is no guarantee that you will be happy!

Perhaps your happiness is the happiness of hardship that only you can experience! Maybe you're a husband. If he marries you, he will rise to prominence!

But who knows?

4: To be honest, I think your boyfriend is quite a failure, if he doesn't even have a job, and he says how to be happy in the future, it's really too fake, too self-righteous! I think he's an irresponsible person!

I don't know how you like him! I guess it's handsome, because your family didn't say he was ugly. Maybe it's because he's good-looking, so you can have a heart!

5: Can you eat handsome? Can handsome be spent as money?

In this world, if you are not realistic, you will suffer, if you don't support your family and want to suffer for a period of time or a lifetime, then no one can control you, including your parents! But since you asked, it means that you don't completely want to go with him!

6: Actually, if you think everything through, your question is a very simple one! Have you watched "The New Marriage Era"?

I suggest you check it out! Inside is the issue of marriage: to a certain extent, it really has to be the right person!

Otherwise, there will be a lot of things you can't think of in the future, love is not everything! It's really not everything!

7: From his point of view, maybe you will really break through all barriers in the future, and then you will live happily ever after. Maybe you won't be able to continue in the future, so you'll have to get divorced.

You may be poor in the future, but you still feel happy! These are the results! What else?

Maybe not!

8: I think you better think it over before deciding! Since your family doesn't approve of it, I think the truth may really not be in the hands of a few! Finally, I would like to end with an old saying: long pain is better than short pain!

Think twice before deciding. I wish you happiness! Big sister!

Emotionally, I told me to stay in China with my girlfriend.

The rational side told me to go back and help my mother.

It's really hard for you to ask such a question.

It's up to you.

You said, "Your mom was beaten, and you thought you should go back to see your mom without hesitation, right?"

You know how to hurt your dog daughter.

Have you forgotten your mother??

I'm sorry, maybe I'm not old enough to tell you, but I'd like to try to say something, okay?

Regarding the choice between family and love, it seems that unless someone gives in, it will never have the best of both worlds

This is not to say that everyone is the same, maybe for any person, what they experience and feel, and what they are given are all things to be considered in their choices

For example, I'm just about to go to university, and I think that no matter what time of year my family, my parents, aunts and uncles are always the most important thing to me. When my mother passed away in my first year of high school, I felt that the sky had fallen, because I had always been worshiped and grew up, just sensible, just knew the warmth and home, I remember that my brother was asked to go back to school immediately, he just could have it at any other time, but my mother is this one in my life I want to tell you this, I want to tell you that if your mother and family are very important to you, then don't let yourself experience the regret of filial piety and not waiting for your family!

Also, if your girlfriend loves you, then she should at least be considerate and support you, wouldn't it be bad to force you to make such a difficult choice at such a moment? Don't be an unfilial person because you don't know how to understand and respect love, that's unwise, isn't it? I think if I choose a boyfriend, the first thing is that he must be filial, according to his own parents and my family's attitude!

The advice for you is that you talk to your girlfriend again, if she really loves you, she will respect you, if you can't bear to hurt her, maybe you can leave a letter to her without saying goodbye, you go back to deal with what you should deal with first, if she loves you, she will go back to you or wait for you, if she is angry with you and ignore you, I think I don't want such a girl to me, hehe

The other question is why was your mother beaten? If it's Lingtang's problem, then it's still a matter of conscience, isn't it?

What you said reminds me of a famous choice, if my mother and wife fall into the water at the same time, who will be rescued first, maybe my answer is to save my wife ashore first, drowning with my mother in my arms, alas. It's pathetic

It will pass soon, and I believe that you will make the right choice and not hurt anyone!!

Also, is the dog daughter a dog or a doll? If it's a doll, it's very sad

It depends on whether you are each other's true love??? Love to the extreme, thinking is not possession, but sacrifice, you might as well try to give up a little, after all, you will be happy when you see the person you really love get real happiness

It can only be said that your love is really painful.

You live a sad life all day long, and it's no wonder that you don't drive people crazy.

If this is the kind of love, I suggest you go through the divorce procedures, what's the point of living together like this? In this case, you don't need to care about family affection, boldly let go and try to take care of your love, if there is no intention to change your mind. It's true.

It is recommended that you divorce as well.

People have been fantasizing about a place called Paradise Lost, full of pain and sorrow, without the slightest memory, forgetting that their purpose is only to appreciate and not to live.

As long as you can separate family and love, there will be no entanglement.

If I choose family affection, because family affection is only once, and love can still come if it is lost.

If I could only choose one, I would choose family affection. Although it is said that love is supreme. Love is a pursuit of a better life, true love never gives up, but love also has a day of betrayal!

When you came into this world, you had nothing but your relatives, and everything you have now was given to you by your relatives. When you are frustrated in life, it is your relatives who help you When you are wronged in life, it is your relatives who comfort you When you fail in love, you can't do without the enlightenment of your relatives Of course, everyone's thoughts are different, and I just say what I think.

Choose family affection, because your parents will never betray you, and love, after today, who knows tomorrow?

There is only one parent, and family affection is the most important.

Of course, family affection is more important

I'm also embarrassed by you, my family doesn't approve of me being with her. It's so hard!