Isn t it silly that I hate that I love her? 30

You're tough. Psychologically speaking, you call this third-party altruistic love, which is a kind of deformed love. Completely consider each other and give up your own interests, but love is a matter of two people, a lifetime is very long, can you guarantee that you can tolerate her leaving again and again, getting hurt and coming back?

Only a relatively equal, mutually respectful love can be happy and long-lasting. There is no confidante, and no man can calmly watch his beloved woman with other men. If you want to let go, if you want to, explain it, love, please love deeply, if you don't love, you will go your own way.

I wish you happiness.

Man, when you love her, it's happy in the middle, isn't it?

Sometimes, people can't control their feelings, and the more you hate her now, the more you love her.

Since you hate it, there is a way to resolve it, and since you can't continue anymore, you can't let it go.

It's not good to make it easier for yourself.

Go and make a career now, and there will be better women who will love you in the future.

In fact, not every woman is as you imagined, and there are many good women in the world, but you haven't noticed it for the time being. Forgetting a person is hard though. However, as long as time passes.

The feelings are also weakened. Let's put our feelings aside for a while. Don't overthink it.

Focus on your career. But don't think too far

Indeed,"Love''The essence is"Really''...

Leave"Really''of"Love''It's not going to talk about it, and it's not at all"Love''...

.Sincerity and sincerity are undoubtedly the most touching"Love''...

That, you are"Really''Yes?

If not, then please don't waste your time and feelings. Don't waste it"Love''...

If yes"Really''of

That bless you. You have to know how to cherish it. Cherish her eyes, cherish her love, cherish her tears.

Do you know? I've also had a love that isn't love. I was in the same class as him, and he sat in front of me. I liked him very much, and I still do, but I didn't confess, I was scared. Now he's gone to another school, and I haven't seen him again, but I've been thinking about him all the time.

Actually, if you really love, don't hate anymore.

Who doesn't have anyone who can't live How to live and how to live The important thing is whether you have any worries in your heart.

I don't know what the truth is, anyway, I used to think that without her, I would definitely die, and it turned out to be alive and well ==

Dude, look away.

Dude, to tell you the truth, there are not many people who are as infatuated as you, I didn't see how you ended, first love is the most unforgettable, and it is also the most blind to pass it.

You're too stupid and too infatuated, there aren't many people like you.

There's a radio station in Zhengzhou that is not lonely tonight, and it's an emotional talk show that you can call them.

Actually, you're not stupid, that's true love.

You love her very much, but the other person doesn't love you. It's really not fair to you, and it's an endless torture. You have to understand that love is the result of the joint efforts of two people, only by loving each other and appreciating each other can we be together, and if you pay unilaterally, there will be no good results.

1. Face people who don't love you and learn to accept reality.

In fact, everyone has their own advantages and disadvantages, it is impossible for everyone or the person you like to like you must like you, everyone has their own right to pursue love, in the face of people who do not love to bend you, you must learn to accept and let go, in order to welcome the person you really love to come to your side. You know, all you've lost is someone who doesn't love you.

2. Make yourself better.

The other party doesn't love you, and many people can't get out of the knot, which is a normal phenomenon. But we can't always spin in the mud and allow ourselves to be sad, but at the same time, we must let ourselves be chic, go out on a trip when we have nothing to do, get together, become a workaholic, etc., and let many things occupy the "position" before TA.

After a long time, you will naturally forget more, and your life will move forward, after all, there is still a long way to go, you can't hang yourself from a tree, you still have many opportunities and choices.

3. You should be estranged from each other and stop paying.

In the face of people who don't love you, keep a distance from them, stop paying to them, whether it is gold Q or time, energy, and paying attention to each other's behavior, because the other party's every move will have emotions that will be affected, and blind ears will make your heart nowhere to place, so as to make yourself chaotic and affect your normal life.

In fact, love is mutual, not wishful thinking can be happy, forced love is bitter, blindly humble to please will only make yourself very cheap, for people who do not love you are not worth your pay, you should choose to give up, love to the person who cherishes you, so that you can get happiness.

It's not that he hates you, but his heart is tired and tired, and he also knows that you may just be threatening him, and he doesn't want to compromise anymore! When people are angry, they will say very hurtful things, which shows that you hurt him deeply! From now on, you have to use your sincerity to move him, warm him, instead of always quarreling, whether he ignores you or not, if you are determined to improve your relationship, you must learn to care for him, let him feel your sincerity, and prove it with your practical actions!

First of all, judging from the fact that he hasn't divorced you yet, he still loves you!!

Marriage is a very serious matter, and both parties should not understand before marriage that each other is the one who wants to stay together until old age!

Judging from the current situation, your husband can't say that he hates you, at most he has a lot of resentment in his heart! Now you should grasp the attitude of your heart towards this marriage, do you still love him? If love, I think you should understand what to do by now.

For the woman she loves, every man who loves her is a good man! If you feel like you've reached the point of no return! Maybe it's good for each other to be separated.

For quarrels, every man is soft-hearted, and in the face of his beloved man, coquettishness is the biggest killer! Also, dignity is sometimes important for men, sometimes you take a step back from each other, and maybe you will also be good to go further!

I've calmed down and figured it out!

Cherish the people who love you, and I wish you happiness at the same time!! And don't do stupid things......Hope it can help you, cherish!!

Don't you know that when people are angry, everything they say hurts people?

Maybe you treated your husband badly before, and he accumulated too much resentment in his heart, and he wanted to vent it at this time, after all, people's patience has a limit. Don't worry too much about what your husband has said, if he doesn't say anything, doesn't make noise, and ignores you, that's the most terrible. It was an attitude of indifference, and I wanted to give up completely.

So, no matter how bad you did before, as long as you change from now on, I believe your husband's attitude will definitely change. After all, your husband is still a person with a strong sense of family responsibility, and from the bottom of his heart, he still puts the family first. You should be glad to have met such a man.

From now on, know how to respect your husband, don't speak ill of each other, save face for your husband, and don't hurt too much when you say angry words. When your husband speaks unpleasantly to you, you will also feel uncomfortable, so if you know this discomfort, don't say unpleasant things to your husband easily. In life, we should care more about and be considerate of each other, and understand and trust each other more.

In fact, your husband is the person who accompanies you the farthest, so why don't you treat him well? Parents will leave us, children will have their own families, only the husband is the one who has been with him for a long time, cherish his family, and manage his marriage well.

You are a very smart woman, and you know very well what you are doing wrong, and if you can know what you are wrong, you can correct it

Wishing you happiness

He doesn't want you to die. Maybe he's just tired, maybe he feels that he can't get anything in return for his blind efforts, his heart is tired, his body is tired. Affection is to cherish each other. People are cheap, and they always don't regret until they lose them.

It is advisable to put away your little temperament and big temper. Care more about him and try to avoid arguing with him. As long as you take good care of it, he may change his mind.

It is no longer fashionable to fall in love at first sight, but to fall in love over time. Seeing that he has been with you for so long, it is impossible for him to have no feelings for you. Anyway, it's still affectionate, isn't it?

Men need to be tolerant, but women need to stop being petty, that is called a girl, not a woman.

Maybe it's a little late, it's already disgusting. Disgust is not so simple and irreparable.