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Actually, you don't have to think too much about it. Although you have a good relationship, you are far apart, and there will be a gap in your relationship. He is very busy at work, so when you communicate with him, don't say some trivial things like before, because he will find you annoying and feel that you are inconsiderate of him, so that your estrangement will get bigger and bigger, and finally he really doesn't love you anymore!
You should care about his work from time to time, ask him if he has any troubles, and you can find a way together when you encounter difficulties, so that he feels that you are his right-hand man and an indispensable part. Your relationship will be better that way. As your relationship continues to develop, you pull out.
One or two days, preferably a commemorative day between you, such as his birthday (don't be your birthday, so that he will feel that it is a birthday and you will be annoyed), and ...... you meet for the first time, you don't tell him beforehand, and then suddenly run to where he lives, prepare a table of dishes or an environment that you think will create an atmosphere, and when he comes back and surprises him, he will be moved, and yours will last forever. But these methods need to be persistent, come on! I wish you success!! It's mine.
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The kind of problem you mentioned is something that most lovers will encounter.
Especially in a long-distance relationship, it takes the persistence of two people.
Men are like this, when they chase you, they are obedient to you, and they are pampered in every way, but it's not the same thing when they chase you, hey, I feel it deeply.
When he goes to work, he will have more contact with more people, his social scope will be wider, and he will no longer be as simple as in school, he also has his own affairs, and there will be times when he is tired and annoyed at work. It often makes you feel like he's ignoring you. But what two people need to be together is mutual tolerance and understanding, I think you should have a good talk, it's useless to think about anything, maybe you are not in the same city, so there is not so much communication, there will be a slight gap between the two people, this still depends on you to solve.
Someone can't tell you one-sidedly whether he loves you or not.
There are really too many problems that you need to face in a long-distance relationship, but if you work hard to work in the same direction, you will continue to be the envy of others in the eyes, don't think too much, go to him and talk to him, say what you want to say, come on.
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Concerning! Recommendations:
1.Tell her what you think directly and get an explanation from him.
2.Ask him directly if he still loves you and is willing to be with you for a lifetime, and if he is very sincere, he is willing to love you for the rest of his life. You should learn to understand him. After all, everyone has a lot of pressure in society now.
3.You can also test him. For example, saying that you are sick. Or something like not passing an important exam yourself, see how he reflects.
4.That day, hit him **, talk about the weather, anyway, these are very boring questions, see his reaction. You'll have a rough idea of what he's thinking.
5.Communication and exchange are very important between lovers. If you can't do that, it's painful to be together. You tell me? So if you really care about this love, you should go for it. Go and give. Times are different.
I'd love to know how you're doing, and if it goes well, give me a message. Ha.
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In fact, you shouldn't ask him if he loves you or not. I want to think about whether I still love him. You've talked about you in several ways.
Environmental change. When you are sure that you love him, talk about whether he loves you or not. If he loves you, you will be nice to him.
Good to talk about. If nothing changes, it's hanging. But if he changes. The answer is yes. Finally send you one.
Sentence: If the two love is long-lasting; And in the morning and twilight?
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He may be tired at work now, but you think too much, think more for him, understand him a little more, and care about him a little more
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The environment is different, the personality has changed, and the way of expression is different, it is not necessarily 、、、 change of mind
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Don't be suspicious! Love him and believe in him! If you have doubts, take action to dispel them!
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It seems that you may be too filtered, he is so persistent in chasing you, I believe that he will not change his mind so easily
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After thinking so much, everything will be fine.
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This situation may make you feel anxious and uneasy, but the first thing to be clear about is that love is a matter for both parties, and it takes two people to work together and manage. If you feel that you love him very much, but the other person does not show the same affection, then you can consider the following:
1.Communicate feelings: Start by communicating with the other person, expressing your feelings and thoughts, and asking the other person what they think of your feelings and relationships. This allows you to have a clearer picture of the other person's thoughts and attitudes, allowing you to get a better grasp of the situation.
2.Give each other time: Sometimes love needs time to cultivate and accumulate, maybe the other person just needs more time to get to know you and build a relationship. So, after you try to communicate, give each other a certain amount of time and space to see if it will change.
3.Consider your feelings: Although you love him very much, you should also consider your own feelings and needs. If the other person's attitude and behavior have not been what you wanted, then you also need to consider your feelings and needs before deciding whether to continue the relationship.
4.Establish a healthy view of love: The most important thing is to establish a healthy view of love, recognizing that love needs to be managed by both parties, and cannot be just unilateral efforts and sacrifices.
At the same time, it is also important to maintain your independence and self-esteem, and do not violate your own principles and values in order to be recognized by the other party.
In short, you need to consider your feelings and needs, communicate with each other, give each other time and space, establish a healthy outlook on love, and at the same time maintain your independence and self-esteem.
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Hello friend, if you love very much and don't feel that the other person loves you very much, this can also be one-sided love, and each of us hopes that we can have a happy and happy love. But in the process of pursuing love, you will find that in many cases your efforts can not achieve satisfactory results, although you love each other with your heart, but you don't feel that she loves you very much. At this time, it is necessary to carefully analyze the reasons and take targeted measures to deal with them.
Specifically, at this time, you should fully show your love to the other party, strive to touch the other party's heart, change the way of communication, let the other party fully understand yourself, and understand the other party's true thoughts, and respond to the actual situation.
1. You should first fully show your love and strive to touch the other person's heart.
When you love each other with your heart but don't feel that you love each other, you should first show your love more fully and strive to touch the other person's heart.
The reason why I say this is because although I loved each other very much before, I may not have fully expressed it in terms of specific words and deeds, so that the other party did not feel my love, and of course I need to try to impress the other party by showing my love more fully.
2. You should change the way you communicate so that the other party can more fully understand yourself and yourself.
When you don't feel that the other person loves you very much, you should change the way you interact with the other person so that the other person can understand you more fully. ......This is because the way I had a relationship before may not be appropriate, and the other party did not understand me, so I did not feel my love, so I was very cold to myself. When you change the way you interact, and the other party understands you, you will love yourself with your heart.
3. Understand the real thoughts of the other party and respond according to the actual situation.
Sometimes, although you love each other with your heart, the other person doesn't like you, so you can't feel the other person's love. ......At this time, you should find a way to understand the other person's real thoughts and respond according to the specific situation.
If the other person wants to examine themselves further, then they have to work harder. And if the other party doesn't like you, you should give up rationally, find a lover who is really suitable for you, and pursue your own love.
I don't think it's very likely that he really loves you, although saying so may hurt you, but online dating is unreliable after all, I think giving up is a wiser choice, he said that dealing with more things is just a shirk, how can a person really be cold, he may just want to hang you, you can spend time when you are bored, I can say more realistic, but I think it's better to see the reality, give up early, and there will be people for you.
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Haha, it's up to the husband, if he likes it, there's nothing.