My girlfriend was cold to me after she had a boyfriend, why?

It is important to adjust your mentality, a person's energy is limited, compared to her boyfriend, after all, she is a person who will live for a lifetime, and the attention will definitely be high, and there will definitely be less attention to you. Girlfriends are not your personal belongings, don't keep thinking about possession, be natural. Remember, others are kind to you, and it's not wrong to not care about you

In fact, many people are like this, don't think about it so much. When she is in trouble, she will think of you again, in fact, we just need to be ourselves, and don't change because of her changes. I've had experiences like yours, I've let go now, and after a long time, nothing will matter.

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It's all about girlfriends.

Since they're all girlfriends, don't worry about these things anymore.

Friends find happiness, you should be happy.

It's time to find your significant other.

When you have a boyfriend, it's the same.

Those who ignore their girlfriends when they have a partner can only say that you have known each other for many years, but the relationship is really not necessarily very deep girlfriends, and the real girlfriends have a good relationship, and they should not only have a boyfriend, because she will care about the feelings in the hearts of the girlfriends. I personally don't think it's a real girlfriend if I have an object, maybe I've been looking at the girlfriends around me for a long time and the relationship is too good (they are all straight), so I think those cold looks are very uncomfortable.

There are also other situations, if you are not a close friend, you have to know everything, and you will be told all the time, and as people get older, they will only give less and less to others......As long as the other party has you, they really treat you as a best friend, and they can go through many years without having to contact you every day.

When the relationship is good to a certain extent, even if you don't chat every day, or you haven't spoken for a few days, when you have something, she will still think of you first. But the difference is that she has a boyfriend now, and she must have a lot to say to her boyfriend......You should understand that, after all, you all have your own lives, and it's normal to change things after adding variables.

The best girlfriend I play with is that we don't have to talk every day, even if she often asks me to borrow some money (the kind that will be repaid soon) when she has something to do, and she doesn't say a word when she is fine, but as long as we talk, we can talk hotly.

And then it's okay to fall in love cold......My previous best friend was like this, and the most annoying thing was that when I quarreled, I had to complain to a single dog about blabla, and I would also feel why I was so annoying, but I thought that she had a quarrel with her boyfriend and could only find me to complain, so I endured ......it

In short, she fell in love, of course, her boyfriend is very important at this stage, because the two of you already have a relationship foundation, she must be the most important thing at this time is to consolidate her relationship with her boyfriend, I think I can understand. And she didn't come to you just to help, don't think too much.

A real good friend is that we don't necessarily have to be together every day, but as long as we need each other, we are there.

It shows that this friend of yours is a person who forgets his friends, I think how to say it, everyone's thoughts are different, or my words, may slowly stay away.

You should have your own life, find something to do with yourself, there are many joys in life, there is no need to play with your girlfriends.

You can use this way, and then communicate well with your girlfriends, in fact, most girls are like this, and after having a boyfriend, they will slowly become estranged from their friends.

I think you can go and make some new friends, you should bless her and don't disturb her life.

If your best friend has a boyfriend and is getting colder and colder to yourself, you should make it clear to your best friend, and sometimes we should understand your best friend, and if you have a partner, you will do this to your best friend.

You also find a boyfriend so that you also have something to do and you won't go to her. Or maybe you're looking for a busyer job.

At this time, you can also find a boyfriend by yourself, so that he can accompany you every day and no longer be alone.

1. There are many kinds of girlfriends, some of the same gender and those of the opposite sex, so they must be treated differently.

So for those girlfriends of the same sex, does it also mean that they will be estranged? At this point, I personally think that it varies from person to person, and it depends on what kind of girlfriend the relationship between the two is? 1. Companion girlfriends; 2. Accompany eating and drinking girlfriends; 3. Soul exchange girlfriends; Whether it's estranged or as good as ever, I don't think it matters, as long as it's handled properly.

Second, it is understandable that human feelings have an exclusive aspect, and we must learn to understand it correctly.

Anyone who has ever brought a child knows that when two children play together, they can usually play for a long time, but if a third child joins, it is easy to have conflicts with each other. This is the case between children, and adults are no exception, which has nothing to do with whether love and friendship can exist at the same time.

3. Love and friendship can be at the same time, but they can not happen at the same time, and they can be staggered at their respective times.

How so? Just like a person eats and loves to sing, eating and sleeping is a person's basic need, singing and dancing is a person's personal hobby, which is no problem, but both need to use the mouth, which means that at the same time, you can't sing and eat at the same time, that is to say, you can't eat when you sing, and you can't sing when you eat. In the same way, we can do one thing at the same time, don't pull your boyfriend when you're playing with your girlfriend, and don't pull your girlfriend when you're with your boyfriend.

Normal friendship and love can exist at the same time, on the one hand, enjoy love, on the other hand, you can also have two girlfriends, talk about your heart, especially the girlfriends who have played since childhood.

Most people may not feel it, but if people have love, it can't be hidden, always hope to be together every day, inseparable, they don't feel it, but for the girlfriends who were together before, they feel it, you don't care too much about the people and things of your girlfriends, it turns out that this and that kind of sharing together, now you just want to share with your boyfriend, even if you are with your girlfriend, but also talk about your boyfriend, good and bad, in your mouth are all advantages, eyes are full of light, girlfriends will be jealous. With a boyfriend, time is a little tight, I don't have time to play with my girlfriends, most of the time I spend with my boyfriend, I feel a little estranged, and I won't be estranged because of these after I stabilize with my boyfriend.

Of course, it is a matter of course, because after falling in love, I only want to be with my other half every day, so it is easy to ignore my girlfriends, which is also human nature.

It's normal for your girlfriend to be estranged from you after she has a boyfriend, you have to understand your girlfriend's behavior, she has a boyfriend, and most of the time is spent in love.

This is a matter of course, but such a friend who is heavy on sex and light on friends is not a good friend, and maybe the girlfriend will be afraid that you will snatch her boyfriend.

Yes. Because it's only when both of them are single that it's possible to hang out often. If she had a partner, she would have gone out with it.

It is a matter of course, because the relationship between the two of them is very good right now, so it is also reasonable to be estranged from you, so you should wait.

I don't think it should be taken for granted, because even if she has a boyfriend, she should have her own life.

This is normal, don't worry too much, a person has so much energy, she divides her energy with her boyfriend, and naturally her love for you will be reduced.

Summary. That's because there are other people around her, and she feels that she is not the best person in her heart or who will spend more time, and there is a feeling of loneliness, as if everyone was happy together at the end of a banquet, and in the end she was the only one who went home.

Why do my girlfriends have a boyfriend, I feel uncomfortable.

That's because there are other people around her, and she feels that she is not the best person in her heart or who will spend more time, and there is a feeling of loneliness, as if everyone was happy together at the end of a banquet, and in the end she was the only one who went home.

In this case, many people will have a psychology that a person suddenly appears to occupy her attention and take away the attention that originally belonged to you.

What is the problem you are experiencing? You can describe it to me in detail, so that I can better answer for you.

Why do I feel repulsive towards them?

Most of the reason was because he felt that when he came to her, they belonged to the same kind of people, and he was excluded, and he felt that he couldn't fit in with them or walk among them.

Did she feel this way during this time, or did she feel this way before she didn't have a boyfriend?

After she had a boyfriend.

That's the kind of reason mentioned above.

Because after determining this relationship, as best friends, they will naturally feel that they are a couple, and from the bottom of their hearts, they will feel that there will be relatively more words and things to do after they are together.

Especially when you say something about the two of them in front of you, it will deepen that feeling even more.

You should adjust your mentality, your best friend has a boyfriend, she will definitely be with her boyfriend, this is a very normal phenomenon, you should want to open.

You also find a boyfriend to warm you up so that you don't suffer from being left out in the cold.

In fact, I also had such a thing as a shiver, after my best friend found Sakura and defeated her boyfriend, she snubbed me for two or three months, and then I was very angry, jealous and had a big fight with my best friend, and then the two reconciled.