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The normal phenomenon of Chinese, looking at American families, is generally the elderly live by themselves, the husband and wife live by themselves, the children grow up and live by themselves, pure and independent family life, life is for enjoyment, not for bearing. We must find a way to change this outdated concept of Chinese and be happy and free people. First of all, your mind needs to change.
Secondly, for things that are not optimistic about your own life, you must see the problem clearly, first of all, self-examination, whether the problem is out of yourself, if it is really from others, then you can only have less contact, find an excuse to go back to your mother-in-law's house for a few days, and let time to confirm whether the problem can be solved.
Finally, if the problem can continue until you can't bear it, it's the time for the "darkness before the dawn."
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Deal with it coldly, if you calm down yourself, others can't help you, let their family go crazy, what do you care about them. Take the child back to her parents' house to hide quietly. Women often don't realize that they are the most decisive, and that children are your greatest asset.
The unlucky man who has a child is useless at all, let alone some rotten person in his family.
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Calm down and communicate with him calmly. Let him know what you think and feel. Be patient with his thoughts and worries, too.
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Your situation is an extremely common phenomenon in the real society, so you can't take your in-laws to listen to the class of health care products (you don't have to buy products), these lecturers who make health care products are very good at opening to the elderly. Second, consider whether you have done something bad, don't think about these things all day long, the more you think about it, the worse things will be......
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Who made you a housewife, there is no profit, are you afraid of social competition to become a housewife? Eating your man's, spending your man's, and arguing with your man, is it interesting? Have the ability, go out of the society and break out of the world so that you can see the man:
It's not that you can't live without a man, you're not a person who doesn't have the ability to survive. Otherwise, don't chirp here and go back to being your housewife and puff bag!
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I feel sorry for you when I hear you, they are too much, if it were me, I would definitely not be able to stand it. Since you are together, don't be separated easily, you will be separated for a while, you will be calm and calm with each other, if this is still the case, then you should consider whether it is time to leave. Marrying him is not angry at home.
Hope you are well!!
It can be seen that you have a certain emotional foundation, but it is a little incompatible in character, quick temper, to be exact, not that the personality is incompatible, but the personality is not well adjusted, if the adjustment is good, there will not be so many contradictions, moreover, in the two people get along and communicate not grasp a suitable way of communication for each other, which leads to the fact that you always have some disagreements and quarrels in all aspects of life and other details, so over time, This creates a situation and impression that two people quarrel a lot together. Although the quarrel is not big, if it is frequent, it will hurt the feelings and will make the feelings diluted. It is recommended to find a suitable way of communication according to your personality and other aspects, so as to make your relationship more stable and harmonious.
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