I ve been arguing with my husband lately

You yourself said that there is no money, no money, so you have to save some money. If you go to a restaurant for a meal, he will have at least 2-3 days' salary. What kind of clothes are good? Is it a good dress to wear, Armani, Adi, Nike, like that?

Yes, women love beauty and need cosmetics, you can buy cosmetics yourself, how many men buy cosmetics for women? Does he know what brand to buy and which to buy? I don't know.

He's good to you, he's working hard to make money, he's working hard, of course he wants his wife and children to live happily. But you have to understand that from poor to rich, you have to go through a process, not fall from the sky, which is a slow effort with your hands. I can't hope for it.

You can't cry, you can't make trouble.

Imagine how many young people have the ability? They have no capital, only to make money by working hard with their hands. You should accompany him through the ups and downs, the sun is always after the storm, not you want it to come...

Don't wear clothes too well, that's luxury, waste. It's true. I've been wearing designer brands since I was 13 years old.

At that time, the people around me were all buying clothes in big shopping malls. Slowly, they all wore famous brands. Instead, I went to the mall to buy clothes.

I understand that money is hard to make, you have to save some money, you can't be extravagant and wasteful.

They only earn about 1,000 a month, or even hundreds, and they all wear famous brands, I don't understand why, why don't young people know how to save money and keep it for later? Now, I'm the other way around. I go to the mall to buy shoes and clothes, Anta now buy one get one free, I don't buy it, I go to Datou to buy it.

My current conditions, so to speak, are better than the savings and living conditions of many families who have been married for 5 to 8 years. That's a matter of accumulation, not a momentary affair. I'm 22 years old).

My dad and a friend of his drove a wide book and went to the stall to eat snacks. Don't think about living a life of luxury, know how to save !

Then why did you marry him in the first place, did you love him? I think as long as he still loves you, as long as he is good to you and the child, it is enough, why care so much? Money is something outside the body, and having a happy and warm home is the most important thing!

Let him accompany you for a walk in the small park after dinner... Adjust your mood·· Release some work stress...

Be optimistic... It's always going to be fine...

You are asking too much, is he not having money and doesn't want to take you out to play, so you want to divorce him for this? You are also too fond of vanity, many people have been married for a long time and have no money to travel, nor have they eaten in big restaurants, nor have many cosmetics. That's normal.

You have to take your time, didn't you think about this question when you got married, why didn't you marry a lot of money at that time? You always complain about him this and that, can you not quarrel? If you have to adjust your mentality first for the sake of your children, you are not willing to live a dull life, how can this work?

You are in a better situation than me, my husband doesn't even have to pay for the basic household expenses, including the children, let alone buy me good clothes to wear, invite me to the restaurant to eat, and cosmetics,

Are you in a relationship right now? Since it's not, what do you still want to play? I want other cosmetics and so on.

Can't you think about your children and save the rest of your money for future plans? Falling in love is different from getting married, falling in love is playing, and it takes time for feelings to heat up. Since you have come to marriage, you should have expected that married life must require money.

If you divorce your husband for money, it's really not worth it and it's too irrational, have you thought about who your children will be with after they leave? Like everyone else, who wants their children to be called other people's parents? It is difficult to guarantee that the child will be happy in the future.

Money can be earned slowly, but depending on whether you are personally aware of the words "diligence and thrift", if not, even if you earn more, you will not be able to manage your finances, it is useless. There is also a need to know how to communicate with your husband, and getting along with husband and wife is: you let me, I let you, I will follow your will, and you will follow my will.

After living like this, there must be a quarrel between the two together, and it will be seen if the aftermath will be dealt with.

Let's talk to your husband for a good time! Or go there and have a hand.

Alas, your husband must also be under a lot of pressure and tired of life.

Both of them were already so tired that they had to torture each other. Stop a little, you make him happy, and he will reciprocate you.

You are really a powerful woman, my wife never quarrels with me because of money, your husband married you is really a mistake, you will not look for the advantages of others, money can't solve everything, there are some things you don't know how to cherish when you have them, and when you lose them, you will be unable to recover them.