Will a man be exposed when he gets married?

Of course, it will be revealed.

It feels like it's going to be revealed.

Always doesn't care about you and doesn't contact you.

Is it true that men and women disguise themselves when they fall in love, and when they get married, they reveal their true form?

Men and women will disguise themselves when they fall in love, and after marriage, their true form will be revealed, which is not the case. That's a rare case. Most people are happy couples who love each other on the outside.

This is normal. In front of the people you like, you will more or less consciously or unconsciously hide your shortcomings. The subconscious mind is the fear that the person you like will not like you.

Got married, got it. I don't have to worry about disliking it, so naturally I don't need to hide it anymore.

In order to make the other party approve, so just disguise, and help get married to help get rid of bad habits, just do it.

Of course, when falling in love, they will do some disguise, but smart people will see through each other through disguise, as long as there are no unbearable vices or character problems, this level of disguise is generally not a problem. My husband and I are a success story, he was a cool shepherd when he was in love, and he became stupid after marriage, and my cute sister was smashed when I was in love, and the woman smashed it after marriage, hahaha, a few years later, laughing at each other is **, especially interesting.

That's right, because now that you've got it, there's no need to hide.

Yes, there are still some small problems hidden before getting married.

Many people live together and are completely exposed.

Well, not necessarily. Some people don't disguise themselves. And some people are good at disguise.

The reality of society is like this.

I think mostlyWill work hard, will avoid household chores, do not like to clean up after themselves,Don't think it's hard to understand only women's thoughts. Many men actually have very strange thoughts, especially after marriage, their psychology will change a lot. In order to have a stable marriage and a harmonious relationship between two people, a woman needs to understand the psychological changes in men so that it is beneficial for marriage and life.

Let's take a look at the psychological changes of a man after marriage.

Will work hard

If a family wants to run well, it also needs to have a certain economic foundation, and men become the main ** of the whole family, especially when their wives become full-time housewives, they also take on the responsibility of the whole family. Children's food, clothing, housing, transportation, and household expenses come from their hard work. Therefore, when a man is really married, he often works harder than before.

In this way, he is a responsible person, that is, a mature person. After all, if a person does not have a family, how much money he can spend, how much money he can spend, he does not have to take care of others at all.

Will avoid household chores

Laziness is an inherent vice of this species. Men and women pay attention to their image, men shape their responsibilities, and women are mostly kind. However, there is another difference between men and women.

After receiving the certificate and having a small family of their own, men begin to become lazy, while women are more diligent, as if men are consuming their enthusiasm in communication. As a result, many things in the family cannot but be done. The preconceived notion in China is that men are primarily responsible for external affairs, while the home is the domain of women.

I don't like to clean myself up

One of the biggest changes in a man's marriage is that he is too lazy to clean himself up. If he doesn't need to go out, he basically doesn't wash his hair, brush his teeth, and shave. In a man's heart, everyone is a member of his own family, so he can rest assured that he doesn't need those disguises.

This is also why men like girls without makeup, because in the eyes of men, the closer two people are, the more natural they are. SoI think the main thing is that they work hard, avoid housework, and don't like to clean up after themselvesThe above is just a personal opinion.

I think

1. Less attention to his wife

Married men usually have a comparative.

With a high sense of security, they feel that they have married the woman home, so they don't have to work hard to pursue and please as before, so they relax their attention to their wives and no longer spend all their time with her. They will be more inclined to develop their social circle. For married women, men are very relieved, and their psychological changes have changed, which makes them feel at ease to go out of the house to meet friends or develop their circle of friends.

Second, the development of the cause has become a psychological support

3. Don't pay attention to small things such as your own hygiene

This seems to be a change in all married men, at this time you can see his nature, maybe because of work, he feels very tired when he comes home, in order to be comfortable, he does not want to clean up at any time, or rely on a woman to clean up for him, and does not take his own hygiene seriously.

Fifth, men are less concerned about housework

In fact, married men want to live a simpler life, they are less concerned about some family matters, but will pay more attention to their own work and things, they think that some family trivial matters are handled by women.

In short, the reason why men change after marriage is actually a change in their mentality, and women must understand how to adapt to this change. And men should also pay more attention to the psychological needs of their wives, only when both husband and wife adjust their mentality, can they live happily together.

The above is only my personal opinion.

1.The image has changed too much - if the years are a knife to kill pigs, then marriage is a pig feed.

Every greasy married man used to be a little fresh meat.

This should be the biggest change that is visible to the naked eye for many married men – gaining weight. As the progress bar of the marriage slowly lengthens, the men's faces also widen horizontally; The neck is also getting shorter; The belly is also developing in the direction of "pregnant August" day by day.

This is the person who finally found a pick-up, so give up on yourself? Everyone's wife should be rewarded with a pennant - a professional pig farmer.

2.Psychologically, he is becoming more and more Buddhist - his wife and children are hot on the kang, and life is like this.

Before marriage, he was a young man with strong blood, but after marriage, he became a submissive uncle. Life is very good now, I don't want to change much, and it's best to maintain my current happiness, so I am decadent.

3。Before marriage, you are a treasure, and after marriage, when you are grass.

This should be a problem that many women encounter. Before you get married, you ask him to come over and take a picture of a cockroach, he runs faster than anyone else, and after marriage, you may need to be alone and calm to face a lot of unknown things, and he is expressionless on the side. In fact, a man's thinking is really not in the same dimension as a woman, he thinks it's normal, married, who is still the same as before, my parents don't live like this.

But women are different, women don't enter life so quickly and peacefully, they still need romance and pampering, men can become their fathers in one day, but women need a long time to be their mothers.

4.Becoming lazier in behavior.

When they are in love, boys are diligent, and many of them take care of all the big and small affairs; After marriage, he immediately became the shopkeeper, is this finally the original form of the hand?

In short, in marriage, men should take the initiative to participate and actively maintain the marital relationship

Be sure to take the initiative to do housework more - don't leave everything to a woman, and in the end it is yourself who suffers, she can talk to you until you doubt life.

Be sure to exercise more and stay in shape - it is said that women age faster than men, but in fact, men are the first to enter the ranks of oiliness. Get some exercise, and your significant other will love you more.

You must clearly and unswervingly stand on your wife's side - you are living with your wife, and only when you recognize this fact can you balance the relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and it can be regarded as fighting for your own peaceful life.

When a man marries a woman to the family, he feels relieved, don't talk about I love you so much before, and rarely take care of housework, mainly focusing on his own career.

The psychological change that men have after the meeting is that they think that the bad woman is better than the woman in the family.

It should be that after marriage, it will be more relaxed, and at this time, because of the relationship between husband and wife, there will be some small problems before recovering themselves, which are covered up in the process of love. Because we are in front of the people we know best, we will react more realistically. So there may be some friction at this time, and we need to be more tolerant of each other.

Of course I'm happy, there's a world of two people, well, no one cares about their own decisions. But I still really want to have the taste of my mother's cooking before. Now it's time to know how to be considerate and how to honor the elderly!

When a man gets married, he feels that he should take on greater responsibilities and work harder and more conscientiously.

Marriage is the grave of love, and in some cases this is true. from Qingqing me and me when I was in love, to firewood, rice, oil and salt after marriage; from the favorite girlfriend who can't see enough every day to the no-makeup mother-in-law who has aesthetic fatigue; From a free bachelor to a family complaining husband who often cries because of his children and his wife; From one person who is fed and the whole family is not hungry and has no burden to become the main economic pillar of the whole family, the change is too big, and you need to adapt slowly. If you want to change this state of life and healing, you must learn more about love preservation and other knowledge, so that the boring life becomes delicious.

What kind of changes will occur in a man's heart after marriage, that is, he will have a greater sense of responsibility as a man, and his care for the family will be safer and more comfortable, and he will not be as impulsive as a hairy young man.

If you get it, you won't cherish it too much, and you will be lazy, let the housework be done for women, and pay less attention to women.

1. Become lazy.

After marriage, the wife will encounter such a situation, the man is very diligent before marriage, but after marriage slowly becomes lazy, sometimes he is not even willing to peel the fruit, and he is really too lazy to go home. You will subconsciously want to ask, where are the people who used to be so considerate of themselves?

2. Like to socialize.

When I used to be with you, your weekend time was always used for dating, he always wanted to stick to you, and when you got married, you would find that the other party began to get busy, and he kept going out to socialize every weekend, and he had become a party instead of accompanying you.

3. Cultivate hobbies.

When you get married, you will find that a man's greatest interest is not to be intimate with you, but to spend a lot of time on other hobbies, such as playing games, fishing, or traveling, and he rarely spends time with you, and sometimes he feels really left out.

4. Pay attention to work.

Married men are no longer continuing the way they used to approach their work, they have become very serious about their work and career, because work is a source of their self-confidence and a fundamental pillar of support for their families. So they want to achieve something in their work and be recognized by their families, and from this point of view, this is also a sign of maturity.

5. Avoid doing housework.

After getting married, you will find that this man no longer likes to do housework, because you are always cleaning silently behind his back, so he starts to not even know about putting clothes, shoes and other things in **, so that he will come to you directly when needed. Such men seem to feel that it is a woman's responsibility to do housework. A big man should not do the housework himself.

6. Hiding private money.

A man may give you his bank card, salary card, or something else before getting married because he never wants to save some personal money. But after marriage, the man thinks that if he has no money, it is not normal, so he may secretly save a small treasury. 

A responsible man will think that after marriage, a new family has been formed, and he is no longer living alone, thinking about problems, doing things, having a family concept, taking on the responsibility of the head of the family, taking on many obligations, and thinking about and taking care of his wife's feelings!

After a man gets married, what changes will occur in his psychology, he should have a sense of responsibility, he will have a direction to work hard, he will become mature and steady, and he will work hard for the happiness of his family.

Perhaps, different men have different attitudes towards marriage, but in general, older, more mature, and responsible men will know how to take responsibility more after marriage. Of course, I will feel happy psychologically, I have finally found a wife, and it is not easy to marry a wife now. In addition, marriage is run by two people together, think more about each other, be considerate of him and her, understand him and her, trust him and her, will make the two people more harmonious, I am still willing to believe that there are respectful couples.

A man who has been divorced twice is either a problem of character or a person who does not know how to manage his feelings, which leads to divorce. He has been divorced many times, I believe there must be a certain shadow in his heart, so do you know each other, know what the other party wants? What is the reason for the change in the other person's attitude?

Every man wants to have a gentle and virtuous wife, the other party doesn't want to say what is in his heart, so do you reflect on whether it is the way you get along with each other to deal with the problem, every marriage has such a run-in period, the key is how you deal with it? Sometimes you regret marrying him, or you want to get a divorce, but if you don't change the way you manage your relationship, then who you're with, there are also a lot of problems. Of course, the marriage is yours and the decision is up to you.

However, don't get divorced easily, because every marriage has problems, do you all take divorce to solve it?