What should I do if I regret it after I get married, and how much do I regret it after I get married

Why didn't you think about getting married? This is irresponsible to yourself and to others!

Not only you, many people are like this, before marriage, each other will show in front of each other that they have little or no attributes that they have won the favor of each other, but after marriage, with the progression of each other's feelings and relationships, each other is not pretending to be themselves, showing their true selves, and then the other party will find completely different from each other. But in fact, the other person you know after marriage is real, and the good image of the other person before marriage is magnified by memories in the long years of dissatisfaction with each other to maintain the marriage. Therefore, the most valuable thing about marriage is not to meet the best marriage partner, but to meet someone who can tolerate his various shortcomings and bad temper.

Why regret. Are you a girl? No matter who you marry, you will regret it.

You don't love him or her anymore? Still is?

A lot. The number of divorces per year is indicative of the problem.

Many cities have divorce rates above 50 percent.

There are still many who are enduring and have not divorced.

After all, there is still a lot of difference between living a life and falling in love.

There must be a lot of more, when I am not married, I look forward to getting married, and after I get married, there are many things in the relationship between the two people in the family. There must be a lot of people who regret it. Married life may not be as perfect as you think.

I saw such a passage on Zhihu: In fact, I will regret it if I don't get married. The cats in the alleys are very free but have no home, and the dogs in the walls have a home, but they have to bow their heads for life.

After getting married, most of them regret it, because before getting married, they gave each other the best side and showed it in front of each other, and they always felt that everything was beautiful and love was sweet. Most will regret it.

Marriage regrets abound, and in the process of getting along, if you find that the three views are different, there will be a surge in contradictions, so the idea of divorce will be derived.

Marriage is like a siege, those who go in want to come out, those who come out want to go in, and of course they lose a lot of freedom when they get married.

If the relationship is good and the economy is stable, it will not.

Because of the urging of his parents, he married the object with whom he did not have a deep relationship, and such a marriage lacked enough understanding, and there would be many potential hidden dangers. Weiwei and Xiao Guo are college classmates and fellow villagers, after graduation, most of the classmates chose to go back to their hometowns, and they both chose to stay and work hard, in a strange city, two familiar people soon came together. Xiao Guo was born in the countryside to conservative parents, and in his hometown, many of his peers were already married when he was in college.

Once his parents took the opportunity to say that they were going to send some special products to Xiao Guo, but after arriving, they had to see Weiwei. Weiwei met her parents very passively, and after the parents of both sides got in touch, they took the initiative to discuss the marriage, and Weiwei felt that she was not ready. The days of working hard outside are very hard, compared to working day and night, narrow rental housing, going back to the hometown to get married is indeed a good choice, both parents bought a wedding house for them, plus dowry and bride price, slightly feel very happy.

But the two did not live together before marriage, and many differences were slowly revealed after marriage, such as Xiao Guo always snoring loudly when he sleeps, and always smokes in the room. If there is a chance to do it all over again, Weiwei will definitely choose to understand more during the love period, and the most feared thing in marriage is disappointment and regret.