How to forget her I really can t do it. But so what. 10

The relationship in high school can't stand the test, don't be so troubled, no one can stop you if you can really be together.

Don't deliberately look for her, if she really loves you, she will try to eliminate the misunderstanding, we have all experienced the youthful emotions of high school, and it is really beautiful to think about it now, I hope you are admitted to a good university, and I also hope that your relationship will develop healthily.

If you love, you will love, be free and easy, young people do it spontaneously, don't leave regrets for yourself, in fact, it's very simple, you can go to her if you want to, you care too much about what others think.

At this time, there is no need to face the question of forgetting or not.

Rather, it must be considered: the relationship between school and love. The line between opposition and academic promotion often outweighs the negative effects than the positive ones.

If you can ensure that you have a "premature" relationship at the same time, your grades are relatively stable, and it can be said that it is harmless to talk about it, if you feel helpless, blind, and cranky in front of a relationship, it can only mean one problem: at this stage, you are not capable of dealing with a relationship, or love.

In response to your problem, the little brother gives you a few suggestions, I hope it will be useful to you.

1. Correct your attitude towards feelings, and also correctly understand your feelings.

2. This relationship is what you need from the heart, and from a realistic point of view, it is a little immature and too early.

3. Being angry in front of feelings is the most untouching, the least romantic, the most likely to hurt each other, and the most likely to accelerate the breakdown of the relationship. It's not that you can't get angry, it's that you can't control the consequences of being angry at all, because you don't have that much time to figure out how to run too soon. If you put in a lot of effort during school, you will only end up with regret.

And at that time, you are the only one who hates you.

4. Puppy love is actually not trendy, and many people have experienced it. Look at your current "girlfriend" and figure out what she wants, if she just wants to mess with this time, then she is not your destination; Ask your current "girlfriend", what she wants in the future, according to the answer you will judge some results, if she is destined to be just a passerby, and then entangled, she must not be you. If you want to ask how to figure it out and see it, it's better to ask directly.

5. If all she gives you is confusion and incomprehension, at least it can show that you are not the choice she wants the most.

6. If she is clean and neat, then you directly tell her your thoughts and plans, and then the appropriate interaction should be controlled under the premise of not affecting her studies. If you are her home, you need to be responsible for much more than your studies, and you may even have to build on them.

7. Reconciliation is certainly what you want, but the awkwardness of the cycle and reconciliation is a kind of pain, and a person who is still sober will not like to take this road.

Brother, life is not a game, don't play life. Time is precious, don't spoil it!

I don't agree with you getting back together, in your current state, she is very passive, and you, and you don't want to take the initiative to find her, can this kind of relationship continue, love needs to pay for each other, two people are together, they must tolerate each other, they must be able to communicate, you still have to talk about it, calm down for a while, I really don't want to continue, just break up, you are still studying, you should focus on your studies and believe that you will meet a girl who is suitable for you in the future,

Hello: First of all, I want to tell you that it is difficult to forget someone, especially the person you love deeply or the person you remember memorably. It may take a year to forget, two years or even a lifetime to completely forget.

But if you don't forget, you will fall into distress and entanglement yourself. So what to forget is to try to forget. There are a few long-term and commonly used methods, and I can't guarantee that they will work very well, but they will help you in the end, and you can refer to them.

1.It is not easy to forget a person who has a weight in his heart. It's not impossible.

You can distract yourself by using the distraction method, such as: play more with friends, find more fun to do, read more humorous books, and relax. Watch some comedy and relax.

Listen**, and remember not to be sad. Go out and mingle!

2.Time will make you forget her, it is better to keep yourself very busy every day, it is better not to live in the same city with her, it is better for you to make some new friends, maybe which one is your favorite in the future. In fact, you don't have to forget her, because the more you want to forget, the more you want to forget, you will subconsciously think of her again.

You can go and remember her little by little, when you recall, you will feel that you are very happy, but if you recall a little bit every day, every day a little bit, you will find that your memory is slowly not remembered, just like we eat three meals a day, sometimes even what you eat in the morning, you will forget. Don't go out of your way to forget someone, because then you will love her more than before, it's easy to love someone, it's hard to forget someone, it's harder to really hate someone. You just have to leave the forgetting you want to her to time to solve, it's okay, after a long time, you won't forget it.

3..In fact, sometimes you can think differently: you love her!

But sometimes, giving up is for a better option. On the one hand, you can find your own true love and get someone better than her. On the other hand, you love her, but you want her to live better, maybe she left you and lived better than now, you should actually be happy.

Friend, I can tell you a thing about me: to be honest, I have always liked a girl, but she doesn't like me now, but I also miss you, every time I think about it, but she has a feeling of regret, but I tell myself that I still have a long way to go, and she doesn't accept me, no matter how hard I try, it won't help. So bury this feeling in the bottom of your heart and treasure it.

Let me tell you one more thing: my current girlfriend or wife around me is not the person I love the most, in fact, it makes sense to taste it carefully.

The above is my summary, although it is not comprehensive, but I hope it will be helpful to you.

Then find out the relationship with her, if it doesn't work, it's not worth it! Women are fickle.

Exercise, no worries! Time will dilute sadness.

I would say that if you can consider these issues without affecting your academic performance, you should dispel these thoughts sooner rather than later. My sister is a person who has come over.,It's useless to regret it now.。。 If you really know how to love...

So good. Sometimes it's not worth it to miss a lifetime of happiness for some awkwardness. Actually, pure love in high school is very good.

It's just that I'm worried about each other too much and lack courage.

Actually, I don't approve of you falling in love now, but it's not up to me.

If you can afford to chase it, you can chase it, and if you can't catch up, study hard. You are still very young.

When you understand what true love is, you will be able to do it.

You should take the initiative to find her for a while, but now it's just angry, in fact, I care about you in my heart, and girls don't take the initiative to date boys, I believe they will like you slowly

If you really can't forget, then try to be tolerant, really love someone, and will pay for her.

Don't get back together, it's okay to take the initiative once or twice, take the initiative more, you will feel tired, your situation is similar to mine, let it go.

Forgetting is a heart-wrenching topic. In the end, forgetting the past is deceiving yourself and others, and as long as you have a little bit of something that can be related to the past, you can't forget the past. Don't run away, it's useless to regret it, isn't there a saying that doesn't say so? You may meet someone in 1 second, fall in love with someone in a day, but forget someone in a lifetime, this is love!

Don't push yourself, don't put too much pressure on yourself, people should always look forward, the road they have walked, the people they have loved, they will not come back after the past, and coming back is no longer the original scenery and original mood, love is a sad fairy tale.

Anyone who has read it has left more or less regrets When we finish reading, we will understand a truth, that is, in the world of love, fate dominates everything, if there is fate, time and space are not distances. If there is no fate, even if we get together, we won't be able to understand, so let's let everything go with the flow.

。Everyone has their own journey, there will be a variety of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience everyone is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have happened, time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as the beginning, adjust the mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future...

Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun...

Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars.

To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city. That's a beautiful place in your heart......What do you think it will be to give up, is it so easy to give up someone, and is it still called true love? Love will make you happy, and thinking of her "him" will be very happy and powerful.

But you know how you'll feel when you don't get her? Do you feel that the sky is falling, people are tired, and your heart is tired? I'm sure you've encountered it, because I've also encountered it now in trouble, in pain.

I can understand your feelings. I want to love so much, I give love, but she wants you to give up on her, I said I will, but is it really okay? When I was lonely, when I was lonely, I quietly thought of her, her voice, and every word she said, it was so unforgettable and heart-wrenching.

I really want to love, but I get a lot of pain, and my body and mind are haggard. Is this called abandonment? Therefore, it is impossible to give up a person you really love, you can only cry and remind yourself that you want to forget, to escape, although you don't want to, you are very unwilling, but what else can you do besides escaping?

I'm like that now, and I can understand your mood somewhat. If you want to let go, I think the best thing to do is to change your focus. Turn your attention to something else.