200 points to ask enthusiastic friends to help me solve the troubles in my heart

Let go of revenge and study hard!!

Frankly speaking, it happened in the first year of high school, and I was surprised.

You're both young, and neither you nor Kasumi have experienced Ying's family life.

Ying: She doesn't want to be hurt herself, and she doesn't want her friends to be hurt, she just wants to protect herself, and it is estimated that she is very strong, but she may not be able to withstand a blow, and she needs to let go of the burden on her body (she can only do it herself, and others can't help her). She's right

Kasumi: An ignorant girl will have to go through some blows sooner or later before she grows up. She's not wrong either, you:

Very egoistic, very individual, very smart, but your current love can only be called like at most, I guess you don't even know anything about liking her (pretty?). ）。You're not wrong

ps: People get along with each other, to achieve harmony and harmony, they should trust each other, and only trust can do it.

Hehe, it's definitely not right for you to speak to Kasumi like that.

If it were me, I would definitely be angry with you

Besides, even if she likes you, after all, she and Kasumi are good friends, and she must be under pressure.

If I were Ying, even if I liked you, I would definitely not agree, after all, my friends like you very much, and besides, you are still young, and I can't say what will happen in the future.

Let's focus on learning, even if you fall in love first, it doesn't matter what lasts forever, as long as you're happy together now, isn't it?

I don't care about how long it lasts, I only care about what I once had, after all, you're still young Maybe one day you change your mind first, no one can say for sure, don't think so much. Study hard.

Based on what you said above, I think you should be middle school students.

Love at this time is pure.

You said that Ying's family is regrouped, and I can understand her psychology.

Because the reunited family, the most sinful is the child. Because the divorce of the biological parents will cause serious damage to the child's heart, and the child's heart will leave an eternal shadow. Children will perceive their family as broken and incomplete.

Therefore, I think that the original warmth of the family is gone, and there is no love.

In fact, the love of parents is still there. It's just not as complete as it used to be.

Ying said"I'm afraid of hurting Kasumi"It may also be because of the above. Because I've been injured, I don't want my best friend to get hurt too.

So I think Ying actually likes you. But due to family reasons, it is better to be injured twice than to let a friend get injured once.

The above is my personal opinion, I hope you can grasp it yourself.

I think that Ying may be taking care of her friend, maybe she likes you, but I can't say it!

Plus everyone knows that Kasumi likes you, and she's still Kasumi's friend, and she's embarrassed!

It's really inappropriate for you to be tempted like this, which will make Ying think that your sincerity towards him is fake!

She won't admit her feelings for you!

What do you play!!

Love is selfish, don't embarrass your two friends!

I suggest you stay away from them and think about what you want to do.

I think the best way is to ask him directly, ask him all the questions you are asking here, but don't quarrel, oh, be calm, it's better to talk face-to-face, you can see his expression, so that you can tell whether he is telling the truth or not, if you guess here now, in fact, everyone is guessing, isn't it, even if you are given an answer that you are satisfied with, will you be sure, are you sure that is Ying's real thoughts, not necessarily, so let's find out Ying, talk about it (but to be honest, no matter how much you guess whether he is sincere to you You can't just agree to have a relationship with Kasumi as long as it's a girl, you'll be angry).

I'm afraid of hurting Xia" In my opinion, it's not that I want to reject you, but I'm worried that I want to be with you, and I'm afraid that my friend will get angry and stiff, he just doesn't want to make my friend sad, so the focus of your concern now is not whether Ying really likes you (because since you like him, you have to believe him), but to discuss with Ying How to get two people together without hurting Xia or hurting Xia to the least Also, Ying needs your care and care, because more or less Ying will lack a sense of security She needs your sincerity, so you have to show it.

Hehe said so much personal opinion.

In high school, the seeds of feelings, like boiled, rarely saw the blossoming and fruiting, the first hurdle after three years of high school, after the college entrance examination, everyone's grades are different, the school city and school will be different, what kind of torment is long-distance love you can't imagine now, simply put, feelings are to soil, not together, it is impossible to raise seedlings.

It's far away, if you just want an emotional experience, be bold and love!

I don't think you've handled the relationship between the three of you.

If you like whoever you like, focus on whomever you want.

Intent.

In a word, she doesn't like you! If you like it, I'll take the initiative to find you! And she's not a good friend either, if she's a good friend, she won't look at her friends' jokes (stealing her friends' love), which is a sign of special jealousy!

My point is, get out of her! Because, you're only in the first grade, and there's a chance!

I want to have a relationship with you but I'm scared, this is the most frequent among girls! It's Xia who says she likes you first, but she secretly likes you Your relationship is unknown to others Others think that Xia will be with you But if it's her in the end, then she will be said that she betrayed So she is very conflicted, she wants to love but doesn't dare!

Actually, you should be brave and announce to everyone, consciously or unconsciously, that you like her, well, you should refuse Kasumi, albeit cruelly.

But that's the reality.

First of all, if you send a message to the girl named Xia, it's wrong for you, maybe you want to test another girl, but you must also know that you have just dated, you can't be too much...Some of them are not taken for granted, so you should think about it and find another opportunity to confess to the girl you love

Everyone is young, and they may not understand what love is, if you confess, you have to chase it to the end, don't step on two boats with one foot, it's okay for 3 people to sit down and talk, I think she still has a little bit of interest in you, if not, don't you ignore you, and it is inevitable to hurt Xia, after all, she also likes you! First love, we don't understand love! It's good to be sincere, there is nothing wrong or right in love, no matter who the object of love is!

Women's selfishness is very heavy, sometimes they can do anything for their own selfish desires, don't be deceived by her surface, find a place where no one is to think about it, and if you can't figure it out, you will accept it.

This problem will be distressed by everyone, you should do this, 1 pursue what you like and stay away from what you don't like, you don't need to know how Ying sees you, you can only know how to love her, how to protect her, how to move her, even if she doesn't like you. 2. Ask the two out to make a decision, there is no cruelty in love, only should and willingness.

What does her phrase "I'm afraid of hurting Kasumi" mean? Refusal? Or do you want to associate with me but are afraid?

I guess you have a play, and Ying and Xia explain things clearly, a lover and a friend, you don't need to make up for anyone, and you don't need to feel guilty for your behavior, love is like this, boldly love the person you love, think about the person you want! I don't want you to ask for both of them together, so you won't get either! I'm swarm voice and I think I can solve your problem!

Having said all this, you still don't have confidence in yourself, one will be good, and the other will be annoyed. Like a child, it's better to review yourself.

My head is too big, and if I'm going to be annoyed, just find one I like.

Are you in a hurry to write this essay now? Is it because you can't find your way of thinking and get annoyed, and then you come to know here for help? You must be very annoyed inside because you can't think of what to write, don't you think this is just an essay about your troubles?

Isn't that also a subject for you to write about your troubles?

Furthermore, you can write about a troublesome thing, such as life, study, friends, and family, and these can be used as the object of your essay.

To be more detailed, for example, in life, you encounter a thing in your life that you think is very tricky, but you really want to solve it, but you can't think of it, you can't find any good way, and then you think hard and meditate, put in a lot of effort, and finally deal with this troublesome problem. You can focus on the process of solving the problem, how it bothered you, and why it bothered. How did you solve this troublesome problem in the end?

If you think about it yourself, it is also a trouble if you can't think of it. You see that life is full of troubles, in fact, it is not too difficult to think about it as long as you use your brain. Good luck. Solve this problem soon.

Let me tell you about my experience, I used to be afraid of writing essays and didn't know what to write. Later, I found that the key to writing essays is to write, if you have time, write a diary, if you don't have time, write a weekly diary, insist on writing, at first maybe you don't write well, but it doesn't matter, when you finish writing this week, you will have a small achievement, at least you will not say that you are afraid to write. Then I usually read some sample essays, and after reading too much, you will find that the composition is that set of rules, and then it is OK to accumulate some materials.

Let's start with the expansion. For example, watching TV, or**. What happens after you conceive it. Write it down. Slowly start with those who are interested. Ultimately develop an interest in writing.

At the end, you said that you have broken up now, and my heavy heart suddenly lightened a lot, because I didn't have to bother persuading you to break up.

Girls who have been in love will be more or less compared when they fall in love again, and they may not say it, but there will still be secrets in their hearts. Unless a girl has no heart and lungs, and her brain is often deprived of oxygen, this may not be compared, and it is sincere to every man, but it just can't be caught. I don't think your ex-girlfriend is heartless.

At the beginning, she promised to go out to dinner with her ex-boyfriend, maybe she didn't really think about anything, or she just wanted to catch up with the past, but she was afraid that the two of them would reminisce about the sweetness of the past. After a meal, she will be cranky and will compare. I may still think about who I love in the end, it will be very contradictory, and this psychological process will not be told to you, unless she is too stupid!

If she is not in one place, she may also be empty, she will also rush to be lonely, she will meet friends, string relatives to pass the time, and yours will not give others the opportunity to take advantage of the void, so you will always hear people say that long-distance relationships generally do not end well.

She often hangs up on you**, and then takes the initiative to call others**, the content must be: I'm in pain, I don't know who to choose, you look at your ex-boyfriend and your current boyfriend, they have their own advantages and disadvantages, and now your ex-boyfriend wants to get back together, friend, do you say it should be met? But reunited, I feel so sorry for him now, I'm still guilty, what should I do!?

I can't tell you about these ideological struggles, she will consult her best friends and confidantes, but she can't tell you, and the reasons for the final breakup are vague and confusing, making you scratch your head. (You didn't mention it, why the points, I can only speculate).

You are sad and you are confused, not because you are not good enough or good enough, but because a girl has her own selection criteria, which can only mean that you are not her dish. She didn't tell you what she really thought in her heart, and she didn't tell you about the complicated process of her inner struggle, so you weren't relieved enough. That's understandable!

You should be happy, such a girl is not suitable for an honest person like you. There are many such examples, she returned to her ex-boyfriend's arms, but she hasn't been so warm for a long time, but after hugging for a long time, she will think of your goodness, and she will really grow and mature. But I don't want you to stand still and wait for her to change her mind, I believe that with your excellent character, there will be many good girls waiting for you to love.

I think the landlord can communicate with her more to understand her real thoughts, some may be misunderstandings.

But you must remember to cherish every minute you spend together, because once you miss it, you may miss it forever, and it will never be irretrievable and become a permanent regret.

The owner of the watchtower can get out of his troubles as soon as possible

In fact, there is no reason when you love, and when you divide it, it is all a reason, think about it, two people have a good talk, and say what you really feel in your heart.

It's okay to be friends If she's 20, forget about her, If she's not 20, just keep going, or give up.