How to have a good relationship with the boys in the class, how to get along with the boys in the cl

Hello, most of you have problems, whether they are fat or thin, beautiful or ugly, male or female, in adolescence, they will have similar problems. To your question, I would like to say, first, you should not feel inferior because of your appearance, second, those who show that you are ugly are generally very superficial, these people are not worthy of your cherishment, and third, you should cherish and sincerely treat the people around you who are good to you. In short, life is neither simple nor complicated, as long as you don't get into the horns, you can live happily.

In addition, I would like to say that there will inevitably be conflicts between friends, but after you get angry, you should still be friends, which is important, because if you are still friends, you can forget the previous unhappiness, and your life will not stand still.

Hope this helps.

Learn to control your emotions and smile more. Be confident and don't feel ugly. I used to be angry, but now it's better. In fact, don't talk when you're angry, and you'll be less angry after a while.

It has nothing to do with whether you are fat and thin and good-looking, it is that you look down on yourself too much, have confidence, cultivate common hobbies, break through yourself, make them need you, be easy-going, don't get angry, you will become ugly.

I think you're used to being discriminated against all year round, and you feel very aggrieved, play more ball, exercise more, get better grades, and I commit suicide without a boy to play with you.

Think about it before you get angry, whether others are deliberately targeting you and wanting to hurt you, whether you are wrong or not, I guess you will be angry after thinking about this. If you want to get along with a guy, you'd better get involved in sports.

Chubby isn't quite cute, and it's much better looking than those skinny girls. If you want to have a good relationship, just don't get angry with them.

In fact, you'd better start with yourself, tell yourself when you're angry, calm down, in fact, I fully understand, maybe you are a gentleman's life, you make yourself more ladylike, wear skirts, high heels, then you will feel that you have never reappeared, come on.

Getting along with the male classmates in the class, both in study and in life, is a very important skill. Here are some suggestions:

Schoolmate. 1.Respect and understanding:

Everyone has their own opinions, interests, and personalities. Respect the choices and personalities of others and don't try to change them. Understand their point of view, even if you may not agree.

2.Friendly and open:Show your friendliness and openness, take the initiative to communicate with them, and share your thoughts and feelings. Not only will this help you build friendships, but it will also help you better understand their point of view.

3.Ask questions and ask for help:In academics or in life, when you encounter difficulties, don't hesitate to ask them for advice.

Guys tend to have a strong interest in solving problems and learning new things, and they may be happy to help you.

4.Building common interests:

Learn. 5.Avoid gender stereotypes:

Although there may be differences between boys and girls in some ways, this does not mean that all boys or girls should be labeled as fixed. Avoid judging others by gender stereotypes and instead get along with them based on their personality and qualities.

6.Stay confident and independent:While it's good to ask for help, it's also important to be confident and independent. Don't rely too much on them just because they're guys. Everyone has their own abilities and values.

7.Maintain personal space:Respect their personal space, even if you're good friends. Everyone needs to have their own time and space and not interfere too much in their lives.

8.Maintain integrity and honesty:Honesty and honesty are very important or blind in dealing with people. Don't lie or deceive others, it can ruin your relationships.

Remember, relationships between people take time to build and nurture. If you can be open, respectful, and understanding, then you will be able to build a good relationship with the boys in your class. It is still recommended that you should focus on learning in school.

Just do it yourself, I won't say much.

You have to change yourself, not to say that quietness is bad, just that there are not many people who know how to appreciate quietness, and more people don't know how to get along with quiet people. After all, 11 years old is a playful age, and if they feel that they have nothing to talk about with you, of course they should try to spend as little time as possible with you.

It's not that I hate you, it's just that I don't know how to get along with you.

So you have to learn to communicate with people, you have three good friends, then start with them, talk to them more, and gradually try to talk to other people when you are bolder, so that you can become cheerful.

If you really can't do it, then use your strengths and avoid weaknesses and show your talents. For example, if you play basketball well, sing well, draw beautifully, study well, etc., so that others can change their impression of you, and you are no longer a silent and boring person.

Then rank the talents: sports, entertainment, and learning (the above rankings are ranked according to the talents that boys are interested in from the largest to the smallest).

The ranking of girls' interest should be: Study, Recreation, and Sports.

You can play the game they play, and then deliberately ask for advice, and then 'flatter' after the other party answers, and generally there is a common language.

What you think is personality is in terms of personality, but in fact, different personalities will not affect making friends. There are other aspects of a common language, besides games, as you can expect in life.

You can talk about it.

Study hard and do well in your studies, so that they will pay more attention to you, then you can further communicate with you from the study, and gradually they will become more conversational with you. In addition, actively answer questions in class and participate in activities so that they will come to you to talk about interesting topics.

Take the initiative to talk to others, and help others when they are in trouble.

Don't talk without going through your brain, be humorous.

Walk more with the worse girls in your class, and you'll be successful.

I think it's better to go with the flow, but if you're struggling, you'll have to try to change it.

Usually, talk to your classmates more, you can say anything, just don't say things that people don't like to hear. When others are in trouble, be sure to help them, so that others will feel that you are secure and they will trust you more.

It's okay to make more jokes in more relaxed situations, show your humor, make everyone laugh, or make fun of yourself, but make sure to make jokes that don't hurt your self-esteem. It's okay to make jokes about other people's screams, but be sure to find people who don't like to get angry.

Care more.

Poke and pry. It's also good, because in this way, others will think you're enthusiastic.

The main thing is that you have to treat everyone as such.

Your friend. Socialize with everyone sincerely, and don't do things that make others feel hypocritical at first glance. Of course, the above suggestions are just for you to try to change yourself in normal times, and you should not deliberately ask for it, because then others will feel very awkward.

farewell！

How do you say that? It's quite tangled, 1: I think those boys think you're pretty sassy (I think you're an extroverted and lively personality), not as quiet and introverted as the average girl. I feel like you don't look like a girl, so I provoke you and sarcastically mock you.

Of course, everyone's personality will be different, it is normal to be extroverted and introverted, and by nature, the environment will lead to different personalities. :(Actually, I personally think that girls are outgoing and boys get along better...

2: But you have to know that nothing happens for no reason, as you said above, sarcastically? Why would they be sarcastic about you?

Just because he loves to play, dance, laugh and make trouble, his body is relatively precocious, and his thoughts are a little precocious? Or is it something else, why not be sarcastic? I'm not here to blame you, just to make you think for yourself if there's anything wrong with yourself.

Self-reason) 3: I think you should all be in puberty, of course, boys also want to attract the attention of the opposite sex, but those boys feel that you are very smug (of course, I personally think you are more lively and outgoing) than those girls quiet... It's not easy for people to go and be embarrassed to find trouble...

Not for self-reason).

I'm dizzy, hope it works for you!

The boys in your class are so different... I'm just like you... Every day is crazy and noisy... But my relationship with boys is not ordinarily good... We often mess around together. We are all brothers to each other...

You should still be young, right?,When you grow up, they'll take the initiative to find you.。。。

Universities can be considered half society, and you can find people who share your opinions first, so that you will not be cold when you make suggestions at the end.

Usually you have to be generous and help your classmates more, and you must have a good relationship in the dormitory, after all, everyone looks up and doesn't look down, otherwise it will be very troublesome.

Communicate with your teachers more, and university teachers can be said to be very important for your future path.

As for the combination of men and women. Everyone is not familiar with the beginning of school, so it is normal for people who want to choose a dormitory nearby, and when the teacher proposes an activity, he should seize the opportunity to take the initiative to stand up and mediate, saying that everyone is divided into groups as much as possible in a group of men and women, and by the way, it is ridiculous that people are so big or something. This is more able to arouse everyone...

Of course, I can't do it myself, so I can rely on others appropriately, and put forward my own opinions to my classmates who are more active in the class president, hoping for their help.

That's pretty much it, and you won't have to worry that anyone will have trouble with you when school starts.

You should also get along well with the opposite sex.

Let's do it with the people in your dormitory, and the other people are like that, and if you do something special, you will be gossiped about.

In college, adults have their own opinions, just do your homework.

You just mean, teacher, it's OK if you don't kiss men and women.

Is it necessary to build a good relationship with your classmates in college? I think it's necessary.

I think many students in college basically walk with their roommates, go back to their dorms after class, don't communicate with other people, and basically don't have any intersections. I'm the same way, and I'm still in my third year. But why do you talk about building relationships with your classmates?

It's really hard to get promoted today.

In the third year, I have recommended a new batch of development objects. There were 4 places in the class, but there were a total of 7 people who wanted to be pushed, so the class voted to decide. The academic performance and party class results are used as the basis for voting and selection.

Ranked 4th in the class in terms of academic performance, party class scores, and this party class score was the highest among these 7 people. I thought it was stable this time, but the results were often unsatisfactory, and the voting results were far from satisfactory. Only 3 votes were obtained.

The student who ranked 9th in academic performance and scored 66 in the party class received 13 votes, so naturally she and three other students were elected, and I was defeated.

Well.. How to say it.,It's not sour her.,Just blame yourself for not having a good relationship with other classmates.。。。 Sometimes I feel that the class awards and recommendations are quite unfair, but what can be done, it's not just a matter of one person opposing it, and it's hard to say anything about the voting results.

Therefore, I hope that the younger students will still have a good relationship with their classmates when necessary, as everyone said, university is a small society, and the same is true of classes. Dealing with people and dealing with people is also a science.

Well.. But I'm really unwilling, in order to be able to join the party, I studied the party class seriously, and worked hard to learn professional knowledge, and in the end, because it was an "emotional" vote, it became like this, forget it, so be it. After graduation, there is also a chance to join the party, come on.