A scholar dies for those who know him, and a scholar dies for a confidant

Yu Rang in the Chronicles of the Assassins.

On the surface, a man can give his life for his confidant, while a woman dresses up to show her best side for her beloved.

When a countryman meets his confidant, he can give his life. Some people may be depressed and depressed for half their lives, and deep down they want to make a difference. But there is no chance to learn to become a literary and martial arts and an emperor.

Mao has to be attached to the skin in order to make meritorious contributions, and the famous Han general Huo Quai, if it is not for the reuse of Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty, then he has the opportunity to gallop the field and make contributions. Liu Bei asked Zhuge Liang to come out of the thatched house, how could Zhuge Liang not take Liu Bei as his confidant, and work hard to assist Liu Bei's father and son for two generations.

Whether a person can shine depends on whether he can be put in the right place, and the person who puts it is the confidant of the person who is released. Maxima can only gallop on the grassland, and if it is allowed to grind, it may end miserably. In fact, the so-called "death for the confidant" is how to use talents, and it is mutually beneficial for both the boss and the employees to use them well.

Poor use is a waste of talents, and what is lacking is a pair of discerning eyes to find talents. Once you recognize the hero, the hero will do his best for your cause.

The soldier dies for the confidant, and the woman is the one who pleases himself" These two sentences are from the "Historical Records. Assassin Chronicles

These two sentences are two sentences that everyone is familiar with, which shows that everyone is willing to give everything for those who love and respect themselves.

The death of the scholar is about Yu Rang's gratitude to repay the nobleman Zhibo of the Jin Kingdom, after the first unsuccessful assassination of Zhao Xiangzi, the second time he swallowed carbon, self-disfigured, and assassinated Zhao Xiangzi.

Yu Rang applied paint to his body during the second assassination, ** swollen and covered with scabies. He swallowed red-hot coal, burning his throat. The whole person is unrecognizable.

Someone advised: Why do you use such a stupid and stupid method? Use your talents to pretend to defect to Zhao Xiangzi's door and gain his trust.

Wouldn't it be easy to kill him then? Why destroy your own body, ruin your own face, isn't it more difficult to assassinate him?

Yu Rang said that he could not serve the monarch with a different heart.

Yu Rang's righteous act made us feel his unwavering determination to sacrifice his life to repay his confidant.

The death of a confidant is a child, and this sentence has been heard since childhood, and it feels very awesome, but if you investigate its meaning, you have never understood it.

Sima Qian's several characters written in the biography of the assassins are admirable, but they always feel a little stupid and loyal, such as wanting to leave this warrior, in order to repay his benefactor, he actually cut off his arm, swallowed charcoal to make himself dumb, and deliberately asked people to kill his wife and children, just to gain trust to be able to approach and assassinate the enemy, the state is so miserable that I can't bear to read it. According to Sima Qian, to leave is to push this benefactor as a confidant.

There is also a poem, there is a confidant in the sea, and the end of the world is next to each other. also described the confidant as lofty, particularly rare and rare, which makes people can't help but admire, and it sounds heavy and happy.

So what exactly is a confidant? My understanding is not only that people who know themselves, but also people who respect and affirm themselves, and who give them great spiritual comfort or help. Now it is clear that the conditions that constitute a confidant:

Therefore, a confidant can be a friend, a lover, a leader, a subordinate, or a parent, in short, as long as the above three conditions are met, they can play the role of a confidant, and no matter who he is, but in most cases, the confidant exists in friends and lovers.

To be honest, like many ordinary Chinese, I also like to watch the Water Margin and read the Three Kingdoms, and I am somewhat influenced by the idea of loyalty and righteousness, and I have also done some stupid things that I think are "righteous" and "not worthy of confidants", even if I damage my own key "vital interests", I feel sad in hindsight, but I can not take it seriously.

With the passage of time, the experience has grown, and the experience of "confidant" has become deeper and deeper, and I really feel that it is "rare" and "rare".

Those respectable and lovely friends, that respectable and lovely lovers, are indeed worthy of our lifelong true affection, with some aspects and a certain degree of "death".