I feel tired of falling in love but can t let go, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-26
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    As the saying goes, there is tension and relaxation, and it will definitely be tiring to be there all the time. So when you feel tired, think about what causes you to be so tired. When you find out the reason, the most important thing is that you can't hold it in your heart, one must communicate with each other, for example, if you feel tired that you have been chatting and shopping with her all the time, you must communicate with each other, strive for each other's understanding, reduce frequency, and have more free time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think it's better to break up directly, because love itself is to get happiness, and such tiredness and pain itself should not be, if it continues like this, then it will be even more painful in the future.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    At the beginning, all the values were full, and the topics of interest and hobbies were very suitable...Slowly, I found that the other party was no longer such an ideal person, and many opinions, concepts, and ways of speaking were different...Later, there were some contradictions, quarrels, cold wars, injuries, which began to slowly accumulate....But it's still love, I still want to be together, I can't let go of it in my heart, that kind of torment, I've been hesitating "to separate or not to separate?" "I've been suffering for a long time, I feel so tired, when one voice in my heart says let go, and the other voice says, you still love ta...Let's just keep staying up slowly.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Maybe it's just this for this time, so adjust yourself first, don't choose to give up as soon as you feel tired, and try to change yourself, especially your own mentality. You must understand that feeling tired does not mean that you don't love it, but there are some ways to get along that need to be run in.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Communicate well, see if there is a misunderstanding between each other, how can I feel tired otherwise, don't let the things in front of me cover my eyes, I have to see the various faces of the other half clearly, and then make an initial decision.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    My girlfriend said she felt tired after being with me. Actually, I feel very tired now, I care about her and she says that I don't respect her opinion enough, I don't care about her, and she complains about me, thinking that I am not considerate enough like wood. I felt like a clown who couldn't get a show list, and there was nothing I could do.

    She broke up with me a while ago, and during this time she was still in touch, and sometimes she was coquettish to me like before, and I knew she couldn't let me go, and she admitted it. Still, I felt so tired that I felt like I had become her spare tire. Anyway, it's sad.

    I think we both have to calm down lately and give each other some time.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    That's how I feel when I'm in love, and I've broken up. I'm basically in this relationship, and I'm tired. At that time, I talked to him about the two of us, and he didn't want to talk to me.

    Then I asked him if he was together or apart? He said that we would be separated for a while, and I agreed and asked me what was wrong. I'm sad and I don't want to be dragged along.

    I was told a lot by my classmates, and I finally replied to him bravely: I don't need to be separated for a while, just separate! I feel that this kind of love is really unacceptable, otherwise I will still be immersed in this hopeless love, and if I can break up, it is recommended to break up.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The most tiring thing is that it was just an ordinary thing, and the two people treat it differently, and the saddest thing is that he said he couldn't hold on. And he is still trying to repair it. I don't believe that being in a relationship will always be carefree, so I see it realistically, so I feel like this is what being in love goes through, so I'm still holding on.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think it's better to be apart for a while, give each other some time and space, and then think about it all and don't let yourself regret it later.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There are many reasons why you feel tired when you fall in love, and the details are as follows:

    1. If you feel that love is very tiring, then the two people are not suitable, and you should break up in time.

    2. If you have such a feeling because you have no experience in love, then you should keep changing yourself.

    3. The more two people communicate and understand each other, they can make love easier.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Then take a break for a while, don't associate with each other, calm yourself down, think about whether it is suitable for the other person, and then decide whether to continue to fall in love with the other person.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This matter should be thought through, and if you feel really tired, then you should get rid of him and not become a burden in life.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Adjust your mentality, find out the reason, if you don't love it, you can choose to break up, if it's a problem to get along, put it forward to solve it, don't consume yourself.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You can break up, reconsider your relationship plan, or communicate effectively with the other party and reconsider the direction of your relationship.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you feel tired of falling in love, does the person you are looking for not feel like it makes you happy?

    Or is it because there is something that doesn't go well in work and life, you have to find the reason first, is it not suitable for the two of you or what?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If both of you still love each other, then think of a way to solve the problem, take a step back from each other, if the other party has no feelings, then get together and disperse! Don't torture each other anymore!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Falling in love is said to be tired, in fact, it should be that you don't adapt to some aspects of the other party, you want to break up and feel that you still have some good places, feel that you are tired, and seriously communicate with the comparison and understand and then think about it clearly, it is better not to break up.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Falling in love is for your own happiness, and if you really make yourself unhappy, then don't do it. You can choose to break up, if two people love each other very much, it's just some trivial things, bickering, noisy, you can put up with it, you can't want to break up and leave because of trivial things. After all, feelings don't come easily.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I'm tired of falling in love.

    It may be that you are giving too much in your relationship.

    Or in this relationship.

    There are always ups and downs.

    Not very stable.

    It is also difficult to predict the outcome in the future.

    But two people have been together for so long.

    There are still feelings.

    That's why I was reluctant.

    In fact, you can follow your own inner thoughts.

    Take one thing with another. Make the right choice.

    In this kind of thing, restless, that indecisive, emotional.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I feel tired of falling in love, and I want to break up but I can't bear to, what should I do? Who if they break up since then? If you are reluctant, it means that the two people still have feelings.

    As for being tired, it should be the firewood, rice, oil, and salt that you face every day, or if the two people are really not as good as you, there will be such and such things in reality, and it will be unpleasant, so you will feel particularly tired. It's normal, and it's normal to get through this period of time, and the two of you are. You can be together for a long time, and you must communicate after encountering something, and don't let the other party guess what you think?

    Because how can others not guess your own heart?

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you feel tired of falling in love, it means that you don't love him much or even get tired of him.

    In line with the attitude of being responsible for others and being responsible for yourself, you should break up quickly, otherwise you will delay others.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    <> asked, the boy said"I want your blatant favoritism, too"What does it mean to be very partial to him, like him, and have reached the point of having no scruples to ask him and he said"I want to be your only exception"What does that mean?

    Why does he always love to think cranky, why does he always like to say such things, he feels that you don't love him enough.

    Question: He asks me every day if I like him, how can I give him enough security?

    It's you who gave up your principles because of him, and asked him to be the only person who makes an exception to your principles and asked me that he and I are sisters and brothers.

    The younger brother is more than himself, and he has a lot of love words and a lot of time.

    Then you talk to him more and care about him.

    Hello question, thanks.

    You're welcome, if you can, give a thumbs up.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It is time to choose to break up, in a relationship is to make two people better, if there is a more tired situation, it proves that the relationship is not better, if there is a more tired situation, it proves that the relationship is not suitable.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Then you should take the initiative to break up with the other party, indicating that the other party is not suitable for you at all, and the living habits of the two people are also different, so you will feel particularly tired.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I think you should break up. Because you feel this way, it means that the two of you are not suitable, and you must not torture each other.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Well, I feel the same way, but I still want to give you some advice and suggestions loyally:

    Suggestion: First, you feel tired now because you have given more, and the result of this effort is not what you want, so you will be very tired.

    And really in love with someone, everything you do for him and her feels like a very happy thing, and it is worth it to see him and her happy, no matter how hard and tired you are, because you love him and her deeply, and everything about him and her is more than yourself. If you are happy with each other, there will be no tiredness, because everyone loves each other, feels sorry for each other, and cares for each other.

    Second, what you say, what I'm saying is that if it's because you don't love, you think that the other half is no longer so perfect in your eyes and is no longer your dish, then there is no need to drag down the physical and mental exhaustion for the love that you can't pay, after all, people's physical and mental health is limited. Calm down and think about it, but you can't get rid of this bitter tiredness in your heart, if you want to put it down, then let it go. The sky after letting go is not necessarily blue, but at least the body and mind are healthy and free.

    You tell me? Anyway, I hope you can be happy! Live well and be happy! Have a good time and hope you can adopt me! Thank you!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Are you sure you love her enough or like him, and then see what he thinks, the two of you should communicate with each other.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Look back and see what you wanted.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    1. Leave a distance away from all of them first and see how the man reacts to you. And feel whether you really care about him when you are alone or whether he has become a habit in your life...

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    When you're tired, just let it go, or you can have a good chat with him and see what he has to say.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I love you so much, you make me tired.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I think that falling in a relationship is mainly for me to feel very happy and relaxed, and we can also see that running a relationship is also very tiring and we put a lot of energy into it. And I think if you feel very tired in a relationship, I think it's okay to let go of the relationship, so I think it's okay to break up in this situation.

    And I think it's also very important to be comfortable in this relationship, and this is also very important for us to fall in love, and I think it's also very important to make yourself feel very relaxed and comfortable in the relationship, and if we feel very tired in the relationship, I think it's also very bad, and the pressure and burden brought to us by this relationship is also very large, so I think it's okay to give up this relationship if you feel very tired in the relationship.

    I think it's really good to be happy and relaxed in love, and this kind of relationship is also very helpful and meaningful to us, so we can see that everyone is pursuing a relaxed relationship, and I think it's also very bad for a feeling that is too tired and has a very big impact on us. Therefore, if we are too tired to talk about feelings, I think that the relationship is also very bad, and it will also cause us a lot of trouble. So I think we also have to be very decisive in dealing with feelings.

    Of course, I think you can go to separate for a period of time first, and go out to relax by yourself. It's also very good for the development of relationships and can also help us relieve stress, so I think this is also very important and has a positive meaning for us to deal with relationships.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    In this case, you should communicate well, if you can't bear it, you can only choose to break up, if the other party is willing to change, you can try.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I should still try to adjust the mode of getting along with the two, it is very likely that it is because of the wrong way, so I feel more tired.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    The main purpose of falling in love is to make two people better, and if you feel particularly tired, you should choose to separate.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    First, distance yourself from each other.

    Generally, the reason why you feel tired and don't want to talk about falling in love is that you are too close to two people, or that you are too sticky with each other, so when you feel tired and don't love, temporarily distance yourself from each other and Li Bei, don't always be sticky together.

    Second, don't rely on each other.

    Don't rely on the other party, this will cause things that are both dependent on the other party and disgusted with the other party, and don't let the other party rely on you too much, you will also have these problems.

    Third, explain the situation to the other party.

    If you say that I will disappear directly when I feel tired and not in love, it is really the most irresponsible thing, and you must explain your feelings to the other party, perhaps, the other party also feels this way.

    Fourth, be independent for a while.

    Temporarily separated from each other, no one should bother anyone, two people have their own lives, even if the year is ruined in the network, don't practice too much, a month later, I feel that this is so good and so directly separated, I feel that I can't do without each other, then I love well.

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