What happened to those who didn t work hard in school?

"What kind of graduate school are you going to take, don't you have to find a job after graduating from graduate school? "This is what one of my roommates often tells me, my daily routine: get up on time every day, go to class, read books and exams, she often skips class, watches movies in the dormitory, and falls asleep in the middle of the night, near the end of the term, she hurriedly crammed Buddha's feet, read books all night, scored more than 60 points in each exam, and did not fail the course We smiled and said to her:

Look at your luck, it's a little over 60 every time. "I've done the math, basically I will hand in the paper after more than 60 points, haha......Whenever I was so nervous that I couldn't sleep in the middle of the night for the graduate school entrance examination, I could see her throwing a sympathetic smile at me, "Hurry up and go to sleep!" I lowered my voice and said to her with a bitter face, she always waved her hand and continued to cook dramas, she is such a person, she is never in a hurry, she doesn't like to read, she just likes to chase dramas, watch handsome pots, and she is about to graduate, we are all running around for the future work, she is still sitting there, drinking wolfberry tea, chatting with us with a smile, and finally, I failed the graduate school entrance examination, hiding in the quilt and crying secretly, and she, hugged me and comforted me for a long time, saying:

It's okay, this year's efforts have been in vain, come back next year," I frowned, turned sideways, full of bitter water I don't know how to confide, you say it's light, I went to the lake every morning to read English in order to take the graduate school entrance examination, the cold wind was shining, her fingers were numb from the cold, what about her, hiding in the bed to sleep, she couldn't understand my hardship, later, I learned that she was admitted to a graduate school of a certain university, and applied for the minority backbone program, and her score was lower than mine, but she was on the list. ‍‍

What I want to say is that I didn't go to college, this is my most regretful thing, but I can't complain, because the conditions were poor at the time, I personally think that going to college must have many benefits, because you can be admitted to college, proving that you have a good brain, not stupid, is a smart person, if in college, it is your own business not to study well, it is a good thing to learn something while you are young, and when you go to the society, you will not suffer, especially the knowledge you have learned, you can use it at any time, I am not sure to say, What happens to a good student in the future, but a student who is not a student, there will definitely be a day of regret, if the family is rich, then whatever, you still have to study hard in school.

I'm a senior, the university unfortunately admitted to the mechanical major I don't like, he is not a motivated person, often skips class, grades are average, freshman registered a media company, to people advertising and planning, his classmates laughed at him an engineering man and played word games, but people do like this and really play famous, I don't know much about the monthly income, but he later relied on the money he earned to go to Tuao to study finance, studying abroad didn't care about his parents to ask for a penny, I am now interning at a well-known investment bank in Tuao, and at the same time, this company has been running a side business.

If you don't change your thoughts and actions, you won't have the motivation to work hard, if you don't work hard today, you won't work hard tomorrow, you can only be eliminated by society. ‍‍

Let's talk about the domestic one, his name is Robin Li, this one was finally admitted to Peking University, I feel that college life is boring, I mix in the library every day, every day is basically a library classroom, a dormitory three points and one line, and then I really can't stand it, he went abroad to study, it is the State University of New York in Buffalo, the United States, not long after he went to school, he began to copy Bill Gates's career, and now what is his situation, you should also know.

I don't want to express how good people who are not motivated in college are after graduation, and those who are motivated are not promising, but I want to explain that how you live after graduation does not depend entirely on whether you are motivated in college, and that being motivated is only a necessary and insufficient condition for a good life, and your parents, the environment in which you grew up, and your personality also affect your future. ‍‍

I have seen people who are not motivated in college, some of them have been at a low point in their lives in the end, but there are also those who have been catching up in the later stage and have the same life as hanging. ‍‍

There is one in my life and the relationship is also very good, when others help him, I don't know how to be grateful, I have to inch in, everyone knows that money lending is love, not borrowing is duty, he also complained that his family is not good, he gave up on himself, and now he has achieved nothing.

This problem cannot be generalized, people who do not work hard in school, some have good opportunities or have a strong family foundation. But there are very few such people after all.

<> too much useless work for students, once there is such a trouble, it means that too much time has been wasted in learning, and too much useless work is too much, so.

Using the wrong methodFor students in this situation, it is likely that they are using the wrong method. It's like running to the finish line.

It is well known that the accumulation of knowledge is not enough, and on the road of learning, it is never achieved overnight, and it is completely necessary to accumulate a large amount in order to use it.

4.Some students have different learning cognitive styles, and some students like field-dependent and follow the rhythm of others when studying, especially under the influence of authoritative figures and interference with Huaihuai, and are generally better at liberal arts and learning by external motivations.

After school at the age of fifteen or sixteen, it's really hard to think about what they can do, the most is nothing more than to enter the field to work, when working in a company, the boss said that he didn't enter the factory if he was killed, and he saw the head after entering the factory for a lifetime. It's better to fight, that boss is very successful now.

Think about it, 16 degrees, chic, 18 years old, adult, factory work. 20 years old, smoking and drinking. 22 years old, confused life, I don't know where to go.

25 years old, buy a house, buy a car, and then pay off the loan. Twenty-six or seventeen years old, blind date, married. At the age of 30, like most people, fear of married life and began to run away.

Until the last moment of life.

Today's society is not the same as before, not with a passion can spell out a piece of the sky, without keen business acumen and knowledge in such a society is difficult to spell out a career that people look up to.

The theory of the uselessness of reading has been popular in society for a while, and some people think that reading is better than going out to work early to earn money. At the age when you should be studying, you can't read well and laugh at Kai, and change your fate of being dumped.

No matter how you look at it, it is naïve, ignorant and irresponsible to call a person as a teenager to make the final choice for the next few decades of his life. However, if a person does not study, he also needs life advice, and the truth of life is that the world does not care about unknown people.

Everyone is constantly moving forward in the tide of history.

What happened to those who didn't go to school early? There are still those who have successfully started a business and are now their own bosses, but such people are a minority after all. Now that I think about it, I should really be grateful to myself for insisting on going to college in the first place, otherwise I would have been working outside now and then getting married and having children.

This also depends on the individual's choice, everyone's ideas are different, and you can't use your own ruler to regulate others. However, I would like to say that girls should be independent, so that they can have some rights and become better for themselves no matter what the circumstances.

may become a company leader, learning is not a criterion for judging a person, they are logical and logical to create their own world.

I went to chase my dreams or went to work in a factory. Generally these two paths, many people go to participate in talent shows and want to make their debut because they are good-looking, but this road is also difficult, so many people fail to pursue their dreams. For example, Yang Chaoyue used to work part-time to promote Chunhan, but now he has become a star when he laughs.

But most of them go into the assembly line of the factory to work, with a fixed amount of thousands of dollars a month, and the future is visible at a glance.

Most of the students who don't go to school will have a more embarrassing life in the future, because they have no technology and no knowledge, and it is difficult for them to adapt to their jobs.

In this society, there are all kinds of people, as for those who are very poor and unmotivated, lazy, do not study every day, and do not work hard, there are also some people.

Some people are like this, the more people who don't work hard, the poorer their lives will become, there is no way, some people may be used to living a poor life, he is not afraid of poverty, and he is too lazy to change the status quo, he does not want to suffer, he does not want to work hard, he can't endure hardship, only destined to be poor for a lifetime.

In this world, there are only some rich people, and it is impossible for everyone to be rich. The rich have the habits of the rich, and the poor also have the habits of the poor, and the habits of the people will determine their fate.

If the poor don't want to change the status quo, they will not be motivated, lazy, and they will not know how to learn, so they will be poor for the rest of their lives. Of course, there are also some poor people who work very hard and slowly become rich.

We don't need to talk about who is poor and who is rich, just live a good life, people who don't work hard can never change their fate, and those who work hard still have the opportunity to change their fate.

This is how people who have no motivation and no goals can be motivated.

Hello friends, yes, now many young people don't work hard after going to college, they feel that they are wasting their studies and wasting their youth, mainly because they don't have a goal that they don't have, and it is also related to the environment that their classmates receive, I hope that every student can take themselves seriously, develop towards a better self, challenge themselves, strive to change themselves, and overcome their own inertia.

When you go to university, you have to study hard.

Many high school students have a clear goal, that is, to be admitted to an ideal university, but when they are admitted to the ideal university, they do not set a goal for the next step of their life in time, and many students enter a state of confusion. They don't know why they're studying, and many of you have probably heard your parents say something like, "You study for your future."

But I believe that there are very few people who can understand the meaning of this sentence, and they do not see their struggle as a preparation for their future, but as an obligation of their own, which has been fulfilled after being admitted to a good university. Therefore, in order to avoid becoming decadent, you must set a clear goal for yourself before entering a university campus, and know what you are studying for. If we don't have a goal, we can easily fall into a predicament where we don't understand the meaning of our struggle, which leads to decadence.

After going to university, many people don't work hard, and I think this is because the university environment is really comfortable, and the study pressure is not so great. After many people reach university, they don't have the self-control to force themselves to study. Many people are naturally lazy, and they feel that they are not as hard as they did in high school.

In fact, many of us are under a lot of pressure to study in junior high school and high school, teachers and parents are forcing ourselves to study, and we have a very fulfilling life every day. But it's different when I go to college, and I don't have a lot of classes after going to college, and I basically don't have any homework to do. Parents and teachers don't force themselves to study anymore, and many people naturally become relaxed in such a relaxed environment.

In fact, I think this is a process to adapt to from a state of mental pressure to a more relaxed state, not that we don't work hard, but we have to gradually enjoy this more comfortable life.

If you want to study hard in college, you still need to make a plan for yourself. No one forces themselves to study hard, they can force themselves to study hard. Wake up early every morning and go to the library or study hall when there are no classes.

In fact, many people come here like this when they are in college, and they just get used to it. When you go to college, many people will want to enjoy life, fall in love, and spend a short time on studying. Once you relax, you will become less and less interested in studying, and many people will not want to study hard.

There is a kind of inertia in everyone, and if no one is forced to study, they will gradually become lazy.

Therefore, I think that after many people go to university, they gradually start to stop studying hard, which is a normal state, because the learning environment of the university is very comfortable.

It is mainly related to middle and high school teachers, because before going to college, teachers often say that they study hard now, and they can play in college in the future, and they leave home after going to college, there is no parental restraint, and teachers basically don't care, and most of the students' self-discipline is not very strong, so there is no hard work.

I think the main reason is that I didn't find my purpose.

When we were in high school, our goal was to take the college entrance examination and get into a good university.

After we were admitted to university, we were confused about our careers and plans, and we couldn't even find a direction, so we lived in a mess. It's either skipping class or not taking class seriously, and life is monotonous, so it looks like it's not working hard. In fact, the university will not be easier than the college entrance examination at all, it may be more tiring, the difference between a good university and an ordinary university is not the campus environment, but the learning atmosphere, we see that the college students of 985 colleges and universities, although it is a holiday, will also squat in the library to replenish energy, while the students of ordinary universities, have not yet had a holiday, they have learned to skip class.

So, in college, it's really important to find what you're working hard for and where to go. For example: fighting for scholarships, fighting for class cadres, finding a love partner, participating in work-study, etc., are all goals, but you need to set them according to the actual situation.