What do guys need to pay attention to when going on a blind date?

If you want to send someone home after the date, if you don't follow, you have to repeatedly tell you to be safe, and you feel that you can almost hit the ** when you look at the time.

Dress up cleanly, hair should be tidyed, and long nose hair should be trimmed, because girls are generally relatively small, and it is easy to see boys' nose hair, so you must pay attention to these small details such as nose hair and nostrils. The beard must be shaved. Of course, if you take the **mustache route, then it's up to you!

On a first date, if you are more inward-looking, it is not recommended to go to the movies or drink coffee. Girls are still more reserved and shy, and if you don't know how to find a topic, just sit there. Girls will find it not interesting to be with you.

The first one is a smile, no matter how nervous you are, a smile can make this date a good start. For people who meet for the first time, it is better to have a smiling face than to put on a stinky face or always have a blank face, or a smile, right? And smiling is also the secret to quickly bringing a person closer**.

So that's the point that doesn't need to be said – smiles!

Don't behave too casually, if it's the first date, you should pay more attention, don't think about getting someone for the first time, and don't want to take advantage of someone for the first time. If so, I'm afraid there will be no next time with this time!

Try to find something clean and slightly high-grade for the first time you eat, don't say that the first time you take someone to eat food stalls or something, it's disrespectful.

If the girl is the more talkative type, you should learn to listen and wait for the girl to speak before answering and agreeing. Don't interrupt others, if girls are more introverted, find some topics to talk about and don't be cold.

It is definitely important to focus on decency, and one person's clothes are not worn for oneself, but for others to see. Details determine success or failure, if a person doesn't even care about his own image, what else does he care?

When going on a blind date, there is a very heart-wrenching truth, that is, a forty-year-old single man is even more undesirable than a forty-year-old divorced man. For women, it is better to solve the marriage problem as soon as possible. Why?

This is because men are used to looking down, that is, men tend to look for women who are younger than themselves.

In the process of dating girls, I am always stuck at key nodes and can't get by. I had the opportunity to become a couple of lovers with a girl, but I was always stuck at a critical juncture, and it became a matter of chatting and chatting"Friends"

1. Try not to look around or look down at your phone frequently when dating, this kind of behavior will make the boy feel that you are super boring on a date with him, and the boy's insight will be vividly displayed at this time;

2. When dating a boy, you must dress up carefully, but don't dress up too much, just be dignified and beautiful or pure and cute, and the heavy makeup will make the boy think you are frivolous when you meet for the first time;

3. Don't take the initiative to advance your boyfriend when talking to each other, some girls always like to mention their ex-boyfriend to show their advantages when dating boys, but this is not good, it will make boys feel that you still have an old love;

4. Don't always like to grab words, don't interrupt other people's thoughts when others are talking, this is extremely impolite, it will make the other party feel that you have no self-cultivation, listen more, and nod appropriately to show that you can respond, so that people will feel that you are an object to talk to;

5. If you meet on a date for the first time, even if you don't like it or are not very satisfied, don't show this feeling on your face, this is the most basic quality of being a person, you can express it euphemistically inappropriate, so that the other party will take the initiative to end the date after understanding what you mean.

1. Speech and demeanor.

1. Talking too much or too little: On the one hand, boys may keep talking because they are nervous, which causes girls to be a little slippery. On the other hand, some boys may be too pulling, embarrassing girls who are introverted or not good at words.

2. No language modification ability: Some boys may have a lot of information about the topic but have poor expression skills, and often use wrong grammar or inaccurate statements to make it difficult for girls to understand.

3. The topic is too ordinary: Boys may think that talking about ordinary topics will make girls feel stress-free, but it makes girls feel bored and leave no impression.

4. Demeaning women: Boys may have arguments in favor of men when talking to women, which can make girls feel belittled and lose interest.

2. Manners.

1. Don't pay attention to appearance: The first impression of boys on a blind date is very important. If a boy doesn't pay attention to his style, dress, or makeup, it often leaves a bad impression on the girl.

2. Smoking and drinking: These habits are not liked by girls, and they are likely to make girls feel that boys' attitudes are not serious enough.

3. Impolite behavior: It is best for boys to pay attention to their behavior, including the posture of noisy walking, sitting posture, and the timing of using apology language. If a guy shows politeness, then he will be more attractive.

The above are some of the behaviors that girls may dislike on blind dates.

First, a greasy body!

The so-called greasy body does not mean oily**, but greasy hair, unclean face, or dirty other places.

Second, sloppy dressing!

The so-called sloppy dress before grinding includes dirty clothes, ill-fitting clothes, mismatched clothes, exaggerated decorations (thick gold chains, etc.). Women won't ask you to dress like the CEO of a big company, but absolutely hate your sloppy dress.

In fact, when wearing on a blind date for the first time, a man should grasp two words, that is, "refreshing" - clean and concise! Especially don't think about creative dressing, it's important for women to see your steady character, because stability represents a sense of security.

Third, self-centeredness!

Self-centeredness in dating is to keep saying "I think", "I think", "I am nonsense"...In short, keep talking about how you are, not the other person. Let's say you talk for an hour, but 45 minutes of that time you're talking about you.

Psychologists believe that self-centered people often lack a sense of responsibility, do not empathize, and have arrogant elements in their personalities. In fact, if you don't talk about these theoretical things, just say that when you are dating and chatting, you keep talking about you, do girls have the patience to listen to it? Of course, if you say something wonderful, girls are still willing to listen; Or girls have high emotional intelligence, are cunning and cunning, and keep making you behave and expose yourself, and the more you say about yourself, the more your remorse will be exposed.

In any case, for ordinary women, when they first met, it is estimated that few people have the patience to listen to his story all the time!

Fourth, the character of picking the door!

I believe everyone has heard such a story: after the blind date between men and women is over, the man is obviously very interested in women, but he still asks for the AA system, and he keeps asking girls to come out again. For this kind of slamming man who can settle accounts, will there be any girls willing to follow him?

In fact, now that the social atmosphere has changed, there is nothing wrong with the AA system, and there are countless examples of men and women settling accounts when they break up in love, but the problem is that when they meet on a blind date for the first time, men should always be generous. Women will think like this: If you are so picky even on your first blind date, can you expect to be generous in the future, and what kind of love will you talk about?

More importantly, this is a basic communicative etiquette, and if a man doesn't even understand this, he will really live in vain.

Women like men who are bold with her, and hate men who slam at her. So, whether you have money in your pocket or not, be sure to be generous with her!

A good start is half the battle, but to get off to a good start, the first thing to do is to avoid making mistakes: you can not be outstanding, but you must not make mistakes! If you make a mistake, you may lose an opportunity completely.

On the contrary, if you are not brilliant, you can gradually show your brilliance by slowly dating. In short, when dating a woman for the first time, it is best to avoid the most hated behaviors of the above four women!

1.Pay attention to personal image, as the saying goes, people rely on clothes and horses to saddle, and blind dates or dating, for men, even if they are not handsome enough, but at least they must perfect their external image such as clothing, beard, and hair, so that it is possible to develop.

2.Don't be late for a date, it's actually a very offensive thing to be late for a date, of course, in many people's cognition, it's understandable that girls are late, but for boys, as long as they are late for the first date, this is a very offensive thing, however, there are many reasons why girls are late, and there are many reasons why girls are late, but for boys, as long as they meet for the first time, it will be very annoying, so it is difficult for the other party to do it.

3.Learn to find a topic, girls are basically in a weak position in communication when dating, so, as a boy, you should find a topic in time, let the other party communicate normally, even if there is no depth of the topic, we can also talk about the current work status of both parties, as a boy should find the topic in time, so that even if there is no depth of the topic, we must also find the topic in time, so that the other party can communicate normally.

4.Have a good mentality, when you are single or dating, both parties should have a correct attitude, and for many people, they may feel that they have reluctant or unwilling thoughts, but as long as they agree to go on a blind date or date with each other, they will enter this kind of correct attitude, whether it is for each other or each other's families, it is a responsible performance.

5.is not in a hurry to make a decision, for many girls, it may be that they see that boys are more rigid in communication or dating, and do not know how to make people happy or make people feel no feelings, but they can't refuse people prematurely at this moment. The feelings that people get from a period of interaction do not tell whether the other person is really kind or not by talking to each other.

6.To maintain a good attitude, we don't have to care too much about the results of a single blind date, even if we have been dating each other for a while, even if you like each other well, but people are not your dish, you can't force it, so, maintain a good attitude, regardless of whether each other can last for a long time, cherish the present, and some things, in the past, let it pass.

If it's the first time I've gone on a blind date, I'll definitely pay attention to my appearance. You must dress yourself up cleanly, wear generous and decent clothes, and go to meet the other person, because this also reflects a kind of respect for the other person, and at the same time, it can also represent your own image.

On the contrary, if you are sloppy and go on a blind date, this is first and foremost a very disrespectful behavior towards the blind date. It shows that you don't pay attention to this matter at all, and you don't pay attention to the other person, and your behavior will cause a very uncomfortable feeling to the other party. If it were me, the other party would have come sloppily in a big padded jacket, and I would definitely not have made a second appointment with him.

We often say that the first impression that two people make when they meet each other is very important. It is not only reflected in the way you dress up in Hongliang Bridge, but also in your conversation, or the way you treat people.

Imagine if a boy dresses spotlessly, behaves generously and decolysically, and shows special politeness and understands the rules when he speaks, the first impression will be very good. It will give people the idea of continuing to get along with him and continue to get to know him. The blind date between the two will also go very smoothly.

Because when we meet each other for the first time, we look at the appearance, and as for the inner things, they cannot be experienced by meeting each other, and we need to have a deeper understanding in the future. If the first meeting leaves a bad impression, the blind date is considered a failure. Therefore, when going on a blind date, whether it is a man or a woman, you must dress yourself up cleanly and then meet each other, so that the success rate of the blind date will be higher.

The first thing that should be noted is that Qingtan does not believe in saying too many slippery words, and should not be too restrained, but should communicate with the other party in an orderly manner, so that the other party has a better first impression of himself.