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People never need to insist on what they like to do, because if they like it, they will put their energy into what they are engaged in, and there is no need for painful persistence, only painful things need to be persistent.
I myself studied computer science and worked in software development. I like to do this work very much, I have never felt bored with this work, nor have I deliberately insisted on it, I have summarized the following points:
First, software development can cultivate logical thinking, and how to use technical models to implement a specific business application is a painful but happy thing every time. The pain is because the business is complex and takes a lot of time to build the model; Happy because there is something new to learn.
Second, development requires you to continue to learn new knowledge, and learning makes you feel very happy and fulfilling, constantly advancing with the times, so that you will not fall behind this era.
Thirdly, there is a need to communicate with different people in the team, and exchanging ideas is also a very happy thing, and every time we communicate, new ideas will pop up, which is really amazing.
On the other hand, if you do a job that you don't like, it's torture. Too much pain beyond words. Because if you don't have interest, you don't put too much effort into it, you don't put 10,000 hours out there, you don't go deep into it.
There is a good saying: "Interest is the best teacher." "That's right. If you are interested, you will unconsciously fall into it and can't extricate yourself, and at the same time, you will feel that the time is not enough, and on the contrary, you will live like a year.
So, stick to what you're in, and after many years, it will give you endless rewards.
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For what you like to do, there shouldn't be a question of persistence and abandonment. If you're struggling with whether or not to give up, it's a sign that you don't really love your job.
In other words, the first thing you need to do is be honest with it, don't lie, and ask yourself if you really still love or enjoy the job. If the answer in your heart is no, then give up as soon as possible, life is too short and there is no need to do things you don't like.
If you're sure: yes, I still love the job at heart. Next, you can carefully analyze, why do you have the idea of not being able to persevere? What exactly is the problem? Frequently asked questions are as follows:
Clause. First, there was a setback.
When a person's proud ability encounters a setback, it is easy to feel frustrated and hopeless, and even want to give up. For example, what you are best at is public speaking, which has earned you countless praises, but one day, you are booed because you don't practice enough, which is a very big blow to you.
The way to do this is simple: see it as an opportunity to learn – you used to be so proud that you just sat back and watched, but now you have an opportunity to re-examine it, a lesson that money can't buy.
Clause. Second, they are imprisoned by reality.
There are some jobs that you like very much, but maybe the job doesn't bring you a lot of benefits in your real life, or to put it simply, it pays a lot and doesn't meet your current life.
The solution is equally simple: analyze your current financial reserves and whether you are really short of money. If the funds are not so scarce, you can continue to do it; And if the family urgently needs to subsidize the family, your younger siblings will depend on you to go to school, and the choice is very simple, find a job with more money, and then change jobs.
Clause. Third, there is a contradiction in the relationship between colleagues.
It is also normal for colleagues to have conflicts with each other. Because everyone gets along day and night, coupled with the distribution of benefits from work, it is easy to cause contradictions.
The solution, focus on what you really want to do, it's as simple as that.
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According to normal reasoning, if you like a job, you will inevitably have the motivation and reason to persevere. After all, driven by your own interests and hobbies, compared with other jobs, you will choose the job you like and do it for a longer time. This is what we usually say, "love does one line".
Of course, it is also very gratifying if people can find such a job in their lives, because if they can develop their hobbies into jobs, they will be motivated from the heart.
However, it is undeniable that even if you do something you like, you will get bored one day if you keep doing it repeatedly. For example, a person who loves to be an English translator is especially fond of being an interpreter. Members can regard themselves as a bridge to connect Chinese and foreign friends, and achieve the purpose of communication and exchange with each other.
And the sense of accomplishment that comes with this kind of interpretation is especially enjoyable for interpreters. But even if you're driven by a hobby, it's likely that you'll get bored one day. Because if you work for a long time, you will gradually lose the challenge, and your identity as a bridge between China and foreign countries is likely to become as boring as a machine.
Usually translators don't have their own thoughts, they translate whatever others say, and they are not allowed to add their own thoughts. So, in a way, there will definitely be a day when you get bored.
In the future, artificial intelligence is particularly developed. The translation machines manufactured by iFLYTEK and other companies are also particularly powerful, and can basically achieve accurate translation. In the future, the translation profession will also be fungible.
What translators can consider is to develop other skills in addition to their own translation skills, become slash youth, especially in the field of humanities, and carve out their own paradise.
We have also heard the saying "do a line, love a line". In other words, I didn't particularly like this job, but since I chose this job, I have to stick to it and do my best. And slowly, from not feeling the job to liking it, this is the process of "doing one line of love".
In fact, in life, things like "doing one line and loving one line" will have a greater chance of happening. Many people don't know what they really like when they choose a job. Only after getting in touch with this job and slowly getting to know it will you gradually like one of the links, or like the sense of accomplishment brought by completing this job task.
Therefore, to persist in the work you like depends on a sense of responsibility and the ability to constantly innovate and pursue progress.
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2. The work engaged in is consistent with personal goals. Many people may not know what they want, so they frequently try all kinds of careers, before they are determined, it is not impossible, but once they are determined, doing things within the career plan, your work has meaning and value, which is not as simple as liking or disliking your motivation and encouragement, goals and directions, is the driving force for you to move forward, and it is the ** you struggle. But what if your current job is not your ideal career?
There is a point of view, I agree that there are some basic qualities between careers and occupations are interconnected, such as communication skills, interpersonal skills, even if you are not engaged in your future planned career, the existing work can still bring you value, not useless, leaders should help tap the intrinsic value of the work, and the goal of the employee combined, such a combination as long as more thinking, it is always feasible.
3. The work engaged in can meet the demands of the current stage. For work, everyone's demands are different, some people want a high salary, and if the salary is too low, they will not stay for a long time; Some people want stability and comfort, but they are too busy and tired at work, so they will choose to leave; Some people are eager to be promoted, and if they have been in a position for a long time, they will choose to change jobs. If a job can meet his demands, such a job is meaningful to the employee.
4. Have a good interpersonal relationship and a positive working atmosphere. A job, in addition to the work itself, the most important thing is the colleagues and environment around you, if you get along with colleagues very badly, the working atmosphere is also depressing, many people, especially newcomers, will be ready to move.
5. Finding the joy of work. Work is a part of life, and it is a large part, taking up a third of our time, or even longer, if you can get happiness from work, the meaning of work is self-evident. Happy**in**?
The four aspects mentioned above are all sources of happiness, such as the free talk of colleagues, the appreciation of leaders, the affirmation of the company, the satisfactory salary, a different kind of challenge, etc., can bring us happiness.
For me, work is the carrier for me to realize the value of life, and the ups and downs are only to shape a better self. Therefore, I do not seek comfort, and I can tolerate indifference, as long as the work helps me to get closer to my goal and does not cause me additional troubles, it is enough. It doesn't matter whether a job can be persevered or not, what matters is whether it has value and meaning for me.
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1.Parents' perspectives are generally from a long-term perspective. First of all. Parents want them to do decent work out of their future plans. It's for the sake of a better life for your children.
2.Sometimes parents will also do some so-called sensitive and face-saving projects. Driving one's children to do a decent job is also conducive to the establishment of one's own image. In front of outsiders, the so-called brilliance is also revealed.
3.His work preferences are questioned by his parents and are not supported by his parents, but his enthusiasm for his work is a source of energy that he will never lose. I will have more energy and enthusiasm to treat it in the work I love, which is more conducive to my own development.
4.When there is a contradiction and conflict between oneself and the thoughts of one's parents, first of all. Don't rush into arguments.
Communicate with your parents first. After the communication is ineffective, think about whether you are willing to give everything for the job you like, and whether you are willing to grow and progress slowly in the job you like? Even if you change from unskilled to proficient, but you will work hard slowly?
Diligent and diligent at work, always maintaining a passion? If you can do this, then you must stick to your original intention. Keep your love for it and don't let life smooth it out.
It is necessary to maintain one's own characteristics and interests, and stick to the beginning of the heart.
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If it weren't for the job I liked, I would definitely be unhappy to do it, and I wouldn't have much motivation and I wouldn't feel motivated to work, so I would choose to leave.
At work, the main reason why I chose to leave was because I felt that there was no future in this job, and I would leave when I was unhappy at work.
At work, the reason why everyone will have the idea of resigning is nothing more than the following reasons, first of all, I don't like the current job, I think that this kind of job is not much development for myself, as the so-called man is afraid of entering the wrong line, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, for a boy like me, choose a job that he does not like and suitable, forcing himself to stick to it is a very painful thing, and this kind of work makes me not see any hope, then I will choose to resign as soon as possible, Let yourself stop losses in time without wasting your time and energy in vain. On the other hand, when I find a job for a period of time, and find that it is difficult for me to adapt to such a job and get along with my boss and colleagues, then I am likely to have the idea of quitting, because if there is no working environment and working atmosphere that makes me really happy, then if I persist in such a job, it will only make me more tormentedOf course, some small setbacks and difficulties encountered in the work, we should still look at them with a normal mentality, and should not let these small setbacks become the reason for us to resign, if so, it is difficult for us to really grow.
Life is inseparable from work, and I hope everyone can find a job that suits them and work hard.
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How do you love what you do?
Step 1: "Get down to work!"
Even if you can't love your job soon, at least the negative emotion of "work aversion" must be eliminated from your heart. At least put your best into the work at hand.
We may not know when we will be deeply attracted to the charm of our current work, and gradually understand that there may be an incredible and beautiful future hidden in our work.
The second point: if you are obsessed with work, you will not feel hard.
If you're obsessed with the job and love the job, then you can handle it, and it's all right.
It is precisely because of my obsession with work and love for work that I can persist in hard work for a long time, consistently, and without regrets.
People are like this, no matter how hard they work, they can endure it. And as long as you endure hardship and make unremitting efforts, anything can be successful.
The third point: you can also think more about the benefits that your work has brought to you, and express gratitude, which will also gain strength.
Fourth, be a spontaneously combustible person, and when the research work is going well, you should express happiness frankly; When research results are praised by others, we should sincerely express our gratitude; Then take this joy and emotion as spiritual food, and then continue to put in the hard work.
Remember to be happy with each of your small successes, to have a heart that is good at being moved, to treat life sincerely, to take every move as a driving force, and continue to work hard, this is the best way to live tenaciously in the long journey of life, and it is also my unswerving belief.
Because small successes can feel joy and emotion, how good it is! If you want to persist in this kind of boring research, you should sincerely express your joy when you have the results of your research. This joy and emotion can inject new impetus into our work, especially under the current conditions of insufficient research funding and poor research environment.
To continue our research, we need to celebrate every small success, so that we can add new courage. So no matter if you say I'm frivolous or frivolous, I'm still going to be happy with every little success I have, and I'm going to keep moving forward.
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