How do I choose my marriage now, how do I choose about marriage?

Feelings change, just like people's moods. I love it today, but I am hurt and I don't love it again. Since she can come back (no matter what she tells you or what she thinks in her heart), it means that she still can't give up, at this time, if you give up, it may be really no fun in the future, unless you don't want to live with her.

If you really care, do more, say more, once she doesn't react, two times she doesn't react, then three or four times... Women are easily moved, especially if you have children, children will always involve your common "nerves", take children to activities together, see children happy, no matter how deep the hurt will soon be diluted by the child's smile. I wish you a speedy return to normal family life.

The person who loves me and the person I love used to be a very hot topic, if it were you, how would you choose? In fact, the person who asks this question is very conflicted himself, isn't he? Why choose between those who love me and those I love, find someone who can love each other, isn't that a problem?

If it were me, I wouldn't have to think about it, I would choose the one who loves each other. If you like someone, age and height are not a problem, you are worried that you will not get along with his family, why don't you try to go to his house and meet his family and get along, if you feel good about yourself, then you don't have to worry so much. In today's society, there is no distinction between rural and urban people, as long as everyone can treat it sincerely, ** people are the same.

People should be in a brave heart, and when they encounter problems, they are not retreating or advancing, but they should treat them calmly and solve them. No one can write a bag and marry someone who loves them, and that person who loves them will cherish you for the rest of their lives. When your emotions are not in him, all that remains between you and him is gratitude.

Would you be happy with such an outcome? Find someone who can love each other, at least, you love each other, no matter what difficulties you encounter in the future, as long as the two of you are of the same heart, you can help each other and encourage each other, and you can share hardships and hardships and prosperity is true love. No matter who you want to marry in the future, as long as you get married, you always have to face reality, face each other's relatives and friends, learn to adapt to each other's environment, and slowly dissolve into each other's lives.

Therefore, you don't have to be confused, give yourself confidence, there are so many couples in the world who are destined to be together, why can they dissolve into each other's lives, but you can't? Right? Rush forward, don't let some of the problems that everyone will encounter get in the way.

Another point, marriage is something that you are willing to hope for, not that your family wants you to get married, you have to get married, marriage is not the point, the point is whether the other party is qualified to be your partner, is he the cup of tea you want to drink? If the answer is yes, then marry him with joy and make yourself the happiest bride you can be. ）

Many things in this world can be done and can be started all over again, only feelings cannot be compromised, because marriage is to find a suitable person to live, and it is necessary to run in with each other in the process of getting along and run a beautiful family with each other.

In the process of getting along, we can understand each other's personalities, hobbies, and shortcomings, and find resonance with each other, so that we can come together.

If you hold the future and make do with the marriage from the beginning, then this marriage will definitely not last long. Choosing a person to marry and who has always been faithful to his marriage is a very rare choice.

However, in this era of fast-food love, many people don't take their feelings seriously, they feel that two people are suitable and can talk about it, and they get married in a hurry, which eventually leads to divorce. Why do some people like to live together before marriage, because only by living together can you understand each other's living habits, and many things can be seen in the process of getting along.

Therefore, the person who will marry you in the future must understand clearly enough to feel that the other party's advantages and disadvantages are acceptable, or who will take care of the housework after marriage, which is also a very important thing. The woman is immature, and the man lacks supervision, if two people really want to get married, they must make corresponding changes in order to create a happy and warm family.

Sometimes marriage is really a woman's second reincarnation, choosing the right one is a blessing and luck, and choosing the wrong one is to pay for your choice for the rest of your life.

Marriage also requires two people to manage, it can be said that marriage is a woman's second life, when a woman marries a man, she not only marries the man she loves, but also marries the family behind the man. If you marry the right person, you will easily spend the rest of your life without effort, choose the wrong half, stumble, maybe you will keep the clouds open and see the moon, experience hardship, and usher in a piece of peace, but there will also be regrets, and the wrong person will continue to consume until the rest of your life, don't bury a single for love for a lifetime, and make the choice that allows you to benefit the most from marriage when it is still too late.

You're married, unsatisfactory, if you have children, you have to think about it.

If not, you can come as you wish. But as a person who has come over, I want to say that no one is perfect, you can't find the perfect other half, and some of them are together because of fate. I was looking for my husband on a blind date, and I wanted others to be honest and willing to work, and I had a house and a car that my parents bought later, but it was a mess, and in the end, for the sake of my daughter, I still chose to stay.

I don't want my daughter to have a bad life, I can live anywhere, but I'm afraid that she won't be happy.

How do you choose to get married? You must choose one that both parents agree, you also like him, he also likes you, you can be the right person, the happiness index is too different, and the happiness index will not be high, and you will not be happy after marriage.

The choice is still very large, how you choose is according to your own meaning, you can choose by yourself.

It's up to you.

When I went on a blind date, it was also to comfort them, so as not to think that their daughter didn't care about them, not to give them face, and to save embarrassing the matchmaker! It turned out that the first blind date, I didn't like it. Rejected on the same day.

They went to fortune telling, saying that fortune tellers said that we have a good fortune and will be very happy when we get married? Is this the reason for getting married Think about it, the other party directly said that I was so ugly, no one liked me, and thought that he was pitiful to me and wanted to be with me, is it possible for me to be such a person?

I know that they are feudal, they haven't read much, and they are very conservative, but I also went on a blind date to give them face, but I can't get married for their face, I can't find someone to marry casually, and pull someone on the street to get married!

Happiness is on both sides, do I have to deceive myself and deceive the other party to find someone to marry. My parents said I was demanding, and it was just a fake. I always say that I am ugly, I know that I am ugly, and I don't need to keep saying, I am your daughter, and I also have a little self-esteem, since I am so ugly, why should I harm society!

The family is too, for the sake of face. In the end, face is important, or the happiness of the dead grandson is important. Sometimes I know that they are for my good, but is it necessary to be happy when I get married?

What's more, I'm used to being free alone, and I don't want to find someone to restrict my life, let alone find someone to say that I'm ugly every day!

As long as you have money, you can do surgical changes.

I don't want to marry a finch and lose it, it's just unlikely, my parents say every day that their fate is not good, and other people's grandchildren are so much older, I'm going crazy! Nowadays, there is no guarantee at all in marriage, although there is any equality between men and women, in fact, women can never be equal to men, women have to have children, and men spend all day drinking and ...... outsideAnyway, there are a bunch of unfairness, and my thinking is not the kind of society that is open today, I can't stand the emotional indifference, and I don't want to get hurt again. I'm trying to find a male "gay" to marry, haha So he lives his, I live mine, in fact, it's nothing, life is my own, as long as I feel comfortable living, it's okay!

And everything in this world is changing, maybe one day you will want to end up when you meet someone! I didn't want to get married in February '82, and I've been living alone for almost four years, and I'm living well! Of course, as children, we must respect the mentality of our parents, and don't let them hold their heads up among relatives and friends, and besides, getting married and having children is also a contribution to mankind, and not getting married is not good for yourself!

It's good to be yourself, independent in your thinking, and financially independent.

Divorced people have their own reasons as a last resort, but it is difficult to find the right person to live with after divorce, even if you find that your life may be worse now than in the past, this is a big gamble, you know, nine out of ten bets lose.

Marriage itself is not an easy thing, both parties need to work hard to manage, even if two people have a deep emotional foundation, there will inevitably be contradictions in life, husband and wife have been running in for so many years, you dare to guarantee that there will be no contradictions when you remarry.

There is no absolute perfection in marriage, only relative happiness, sometimes the more people who love each other, the deeper the resentment, and the more people who have lived for a long time, the deeper the resentment.

When there is a conflict between husband and wife, it should not be solved by ending the marriage, but thinking about how to continue the marriage, so that there is an incentive to solve the problem, and both parties give each other a chance, think about the road they have walked, and consider the various difficulties after the divorce. I advise those couples who are child's play, don't bet on their future happiness, because you can't afford to lose if you make the wrong choice.

Second marriage is not as beautiful as you think, divorce should be cautious.

Second-married couples have experienced the pain of marriage, so they cherish their current marriage even more, but can they be happy?

Not necessarily! The vast majority of second-married couples are not heart-to-heart, and in reality, there are very few couples who are happy for the second marriage. It's all face and heart discord, each with its own purpose, or the halfway husband and wife are thieves, and if the heart doesn't work hard in one place, there will naturally be no happiness at all.

If the relationship between husband and wife has not reached the point where the rupture cannot be repaired, don't think about finding another person to live happily, this idea is not unrealistic but too naïve, and what you think may not be what the remarried lover thinks.

You can not care about divorce, but it is always the children who are hurt, and the marriage is burdened.

Marriage is burdened with responsibilities, family responsibilities, and parenting responsibilities, and you can choose to divorce irresponsibly, but the damage to your children is eternal and irreparable.

Regardless of after divorce, choose to remarry or single, the child is an indirect victim, the importance of a complete family to the growth of the child is self-evident, the choice of parents directly affects the child's life, the loss of father's love or mother's love, will have a deep damage to the child's psychology, this damage can not be made up for by anything.

Divorced couples, before deciding to divorce, should think about the responsibility to the children, this responsibility is not something that money can replace, so if the husband and wife can live for the children, they will be over, and it will be for the children.

Conclusion: In today's era, there are many people who get married and divorce in a flash, and they think that they can live if they can't.

1.Nature. People are a complex of contradictions, there are not only the shining points that attract you to be cautious, but also the inevitable shortcomings that disgust you.

Some shortcomings are harmless, but once there is a problem with the character, then a very bad incident will happen. If you don't want to barely survive with someone who is delicious, lazy, and selfish, you still have to observe each other's character more before getting married. Don't think that you can change each other for love, after all, it is difficult to change the habits and character that a person has cultivated for many years, and it will only become more and more serious, causing irreparable consequences.

2.Responsibility.

Our suitable marriage partner should be someone who can bravely take on his responsibilities when encountering problems. Those who want to escape when they encounter something and only care about their own enjoyment are really not suitable for marriage. We need our people to be responsible, to be responsible for the family, to the parents, and to the children.

There is a good saying that when a person can take responsibility for himself and for others, he is qualified to get married.

3.Ambition.

If you want to get married, you must consider economic issues, maybe the two people don't have any money in hand now, but as long as both of them are self-motivated, willing to bear hardships and stand hard work, and work down-to-earth, they can always live a prosperous life. After all, they are all in their twenties and thirties, it is the peak of career development, there are more opportunities than imagined, and if you are willing to work hard and be motivated, you will definitely reap a full harvest. I'm afraid that the person I marry is a person who has no money and doesn't want to make progress, and I can live a good life in a mess.

4.To the wide knowledge refers to the party's family.

It is necessary not only to look at the economic conditions of the other family, but also to observe the attitude of the other party's parents towards you, which will affect your quality of life and happiness in the future. If you can, try to choose the right person to marry, although some people may say that women who think like this are too realistic to want, but women who don't think about themselves so much end up living in pain.

Then observe the family atmosphere, the other party's family is full of various contradictions and disputes all day long, even if such a family is rich, it is best not to marry, it is easy to be wronged. Not only that, but some scholars have come to the conclusion that if you want to know what a fierce man's personality will look like when he is old, observe his father, if his father has domestic violence, then the man has an 80% chance of domestic violence against his wife. Do you still think it's not necessary to observe each other's families?