What should my boyfriend and I choose? We are not in the same city, what should I do? 20

Do you want to go with him too much, but it's just because of your family, how long will it take for you to actually go with him?

If you think about it, he came to Guangzhou for you alone and had nothing. You go out and walk around 1 person, let's say it's a place you don't recognize. That's what it feels like.

It's really uncomfortable. Your mom will hurt, so won't your boyfriend and you hurt? When the wings grow, they also want to fly.

True love will not change in 2 places, but 2 hearts that think about each other will want each other to be happier and happier, and may choose to give up. Have you parents seen it? It is possible to separate 2 places, but it must not be long.

If Bo 1 goes with him, but it may be hard, but there is a lover. Life at home is better, but it may be the inside. Just choose.

Don't want your problem, in fact, I don't know how you're facing it now.

That's what I'm facing, my boyfriend and I are also separated, and my parents don't agree.

My father even gave a death order not to go home with him, hehe...

I'm the same way, everyone separates and the relationship is weak, if it were money or marriage, which one would you choose? No amount of money can buy a true love. Eat less and spend less, at least your emotional world will not be lonely, no matter how reluctant your parents are, you must know that husband and wife are the ones who accompany each other for a lifetime, so it's better to be with your boyfriend, and have time to come back to see your parents.

Think of this as a test of your feelings, and see if you can persevere.

If you don't work in the same city as your boyfriend, you can't be separated, love must insist on being separated for a period of time, and then find a way to develop in a city, and the love will continue to be a happy marriage.

Whether to continue to go on is related to your attitude towards this relationship, if you really give your feelings, how can you be willing to let go easily, the relationship between two people is deep enough, and distance is really not a problem.

How to keep the relationship fresh in a long-distance relationship.

Everyone's fear of long-distance relationships is nothing more than that they can't see each other often because of distance, and they are afraid that the relationship will become weaker and weaker. I think that as long as both parties keep their relationship fresh enough, the two of them will definitely go on until they get married and have children.

So how do you do that? Two people can plan for the future, such as setting a goal, both parties promise to meet every once in a while, no matter how busy they are, they will get married in a few years after their jobs are stable, and they often look forward to their married life when chatting, and the two of them work together for this goal.

Trust each other and don't be suspicious.

Long-distance relationships are sometimes cranky because the other party does not pick up their ** in time and reply to their own messages. Especially girls, who are more delicate and think more. To give each other enough trust, trust is also the basis of feelings, always believe that the hearts of both parties are together.

This is related to the economic situation of the two in reality, if your boyfriend can support you and can make you live a relatively rich life, then a long-distance relationship is not impossible, but if the two are together The economic situation is quite embarrassing, then it is best to do the boyfriend's ideological work, if it is not possible, breaking up is a better choice.

In reality, there have been many examples of long-distance relationships that eventually broke up, if you can maintain your long-distance relationship with train tickets and ** fees, you can also often open ** to tell the daily life bits, absolutely not more than two months not to see each other, so that no matter how good the relationship will begin to deteriorate, such as online dating, it is recommended not to be too extravagant, because you can go to reality, and the chance of finally coming together is also very small, college students must pay attention, once in school, now out of work is a social university. There's always too much to confuse.

If you have been in love for a few years and are assigned to a different place, the man has to define for himself what should be done and what should not be done, and often contact, at this time, the shelf life depends on how you provide freshness. Recommended method: Meet once every half a month, the boy must work very hard to make the girl feel that you are really reliable and down-to-earth.

But in any case, you still need to make a good judgment about the future of the two, otherwise it will be really difficult.

I use my own experience to come! 1. I can't see him, and I miss him every day. 2. When I see other couples together, I feel a strong sense of loss.

3. When he is most helpless and needs him the most, he can't be by his side, and he can only rely on ** to talk about something. You're crying here, he's in a hurry over there, that's all. 4. When you meet once, you may need to cut down on food and clothing for a long time (of course, I'm talking about students, when the distance is very long) 5. I don't know each other's lives anymore, I don't know who he contacts every day, who he wants to be good with, when he is playing, he will think that if I am also by his side, will he take it to play together, and then it will be more uncomfortable.

At the same time, he plays late and will be cranky. In a better situation, you will convince yourself to believe in him; In a bad situation, there will be a quarrel, he blames you for not understanding him and not believing him, you blame him for not accompanying you, etc., which makes both parties unhappy.

In the face of this situation, we should communicate more with our boyfriends, and in the face of this situation, we should also take the initiative to communicate with our boyfriends to plan everything about the future.

Give support You have to believe that you are together because you like each other, and at this time he is also quite struggling to make such a decision, he chooses to fight instead of doing nothing, he chooses to persist instead of breaking up, after all, part of it is for you he loves.

The two of you can work hard in your respective cities to plan for your future, and long-distance relationships can go on for a long time.

As long as you fall in love in the same city, it is not a long-distance relationship!

Not counted. It's a city love.

I guess it's no fun.,Because I'm also a woman.,I'll automatically ignore the messages sent to me by those irrelevant people.,Or you can send her a few more messages to see if she can't reply.,She may also have forgotten to reply.。

It's not very good, it's too far apart, if you really love each other, then it's better for one of them to give up working and studying, in a city, even if it's not working in the same company.

Online dating starts from online acquaintance to develop feelings, did your love start online? If yes, it's online dating!

Why refuse every time? If you feel that it is really too far away and very inconvenient, you can explain to him, why you are afraid that the family will know, the family will know sooner or later, if you think that this man can let you entrust you for life, then you should cherish it, I wish you happiness.

As long as you don't have the intention of stepping on two boats, then it's nothing, after all, some blood people are really alike.

Isn't it good that if you can't communicate often mentally, you can make up for it with material things. If a man is willing to spend money on you, it proves that he has you in his heart.

China's marriage law stipulates that blood relatives within three generations are prohibited from marrying, including the third generation. If your boyfriend is your cousin's cousin (i.e., they are the same grandfather), it means that there is a blood relationship within 3 generations, and it is considered a close marriage; If he is your cousin's cousin (i.e. they are not from the same grandfather, but from the same family), then after 3 generations, it is not considered a close marriage. You first find out the specific situation of your boyfriend and take a seat.

Hope it helps.

Let's just talk about me, because of the difference in education, my boyfriend often says that he is not worthy of me, he says that he often has low self-esteem, and if a boy who is better than him likes me, and I like the other party, he will quit, I say he is stupid.

If you like him and care about him, you usually have to show that you care about him, you have to praise him more, your boyfriend likes his girlfriend to worship him, so that his psychology is not so depressed. For example, my boyfriend said that his education was not worthy of me, I rarely said his education, and I asked him to study more.

You have to encourage him more, boys can sometimes be very fragile in their hearts, especially when they have a girlfriend who is better than themselves.

When the boyfriend and girlfriend face each other and receive offers from two different cities after graduation, how to choose, both people should face and choose, if the relationship between two people is very good, they should consider each other and choose the most suitable job to develop. Since they have all chosen to be together, they should consider each other, if the job is very promising for the boyfriend, the girlfriend should support the boyfriend to give up his job and go to the boyfriend's city for development, or he can find a job that suits him and follow his boyfriend to a city for development. This is why Yu Qing can be suitable, and the two of them can also destroy the code to be together after they get married.

If the girl does not have such consideration, it means that the relationship between the two people is not very stable and the girl can't make up her mind, and she is willing to go to a city with her boyfriend for development in her private life. In this situation, after graduation, the two of you are likely to face the choice between career and love, which is a very distressing thing for the two of you and difficult to make a final decision.

You and your boyfriend should communicate well to see if each other is really interested in each other's offers, if two people are not very satisfied with such a job opportunity or one of them, and the two of you care about each other's feelings, then one party will inevitably make a decision to give up, so that two people in the same city to develop together, it is possible to let the relationship between two people continue.

But if you and your boyfriend are the kind of people who are particularly ambitious, and are very concerned about offers from these two cities, and both of you don't want to give up this job opportunity, then in this case, the two of you should also think about how to face your feelings for each other next, because the two of you may still enter a long-distance relationship, and the vast majority of long-distance relationships are difficult to get to the end. The two of you must have a certain psychological preparation for this, especially for girls, you must have a certain tolerance for this relationship, that is, two people will be together less in the future, and the relationship will gradually fade, if you can't accept it, then there are only two choices, either to completely give up this relationship, or to choose to go to the same city with your boyfriend to develop, the best solution is for two people to communicate and negotiate, in a good way to choose your future. Together, the two of you plan your future work and life and make the right choices.

1.Whether the long-distance relationship can go to the end mainly depends on the determination of both parties, as long as the three views are in line with the same goal, and both parties love each other deeply, I believe that if you persist, you will definitely be able to go to the day of sunset.

2.Two people must only have each other in their eyes, share the joys, sorrows and sorrows of life every day, share happy things when they encounter happy things, encourage each other when they encounter setbacks, and do what they decide to do, don't give up.

3.We all know that long-distance relationships are difficult and painful, but if you can survive long-distance relationships, let's get married! The difficulty of a long-distance relationship is that it cannot be seen clearly, it cannot be touched, it cannot be helped, and it is difficult to endure if it is difficult to get married.

4.The most important point of a long-distance relationship is trust, because some things in a long-distance relationship are easy to hide, if you really want to be together, open your heart and don't have anything to hide, trust each other, don't have misunderstandings, whether it's true for a long time, you can naturally feel it, for example, you want to know the other party's life and death, and don't easily say that you break up.

5.Boys must not give up love because of lack of money, some boys think that long-distance relationships can not do anything except send things, only send things to gain the favor of the other party, things are not not can not be sent to the person who loves you as long as you have a heart, so a long-distance relationship with more money and less money can not determine anything, as long as both parties work together to be self-motivated in this era, money is indispensable.

Long-term long-distance relationships do affect the relationship, if you are planning to get married, then you should discuss the future development of the two of you to see which city is more suitable for the development of two people together.

Whoever has a bad job quits and goes to the other city's city to find a job, is your boyfriend's home in that city?

In a new city, if you're feeling lonely, it's a good idea to get a boyfriend.

1. Building an intimate relationship can help alleviate your loneliness. The presence of a boyfriend will make you feel that you are not fighting alone, that you can have someone to rely on when you are tired, that you can stand by your side without hesitation to support you, and that you will care for you when you are sick. A lot of what one person does becomes two people together, and happiness and happiness are doubled.

2. Having a high-quality relationship can reduce your sense of insecurity and become more confident. You can talk to your boyfriend about the unpleasantness that happens in your life, and he can help you analyze the problem and resolve your troubles. In a relationship, everything in life will become colorful, your boyfriend can explore this new city with you, it will encourage you to face the new environment and new job, you will feel a lot less uneasy, and you can adapt to life more quickly.

3. Improve your sense of accomplishment and happiness. When you are in love, the dopamine level will increase, and you will feel extremely happy. On the one hand, I will be greatly recognized by the other party, and on the other hand, I feel very happy to have the other party.

In the process of receiving love and passing on love, our sense of accomplishment and happiness increases, and loneliness naturally disappears.

4. Improve interpersonal communication skills. Falling in love, because you like someone, he is a key to open your heart, you are not good at communicating, you are not good at talking, you are not talkative, and you are eager to communicate with it. In his presence, you are like two people who were before, and you have endless things to say to him.

It's as if there's a magic that keeps you motivated endlessly. In communicating with him, your interpersonal communication skills have improved significantly.

Finally, I hope that everyone's love comes from love, followed by the need for pants. Good love can help everyone reduce loneliness, it can be icing on the cake, and it can also be a blessing in the snow. Falling in love can help each other become better, and it can also give support and encouragement to each other in difficult times, and a good love will eventually enter the palace of marriage, which can affect a person's life.