Is love all about mutual understanding and tolerance?

Love is actually very simple and simple! Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true! For love, we don't expect its fulfillment, but we can make it true...

Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, love has long become fast food, not for eternity, but for what once had... What will happen in the future, who thinks so far? So love becomes a pillow when you are lonely, a traveling companion when you are lonely; It becomes an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even becomes a slave to money ...

At this time, love has lost its beautiful aura and has become realistic and worldly... Is there still true love in this society? Yes, but very little, modern people do not know how to cherish love, when they have it, they will suck the essence of love recklessly, do not water, do not fertilize, so the flower of love will not be long before it withers...

When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me, but unfortunately there is no regret medicine in this world... So when you have a good love, cherish it ... To love someone is to care about him and want him to be happy, and his joys, sorrows and sorrows also affect my emotions, but I just want him to be happy.

If you love someone just to make him love you, then you are misinterpreting the meaning of love. If he could live happier without you, then you should be happy, shouldn't you? Your fulfillment may make it a lot easier for each other, friend, why bother so much, there are many unfair things in the world.

The fate is determined by heaven, and the share is artificial, maybe you are not suitable to be together. Bury that love deep in your heart, as long as you silently bless him, one day you will also be blessed by God and meet your real him. Now if you have the same mindset as I do, you will be happy.

It's right to love someone, it's just that we love the wrong person

This is a must! If we can't understand and tolerate each other, no matter how beautiful the love is, it will disappear!

Learn to understand、—— often empathize with others, and be considerate of other people's feelings.

Learn to be patient、—— endure one step to open up the sea and the sky.

Learn to care 、—— treat the other person as a part of yourself.

Learn to be tolerant、—— don't worry about small things.

Learn to change 、—— often add new colors to feelings.

To manage a love, you must go through many tests!

When you have love, cherish it. Feel the joy of life brought by love, love is not just sweet but flavorful. Love may not be smooth sailing, but love that has gone through hardships will be more perfect, and there are no regrets about truly paying for love.

Love is the person who witnesses the darkest, most brilliant, happiest, and most sad life of each other, discovers all the shortcomings of the other person and endures it. Feel it with your heart, in fact, love is everywhere!

In love, two people can tolerate each other: mutual understanding, mutual tolerance, and mutual support. What is love?

Love is when two people love each other. To love each other, we must understand each other, tolerate each other, and support each other, only in this way will our love last for a long time. If both people don't understand each other, it's easy to quarrel a lot.

If two people often can't tolerate each other, they can't tolerate each other and will even fight. If two people can't support each other, they may not be able to carry out their work, and it will be difficult for the family to survive. Therefore, mutual understanding, mutual tolerance, and mutual support are very important for love, and only in this way can we truly tolerate each other.

1. Mutual understanding.

First of all, what is mutual understanding? Mutual understanding means that in love, no matter when either party encounters something, the other party can understand the other party. For example, a couple is late for a date in the south, the woman asks the man why he is late, and the man says that he has been delayed because of a little thing at work, at this time we need the woman to have a full understanding of the man, if we can't understand each other, the other party will be very aggrieved and sad, if we continue to ask, maybe the two people will quarrel, which is caused by each other's intolerance.

Therefore, two people must understand each other in love.

2. Mutual tolerance.

Secondly, what is mutual tolerance? To tolerate each other is to be able to forgive each other for what they have done. For example, if the other party is late for the above couple date, and says that he is late because of work, if we can forgive the other party for being late, this is tolerance.

Tolerance is difficult to do, we need to try to understand first, and then we can tolerate, so two people in love, we must learn to understand each other, tolerate each other, only in this way can two people continue to develop.

3. Mutual support.

In the end, two people should be like sweet honey in love for a long time, not only to understand and tolerate each other, but also to learn to support each other. For example, the above man is late for work, at this time, we must not only understand and tolerate each other, but also support the man's work. Only in this way will the love between two people last for a long time.

Start by giving each other plenty of private space. Trust each other. But what is more important is to respect each other and consider problems from the other person's point of view.

When there is a conflict between the two parties, keep the emotional stability, and analyze each other frankly and calmly how to solve the problem. And after the problem is solved, the matter will not be mentioned, the past will not be revealed, and the other party's small problems will not be let go. The two sides will become more considerate and more tolerant.

When two people are together, they should be honest with each other, cherish each other, understand each other, tolerate each other, and accept each other's shortcomings.

If you want to tolerate each other, then it indicates that you don't have to worry about it, you must learn to be open-minded, meet things, face it together, and when one party is angry, the other party understands and does not quarrel with him.

In fact, I think that in love, if you want to be able to truly tolerate each other, then it means that you have to try to accept the strengths and weaknesses of others. Try to get into his heart and get to know him better, and only in this way can you give each other enough space and tolerance.

Mutual understanding: Thinking from each other's point of view, many times in life is to learn to understand each other, no matter what happens, you have to put yourself in their shoes and think about it, don't always quarrel.

When two people encounter problems, they should think about the problem from each other's point of view, and should also consider each other more, don't always quarrel because of some small problems, two people should communicate effectively, you have to let each other know what you think in your heart, so that you can tolerate each other.

In love, if two people want to tolerate each other, they must accept each other's shortcomings, and they must also generously forgive each other's mistakes.

In love, we should like each other from the bottom of our hearts, and we should also give each other faults, be more tolerant, and don't always suppress each other's character traits with an irritable temper. This will lead to conflict between the two sides.

Two people need to tolerate each other in love, because they can't do everything according to each other's ideas, and sometimes they will make themselves feel that what the other party is doing is not good, so only when they can understand each other, can they tolerate each other.

The two people are close to each other, sincerely tolerate each other and care about each other, work hard to maintain this relationship, and try to communicate together.

Personally, I think that if you want to tolerate each other in your relationship, then you must learn to think from the other person's point of view.

You don't agree with the other party's approach, but you can tolerate it, this is love, it is inevitable that you will not be used to it, but you will also express your thoughts, hope to communicate but the other party can not listen.

I would like to throw out my point that love is the guide of marriage, understanding and tolerance are the protective membrane of marriage, and they are equally important to marriage. Let's listen to what the answer given by these 3 young ladies is?

Miss Fang: In marriage, what I understand is that love and understanding are equally important, if there is only love in a marriage, there is no understanding, I think the relationship will not last long. My girlfriend got married some time ago, and she told me that marriage and love are completely different things. When you are in love, you must always keep the most beautiful side in front of the other party, and after marriage, all the shortcomings will be exposed in front of you.

To be honest, it's hard to accept it for a while, and after marriage, you have to deal with not only the relationship between you and your husband, but also the relationship with your father-in-law and mother-in-law. Therefore, without a little courage, it is completely unafraid to step into marriage. In married life, the best spice is tolerance and understanding.

When another person is very busy with work and has no time to spend with you, you have to understand that he is trying to earn money to support you and maintain your family relationship. Marriage is nothing more than one person making trouble, one person smiling to tolerate and understand, not two people making trouble together.

Miss Fan, my marriage I think is very unhappy. In the past, I always felt that he loved me enough, and everything else didn't matter, it was the same whether there was or didn't, but now it seems that there is less understanding in our marriage. I have been married to him for 3 years, I didn't ask for anything for the bride price, and we are still renting a house.

Every time I quarrel with him, everyone won't explain, and every time it ends up being a cold war, which leads to the present, I feel that we are not husband and wife, and strangers, each with its own way. Actually, I was also very miserable, I always felt that a woman should be arrogant, so that he could always love me, but now it seems that my idea is wrong. I never tried to understand him, he never tried to understand me, everyone couldn't lower their heads and say to each other that I was wrong.

We always feel that as long as we love each other, it is enough to understand or not, tolerate or not, those are really not that important. Now it seems that in a marriage, there is no understanding and tolerance, and it feels like a particularly failed marriage. The most indispensable thing in Miss Fei's marriage is understanding and tolerance, otherwise no matter how much you love each other's marriage, once there is a contradiction, this marriage will be difficult to maintain.

The best marriage I've ever seen is that I agree with my parents' love, and I always thought that their marriage was unhappy because they always quarreled, but I didn't think that it was just a way for them to get along.

Love must be mutually understanding and tolerant, in addition to this, you must also be honest with each other, so that your love can become indestructible.