He s leaving me, so please help me!

Patiently read it.

According to your description, you are a somewhat innocent and somewhat reserved girl.

There may be three reasons why he is lukewarm to you:

1. He cares a little about your work. This mind contains a lot, it may be that you are just a little waiter, or you may feel that you are different from his cultural accomplishment and ideal pursuit, or you may feel that you are in the bright lights, he can't see through you, and he is afraid that you are a frivolous person;

2, he already has a girlfriend. I think he understands all your actions, he is not a fool, he just doesn't want to find out, and he doesn't think he is even a friend with you, so he won't mention to you all kinds of things about him in Beijing;

3, he is very filial, on the one hand, he feels that his grandmother has just passed away, on the other hand, he feels that he is not good enough and has not achieved his goal, so he does not want to fall in love at the moment.

- These are all speculations, none of which are the most important at the moment, the most important thing at the moment is that you first have to find out if he has a girlfriend, if not, then you still have a chance, because I can feel that you like him so passionately!

Well, given the current state of affairs, my advice to you is;

You take a stand with him, confess to him, tell him that you like him.

Confession in this case requires skill, he has just lost a loved one, and he wants to work hard to bring his family to live in Beijing, Alexander is sure, so you should impress him with affection. For example, talk about ideals, talk about life planning, you can inadvertently say: In fact, I also want to go out and see the outside world, I am not willing to be a little waiter, I also want to rely on my own hands to give my parents a warm and happy old age--- these words can definitely resonate with him and shorten the distance with him);

Remember: a mistake is a momentary regret, and a miss will be a lifelong regret!

Since you don't want to just pass by him, then you have to take advantage of the opportunity.

Girl, the reality is here.

You are just a KTV waiter, you don't have the capital to go to Beijing, and you just find your own guilt when you go.

It may also become a burden to him, and it will not fit into his circle.

So, my opinion is, you can tell him that you like him, but at the same time, you have to tell him to support his cause.

Because it can be seen from what he wrote that he had career ambitions.

But you don't get your hopes up.

Because it is impossible for the person who is about to leave to give you anything.

But in order not to regret it, you can tell him that you like him.

Of course, you can also choose not to say it.

No matter how good you are to him, it is in vain if he doesn't love you. Even if you make yourself very good, it won't help. Even if you are barely together, you will not be happy, and maybe he will not hesitate to dump you when he meets someone he likes.

So don't think about it. True love is not begged, it is cultivated by two people.

It's that you can't run, it's not that you can't ask for it.

You're used to having him in your life, and suddenly you're not there, not used to it! But it's not love, so if you don't like people, let him go! You have to learn how to love others yourself!

Since you know that you don't love him, then don't chase him back, because you can't give him your love when he comes back. He should have been chasing you for a long time, a person who has liked you for so long and chased you for so long, suddenly wants to leave, you will definitely feel uncomfortable, since you can't give him love, let him leave. Time is the best healing medicine.

That's because you didn't own him, but when he left you, you felt as if someone had taken your things, and you would be unhappy. If he comes back, you feel like you don't really love him at all.

Chase her back, and confess!

Love means responsibility, liking is not equal to love, maybe you are better friends.

Want.. Explain that you rely on. I'm used to it.

Ask your own mind if you want to keep him.

There are too many good men, looking for a good life for you.

Do you know how you react?

Little sister, you don't know what love is.

Come with a heart, and don't take half a straw with you.

Maybe you are a passerby, but you work hard for us.

Write down the knowledge on the blackboard, and erase the merits after class.

is leaving. Farewell, not the end, naturally rejoice.

What is love, love is the glue-like love when you first met, but it will eventually return to the family version.

The life of the style is plain and full of power. Because now that a family is formed, the family will have a lot of things, a lot of responsibilities and burdens. In fact, marriage is also based on the law, the marriage certificate is a legal document issued by the marriage registration authority to prove the validity of the marriage relationship, if you really love each other, you want to be responsible for each other and future children, you must have a marriage certificate.

Your family conditions are not very good, don't complain, there are many, many more unfortunate than you, at least you are healthy, and you are the one who has lived with her, so you have to cheer up and work hard to make yourself strong.

Bless you.

It is recommended that 2 people sit down calmly face to face and have a good chat, you can first talk about how you met in the past, love each other, and some happiness.

Answer: Recall, and then talk about how you feel about each other's current situation, and remember to speak calmly, not in a hurry, and not loudly.

Time is changing, people will change, people will not sink the same, some people change their appearance at the same time, their hearts will also change, everything is so beautiful when they are in love, but with the passage of time, all practical problems will surface, such as: money, house, etc. Many people will have "differences" after facing these practical problems, leading to the final "breakup", we can't say that they are wrong, we can only say that they have forgotten the courage to love and dare to face everything.

As long as it is a human being, there are feelings, if the other party still has the love for you in their hearts, then you can work together and change together, you can try to agree for 3 months, see if there will be changes, start from little by little, start from small things, let each other feel that your love is not a kind of pressure, but a simple happiness.

Feelings, you can talk to him more, just talk about it.

The love of prayer is humble!

You're only 20 years old.

7 I really don't want to, and I can't stand it anymore and leave, kid! Whoever has a good future with whomever you want.

Halfway through it, I felt like you were a cowardly couple. My wife's parents are strong and want to save face, and I have to say after reading it, are you a man. If yes, I'm leaving, I'm looking for one, go to work, alas, the leader presses home, alas, my wife and mother-in-law press, can you still go down with this breath?

You are born to be easy and happy, and I ask you: what did you get except for a daughter? Money can't buy the word "happy", understand?

Your situation is more complicated, and you have been a door-to-door son-in-law for three years at 23.

What's the point of staying in such a home?

It sounds like you're having a complicated question. But in fact, as long as you think about it yourself, it's nothing, you lack communication, little sister, you should have a good talk with him, you love him very much, you don't want to be separated from him, but what about him? Does he love you as much as you do, and wants the two of you to be together as much as you do?

Won't marry someone who has knelt down for her, this reason sounds ridiculous, no matter how strong he is, no matter how much he wants to save face, if he really loves you, how can he care about this. Your relationship is not yet mature, you should think about it carefully.

You should see a psychologist first, and then participate in more social activities to expand your contact. Then quietly think about how you are so cowardly, a man who can beat you definitely doesn't put you in the warmest place in his heart.

In fact, there is a sentence that I have never wanted to say, I don't mean to insult you, what do you call it like that? Do you know? Just one word, think for yourself.

He wants to part with you, so you obediently part with him, the more you stalk, the more annoying it is, really!

If he leaves, you will let him go, so that he may have the possibility of returning to you, otherwise he will have a very bad impression in his heart if he thinks you are like now!

Are you sure she cares about you, and if you're sure, you can go to her, but be sure to say hello before you go, and I don't think girls like this kind of surprise, and when you find her, talk to her, from the beginning to the present, everything, find a place to talk, say you love her, but you can't give up your dignity, and if you give up, you'll end up being looked down upon. After the conversation, the result is the result, for better or worse, accept it. The last place to talk is a café or a place you've been to before and resonated with Good luck with your wish to adopt.

Let's take a good look at how you used to be. Are you really suitable? It is impossible to deliberately change one person to fit another; A long-distance relationship, where two people often don't live in the same city, is impossible; There are too many opinions from your family, and you have no opinions, and it is impossible to choose you firmly.

It's not because who's not good enough, it's just that it's not suitable, and if you find the right person, everything will be fine.

You can find her and say it clearly, a man can't drag the mud and water when he is resolute, he can continue, he can't think of another way out as soon as possible, why should a good girl fall in love with a flower, want to open a brother, you have lost a tree but you have a whole forest.

There is a way called stalking, although it hurts self-esteem, but it works, and it has been tried and tested, so I recommend you try it.

If it's really not suitable, forget about each other. I don't know why, I have always been in love, but unfortunately most. From deep to shallow, forget each other in the rivers and lakes. You really put it down and go find her.

Girls are to be coaxed, usually the girl proposes to break up, is to arouse your vigilance, let you coax her, if the boy proposes to break up, it is really a breakup.

Everyone's first love or long-term love will have a lot of memories What you have to do is to fill in these good memories slowly Let it become you and her For example, you can call her on time every day Ask about food and drink Don't feel faceless In fact, this is a very normal thing Take time to spend more time with her or buy gifts for her The most important thing in the above things is your sweet words You have to remember No woman doesn't like sweet words. And the above things don't need to be too long, 2 weeks is almost, and after a long time, you get tired of it, sometimes cold and sometimes hot, good luck.