When is the most dangerous period in marriage?

It is not easy for two people to enter the palace of marriage, I hope they can cherish it. There are different reasons for unhappy marriages. Its most "dangerous periods" also vary.

There is a dialectical relationship between marriage and family relations, and even with social relations. This makes the most "dangerous times" even more confusing. Generally speaking, couples who have been married for many years objectively exist:

Sexual attraction decreases, and as personalities absorb or get used to each other, family affection increases. It is generally considered that the seventh year of marriage is the most "dangerous period".

My friends say, "The shelf life of a couple in love is 3 months" It seems that because they are together every day and lose the beauty of the distance, husband and wife are even more like this, every day together, when two people go into a dull life, if one person can't bear the loneliness, I think the crisis will appear, so I think the bland is the killer of marriage, as long as you don't let life be too dull, or do some out-of-the-ordinary romance in the bland life, it will make your lover feel that the person you love most is still him.

Hello friend, there is no safe and dangerous period in marriage, because the problem lies in the mutual between two people, because marriage is the same as doing business, they also need to operate, if you do not manage well, it will lead to the family in a dangerous stage, if you manage it with your heart, then your family life will be very happy, believe me is a person who has come over.

Love has no shelf life, and marriage has none. It is better to keep your marriage fresh. A woman with a certain amount of charm doesn't have to worry about these things

Seven years, sixth to seventh years.

The first danger period: when the child is born.

The arrival of the child has suddenly increased the pressure on the life of the inexperienced couple, and the original normal life of playfulness and entertainment has been seriously disturbed and interrupted, and the "new triangle" relationship generated after the arrival of the child has greatly changed the original "two-person world", so the couple will suddenly feel nervous, dazed and irritable about the marriage.

The second danger period: four to five years after marriage.

After four to five years of marriage, after the freshness has passed, both of them tend to feel that life is boring. The husband is busy with work that has no possibility of promotion or raise, and he may be more lazy to do housework when he comes home; And the wife has to work and take care of the children to live and study, one person is very busy, both of them are in the same life circle, but they are not as idle as before.

The third danger period: the seven-year itch.

After seven years of marriage, the time of marriage is the lowest time for the couple to be satisfied. Between the sixth and tenth years of marriage, couples are at their least satisfied with each other and feel bored with their married life. In fact, the peak of divorce in society is often in the seventh to tenth year of marriage.

Since human nature is like this, at this time, both husband and wife should help each other to re-enter their hearts with the highest degree of patience and the most care, so as to preserve the marriage.

Fourth danger period: 20 years after marriage.

During this period, the physical condition of both men and women gradually changed. Usually, wives enter menopause and are often irritable and very worried about the loss of their attractiveness in the eyes of their husbands. Dongsui's husband is worried that he will no longer be energetic, his talents will no longer grow, and his social role will be completely hopeless.

If the spouses are unable to make up for each other and help each other, then the breakdown of the marriage is inevitable.

One of the boredom periods: 1-2 years after marriage.

Many people think that 1 or 2 years after marriage should be the sweetest period for two people, there is no trouble of having children, there is no contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law living together, and the world of the two is both romantic and free. Having said that, many times the first two years after marriage are also a hurdle that many couples can't overcome, for the simple reason that this type of couple has not lived together before marriage, and every time they date and meet, they pay great attention to their image, and they also know how to hide their shortcomings in front of each other.

But living together after marriage is a completely different picture, the wife can't get used to seeing her husband sloppy, the husband complains that his wife spends money lavishly, when each other's pre-marital image is completely collapsed after marriage, there will be more and more contradictions between the two, and they will even dislike each other, thinking that this marriage is too hasty.

Boredom period 2: The first 2 years of the child's life.

When the young couple successfully survives the first 1 or 2 years of marriage, the next challenge is life after having children. Children are the crystallization of the love of the husband and wife, but at the same time, it is also the standard of the relationship between the husband and wife, do not think that raising a child is just feeding and changing diapers, the hard work here also includes the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the confinement of the relationship, the husband is busy with work and rarely takes care of the family, the difference between the two generations of parenting concepts is ......

In addition, many couples will become very busy after having children, so that there will be a lot less communication with each other, wives complain that their husbands are not considerate of themselves, husbands feel that their wives are hypocritical, and the dilution of feelings and various life conflicts make it difficult for many young couples to survive the first two years after the birth of their children.

Boredom Period 3: Seven years of itching.

The 7-year itch here does not refer to the exact 7th year after marriage, but a period of boredom that the couple fell into after a few years of marriage. During this period, many couples treat their other half like strangers, they no longer rely on each other, appreciate each other, and will not please each other, on the contrary, complaining, blaming, and chagrin have become the norm in life. At this stage, the relationship between the two people is completely maintained by their children, and this state of living together is also the status quo of many middle-aged couples.