How to chase a girl Zhihu, how to chase a boy Zhihu

How it works:

If you want to chase girls, you must first learn to chat, and the first thing you should pay attention to when chatting with girls is not what you should say, but if girls learn to listen when they speak, girls may mention some of their interests or some things they hate when they speak, at this time you should remember to avoid mentioning things that girls hate when you speak, and it is also convenient for you to lead the topic to things that girls like when you speak.

Then when the otaku goes out, he must first see himself clearly, recognize himself, know himself, know his enemy, recognize himself, and recognize himself first: what is my personality? What are my interests?

What is my outlook on life? What about values? Then recognize the object:

What is the personality of the person you are pursuing? What are her interests? What is her outlook on life?

What about values? You must understand these first, so that you can find a topic for the next step, and judge whether it is suitable for you, so as not to waste time and energy and delay others.

Don't enter the tiger's den to get the tiger bold and careful, bravely rush forward, after making a decision in your heart, you must rest assured and bold, actively offensive, love her, you must be brave to take the first step, pay attention to the chat, find a topic must try to find the girl is interested, you can understand it when you are at home, don't be too, you must be natural, so that you can have a good contact.

Break the limits of thought.

We often think that it is normal for men to chase women, but not for women to chase men. After all, girls are often the passive party in their relationships, and they should pretend to be reserved and wait for boys to chase after them. If you take the initiative to chase a boy, you will often not be cherished.

In fact, this is our ideological limitation, from the emotional point of view, whether it is a man chasing a woman or a woman chasing a man, it is a matter of two people. Since boys can pursue girls they like when they meet them, the same is true for girls.

A hundred years ago, it was difficult for women to have the right to actively pursue happiness. Even when choosing a husband, the words of the parents and the matchmaker have become stumbling blocks. But nowadays, it is no longer a problem for women to have the courage to pursue their own happiness, so when you meet a boy you like, you must first change your heart to pretend to be reserved.

Make yourself more feminine.

Men are visual creatures. If a woman's posture is more feminine and soft, then the likelihood of the man being fond of him increases.

For example, do a nail art to make your fingers slimmer and **. Wear a delicate light makeup to make yourself look more sweet and lovely. Choose a few clothes that show your **, clothes like blue, it is easy to look white, and a white cover up a hundred ugliness.

Then go for hairstyles and ** shaping, etc., to make yourself look more charming.

A woman's first impression often determines whether a guy sees her as a lover or a friend. After all, a girl's appearance is only one aspect of the investigation, and the most important thing is the feeling of the whole body. Things like the way you walk, the smell of your body, the way you wear your clothes, and the feeling of chatting will all be used as indicators for inspection.

When you give a guy a more feminine feeling, few men will not be tempted by you. That's why, some girls go out to eat and eat very little, but have a big appetite at home. pretended to be reserved, just to show her little woman's side.

Give boys a chance to showcase.

Boys have always had heroic dreams, and heroes saving beauty are a must-have part of the equation. At the right time, being able to show one's manly charm is one of the key points of men's affection for women. That's why a coquettish woman is the best.

On some dates or when you're alone with a guy, give him a chance to show you. For example, can you help me open the bottle cap? Can you help me lift this heavy load? If you encounter some irresistible external factors, you can also turn into a bird and hide behind the boy.

Giving boys more opportunities to show themselves is not about pretending to be a soft woman. It's about letting yourself understand men's hearts better and know when to stimulate men's desire to protect. A girl who can be protected by a man will have a little affection in a man's heart.

If a man doesn't even want to protect, then it's basically gone.

Make some small encounters.

Men are visual creatures and tend to be eye-catching in some situations. If you are able to create some small encounters, such as elevator meetings, shopping encounters, downstairs meetings, etc., this is the time to show your femininity and create appropriate physical contact. Let the man's heart move with you, and you can quietly retreat.

Be proactive, play together, and talk more.

Hello friends, tell us about my experience.

The first time I saw my boyfriend, I liked him very much, he was tall, white**, wearing a pair of glasses, and he looked sven. But he felt average about me at first, and the chat was tepid, but I knew that he didn't dislike me, because we had a lot of overlapping interests at the time, and we could be friends who could be confidants.

At first, I was disappointed, but I didn't want to give up on him so easily, so I insisted on chatting with him every day, and after continuing to chat with him for more than a week, suddenly one day, I didn't look for him, he took the initiative to send me a message at ten o'clock, and I knew that this little fish had taken the bait.

Because we live relatively close, I often ask him out for a walk after work, at that time, every night after taking a shower to make himself beautiful before going out, every day to change the pattern of wearing beautiful clothes, occasionally tugging at the corner of his clothes or something during a walk, if he is not disgusted, he can go further.

Sometimes I jokingly ask him if he likes me, he is also different from the average boy, he actually really analyzes this problem, and comes to the conclusion that there is a little good feeling, in fact, during that period of time to be quite tormented, there is a feeling of being a knife and I am a fish, in order to balance my heart, I secretly said a lot of bad things about him to my friends, but they are all some complaints.

After three months of walking three or four times a week, chatting and saying goodnight to each other every day, I was going to have a showdown on the hundredth day, and if I could make it, even if it didn't work, I think the time for the person who was slow to heat up was about the same, and then he was still ambiguous, so I wouldn't contact him.

After another week or so, I plan to tidy up, return all the books borrowed from him, and in the evening he came to our community to look for me, at that time I was frustrated that this might be the last time we met, so I said everything I could, and finally I was a little reluctant, and then he said, why don't you try it, I want to try it with you, and then I will hold hands! (We've known each other for three or four months and haven't held hands yet, because he said only couples can hold hands).

It's been together for more than five months now, and I get along quite well, occasionally noisy, occasionally sweet, in my edification of him, he has changed from a cold male god to a teaser, recently I always complain that I eat too much, I grow fat, and I don't pay attention to the image when I get it, small sample, I have already got my hands, do you think I still care?

Our little kittens.

Let it be, and it will come naturally!

At that time, I was very kind to her, invited her to dinner every day, invited her to the movies and shopping, and often bought fruit for her. Then she accepted me.

I used my wits to catch up with the person I liked, touched her heart with my sincerity, and made him recognize me with my actions.

In fact, if you can determine the type of girl, everything is much easier. To judge the classification of girls, one core psychological skill is used: cold reading.

It is a way to get to know others in a short period of time and thus communicate better. Cold reading is divided into four steps: 1 Observe cold reading, 2. Listen to each other, 3. Create intersections.

How to chase girlsSometimes in the relationship between men and women, I want to pursue the girl in my mind? What type of girl is the first thing to look at? Or is it to see what the girl likes and say something she likes, so that you can see it?

How to chase? Who likes Zhihu? If you really like him, go straight to him and confess it. Don't miss out on the people you like.

As the old saying goes; Men chase women's compartment mountains, and women chase men's compartment yarns. The two of you have a play, if you like it, you have to say it out loud, there's nothing to be embarrassed about, it's a lifetime to miss it.

You like him, but you're a girl. Your current situation is that if you confess to him, if he rejects you, you will probably lose face. Let me teach you two ways to do it, use four or two to dial a thousand catties, not only to lose face but also to achieve your goal, and to know thoroughly whether he likes you in his heart or not?

The first way is to test his reaction and see that his heart can't make emotional waves.

You text him and tell him, "Your parents or relatives are going to introduce you to someone." You have no feelings for others, and you don't like them, and you are urging marriage at home. Let's just say that you are very entangled and depressed at this time, and tell him that we have been classmates for many years, and tell him what is on your mind, ask him to share your worries and ideas, and see what he says when he replies to your text messages."

The second method is to attack the heart tactics and take him down directly.

Text him directly and ask if he likes anyone else right now, if he tells you he doesn't like anyone else. Then you go straight to the Dharma and ask him directly, "Old classmate, I joked with you, how do you feel if we are together?" Or rather, whether it is appropriate or not".

Throw all the questions at him and see how he reacts back to your text messages. If he likes you, his heart will naturally stir, and I dare to conclude that he will give you a satisfactory answer.

Girls like or chase boys, you can use some love skills. In this way, it is neither irrational nor face-saving. And to achieve their own goals, to listen to the other party's psychological reaction, why not? Come on! I wish you success!

Pursuing a person you like, simply put, is to chat with him when you are usually fine, talk about your own thoughts, the most important thing is to see what the other party likes, for example, if the other party likes to play basketball, talk to him about the star.

I hope it can help you, and you can ask any questions here.

If you really like someone, be brave enough to tell them.

Even if it fails, at least I tried. Whose youth is not hot-blooded!

Chasing a boy is the first thing to understand him.

If you want to chase a boy, you can silently understand the boy through various angles, understand his personality, and see if his three views are compatible with you.

It is necessary to confirm that the boy is not disgusted with the girl, and he is not required to have a good impression of the girl, if the boy has a good impression of the girl, there is no need to chase it, as long as he shows a little affection.

If the first two steps are fine, then the possibility increases, and you can try to understand the guy's attitude towards relationships and what type of girl he likes.

If the girl is not the type of guy likes, try to change the guy and let him know that the girl is also a good type.

Or change yourself and become what you like and what you want to be.

If that's all right, you can ask the guys out to the movies, read books in the library, and go out for a walk on the weekends.

Then express yourself at an opportune time, so that the success rate will be high.