Who is the person who is famous for his kindness now?

I believe that everyone has experienced or is experiencing such a thing, that is, when you are kind to others at the beginning, others will be grateful to you. After a long time, the other party will take it for granted.

If you take back your good that day, the other person will even hold a grudge against you!

This is human nature, if you are good enough to be unreserved, the other party will dare to be bad and unscrupulous.

May our kindness be a little sharp.

Some people believe that the best quality of a person is kindness, but the more kind you are, the more likely you are to be hurt by bad people.

It's not the fault of kindness, it's the lack of skills to protect yourself. Because, your kindness, will be regarded as cowardice. Often hurt just because you're too good.

Therefore, we must learn to protect ourselves, which is the premise of kindness.

Otherwise, don't be kind to people. Everything is done in moderation, and if kindness is excessive, there is a lack of heart; Humility is too much, and it becomes weakness.

Although it is not wrong for people to maintain a good heart, it is not good for everyone, and there is no bottom line. If you don't have a bottom line, they don't have principles, and when goodness loses its principles, then it will backfire and promote the breeding of evil. As I used the analogy above, if you meet a person who is hungry and cold, and you give him a bowl of rice because of kindness, it solves his big problem, and he will be grateful.

However, human nature has a greedy side, and if you continue to give him rice, he will take it for granted. One bowl of rice is not enough, two bowls of rice are not enough, and three bowls and four bowls all feel that you have only given a drop in the ocean. Sometimes, bottomless kindness will only fuel the arrogance of the wicked; Sometimes, being too merciful will only attract ridicule and resentment from others.

For the rest of your life, be kind and helpful.

We can be generous, but not let the other party gain an inch!

Soft-heartedness without boundaries will only make the other party gain an inch! Unprincipled kindness will only make the other person do whatever he wants.

So you can't be too ruthless with people, the more you give in, the more others have to make inches, the more soft-hearted you are, the more others get worse. Take your efforts for granted, and take your grievances as willingness. Therefore, kindness must be principled, and generosity must have a bottom line.

Indiscriminately, only know how to be good to others, then you will only live up to your own kindness. You can be kind, but don't let your guard down on the world, because some people don't know how to be grateful at all. And at this time, your kindness needs the edge of reason!

Kindness and compassion are both good things, but they require the edge of wisdom. People's hearts are complicated, the world is difficult and dangerous, and ignorant and irrational kindness will only make insatiable people gain an inch, and it will also allow people with ulterior motives to take advantage of it, and ultimately hurt themselves. You must know that in this world, if you are so good that you have no reservations, the other party will dare to be so bad that you are unscrupulous.

Don't give your kindness to those who are not grateful.

In short, we must be kind, but not weak.

We must be generous, but we must be principled, and this is responsible for ourselves.

I also hope that those kind people who read this article must learn to make their kindness a little sharp!