What to do when you graduate and are afraid to look for a job but don t want to stay at home

What is there to be afraid of?

You should be grateful to those who deny your design, because they are the ones who tell you that your design is still flawed.

You can try to do better and leave others with nothing to say.

I also studied design, and I used to be like you.

Running around like a headless fly, I was apprenticed to a small shop.

You can learn from the experience of life, you are not afraid of hardship, and you have to learn technology at the same time.

I worked as an apprentice for a year, and now I'm at home when someone else's boss comes to my home and asks me to help him with his design.

So, when you go out, don't be afraid to look for a job, other people's bosses don't want your work, you should thank people.

Don't think that working in a small store is faceless or that the salary is very low.

If you think that you are out to learn something, and work hard, you should still be in school.

That way you won't be afraid.

Life is an accident.

Death is a necessity! The process of being alive.

That's life! Don't ask yourself to make every step you take is right.

I only ask myself to be unapologetic every step I take.

Life is enough! Find the value of your existence while you are alive! Make your life a little fuller!

Since you have come to this world once, you can live with him once! To live, you must have your own "goals" and "dreams", and paint a few colors on your life! If you can't find the value of your own existence.

Just think about it. Myself.

Give yourself an account.

To parents. Friend.

The one I love the most in my heart is explained to her! Then enjoy the beauty of the sunset.

Smirk. Draw a perfect picture of your life...

The meaning of being alive is to find the meaning of being alive:

1) Everyone has their own meaning in life. Man, live for yourself. Meaning is working towards one's own goals.

Success takes sweat. Success, failure, laughter, crying, every link to the fullest, enjoy. On the contrary, if a person does not have ideals, what is done is to do it for others to see, what can he experience, people can not even experience these by themselves, enjoy, 2) look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you walked, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you is actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, Why don't you be happy every day".

3) Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. In a word:

Actually, I think your major is very good! Computer design is all the rage these days, especially when it comes to advertising! If you feel that your own professional is excellent, you can apply for some private companies, they do not require a high diploma, as long as you have a good design, can innovate, and bring profit to the company, they will reuse you!

Also, I think that there are too many undergraduate graduates and master's graduates to count, if you want to get yourself on the ground, then start from the grassroots level, the current society, pay attention to experience, practical ability to be strong.

Good luck.

Khan, not everyone has opportunities, if you want to try your luck, you have to create opportunities yourself, and passivity is permanent and you can't get out of the same place.

I also studied computer science, and I am now in the online sales industry. What you didn't learn in school, find it yourself.

What kind of work do you want to do, only by finding what you want to do, can you have enough security and confidence. Don't think about your major or something, there are too few things you learn in school, and you need to learn in society.

The longer I idle, the more I dare not go out. Let's take the first step, leave home, find a city you want to go to or a city with familiar friends, you may not find a satisfactory job immediately, it doesn't matter, the important thing is not to starve to death, find a job first, so that you can settle down, and then slowly look at the opportunity to jump to a better job. Of course, there must be a lot of hardship waiting for you, but if you are afraid of hardship, you can't do anything.

If you are not the second generation of rich, learn to be strong, everyone has come this way, believe in yourself, you will definitely do it!

Gotta try, you know? I've been idle for about 5 years, and now I've been working for 6 years, and people always have to go out! Passive avoidance is useless, it must always be faced. No matter how much money you do first, you can also go to the neighborhood committee to find someone to help!

Nowadays, society is changing too fast, don't choose a job based on your interests and hobbies (the same is true for college applications). I can say for sure that you will change industries after 2 years of hobbies. Five years of work experience after graduating from college is not called work experience at all.

The reason why college students are particularly confused and anxious in the three years after graduation is that they have been foreshadowed since you filled in the university application, and they are limited by test-oriented education and traditional thinking. Besides, what career planning, personality tests, and personal abilities are farting.

If you want to get a high salary, you can go to the first-tier cities of Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, Hangzhou, Suzhou, you can earn more and use more, and you can have more leftovers. If you have a master's degree in an industry outside the system in a small third-tier city, you will be 2-3 thousand more than the average salary of 3,000, and the salary in a big city will be at least 1-2 times.

Downplay the industry and position, find a job first, and become an incumbent. Or after the interview, the first offer is in hand, remember to continue to submit your resume for the interview. The salary depends on the negotiation, and you use your first offer to negotiate the salary of the second offer.

Summary. Hello dear, I've seen your question here. I probably see what you mean, and here are my analysis and suggestions regarding the questions you raised.

FYI I think a person who says he doesn't want to go to work, there must be some special reason, if you think he doesn't go to work, there is something hidden, I feel that you communicate with him, ask him what the reason is, this is the fundamental solution to the problem. Hope mine can help you

What if she doesn't want to go to work after graduation?

Hello dear, I've seen your question here. I probably see what you mean, and here are my analysis and suggestions regarding the questions you raised. FYI I think a person who says he doesn't want to go to work, there must be some special reason, if you think he doesn't go to work, there is something hidden, I feel that you communicate with him, ask him what the reason is, this is the fundamental solution to the problem.

Hope mine can help you

She said she didn't like that major.

She studied medicine and had no other way to go.

Then you can ask him, since you don't like this major, why did you apply for this major in the first place, you can also discuss with him to see if you can change careers, now study another college or something, see if you can do some other work, because now many people who have not graduated from college can also find a good job, but the salary may not be so high, and then the work is not so easy, you can also talk to him about it, and see what choice he will make in the end.

She honestly didn't want to communicate with me, and she was tired of talking.

They all avoided me and wouldn't let me in.

Then I think if he really doesn't want to work and doesn't want to talk about it, then you also have to consider that he doesn't work, and his living expenses are all ready for you to support?

I feel that's what it means, say it's uncomfortable today, say it's uncomfortable tomorrow.

Then you just tell him directly that your salary can't support two people, and let him think about it himself, I think this topic should be explained first.

It's useless to say it.

Whether it's useful or not, you should first tell him the ugly things in front of you, and don't always quarrel because of such things.

My child graduated from college and didn't want to go out to find a job, so he stayed at home all day, what should I do with him.

This happens not only to children, but also to adult tremors. First of all, you should build trust and understanding with your child and go deep into why he doesn't want to go out and look for a job** to see if he has some specific reasons that cause him to lose motivation, such as if he does not adapt to the outside environment, or if he is under pressure from the outside world, etc. In addition, you can help him find some jobs that will allow him to achieve his goals, and give him appropriate financial support so that he does not lose motivation due to lack of money.

Finally, you can encourage him to go out to parties and experience new things, which can help him change his existing beliefs, boost his self-confidence, and give him the courage to get what he wants.