After a woman divorces, what are the best things not to do, which will ruin the rest of her life?

Don't feel inferior because of divorce, look down on yourself, don't compromise, work hard to improve yourself to find your own true happiness, and don't lower the standard of mate selection.

The first thing is to never find another half, work hard and have your own career, so that you can make your life more exciting, and the second thing is to never love anyone again, learn to love yourself, otherwise the rest of your life will be ruined.

1. Since then, you have been estranged from your children, and you should keep close contact with your children even if you are divorced. 2. I am afraid that I will be lonely and old in the second half of my life, so I will find someone to marry; 3. When you get divorced, you want to get rid of it as soon as possible and leave the house, and the money doesn't offend you, and you get what you deserve, so that you don't have to be so nervous in the second half of your life; 4. Don't live in a mess, have a plan for your future.

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。A woman will not regret the happiness she lives after divorce. If there is an irreconcilable conflict between two people in their marriage, then the woman will not regret the divorce, even if she is very resolute.

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。A woman will not regret the happiness she lives after divorce. If there is an irreconcilable conflict between two people in their marriage, then the woman will not regret the divorce, even if she is very resolute.

If the man makes a very big mistake in the marriage, and he can't forgive, then the woman will not regret <>the divorce

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After the separation of men and women, girls have a better home, a better way to retreat, at this time the divorce is just to find a better life for themselves, so at this time the divorce will not be regretted, since the divorce is proposed, then there must be a better way to retreat before the divorce <>

The first thing is always to confide in others about the misfortune of their marriage. The second thing is that I am immersed in the past and cannot come out, and I am unwilling to start a new life. The third piece is still not self-reliant, thinking about relying on men. Fourth, if you don't make money, you won't be financially independent.

1 In life, the other party should be more understanding 2 Don't always feel that it's not easy for the other party, and it's not easy for the other party 3 Don't quarrel often, calm down and think about it 4 Don't mention divorce with the other party as soon as there is a conflict, this time everything is the most taboo, if it happens more often, the last two people will only break up.

Don't keep falling, you have to cheer up and start over, and you have to work hard to dress yourself up, make your image better, set a goal for yourself, work hard, cultivate your multi-faceted abilities, and make yourself stronger.

Women must not fall after divorce, and do not disregard the image, do not have no pursuit, you do not rely on others, you must cultivate your own ability.

First of all, don't be with people who have no development prospects, and keep a safe distance from the opposite sex, and don't put your value very low, and you must have your own life.

Women with a strong sense of responsibility will live well after divorce, because they are responsible for their families, responsible for their children, and more importantly, they are responsible for their own lives.

On the other hand, a woman who divorces because of impulse, she will let herself follow the so-called "feeling" and "fate" to make choices, in fact, this is irresponsible to herself, and divorce without thinking clearly about the consequences, which is equivalent to putting her unprepared self in the social jungle, and there will be no good results.

So how can a woman move towards happiness after divorce?

1.Before the divorce, it is necessary to be fully mentally prepared.

In our current social environment, for those who plan to divorce, in addition to the pressure brought by the divorce itself, they also have to bear the pressure from the environment.

Even if you are fully prepared for divorce, when the marriage relationship is really ended, when you lose the familiar life of the past, lose a certain state in the past, even if it is a painful state, it will arouse strong anxiety and fear in your heart, not to mention facing child support, financial pressure, etc.

Therefore, preparing for divorce is an important step in finding happiness again. After the divorce, practical issues such as child support, residence, and economic income must be considered clearly, and marriage cannot be confused, and divorce should of course be clear.

2.After getting divorced, you have to re-establish your own life circle.

Before the divorce, many women only had husbands, children, and even mothers-in-law in their lives. Girlfriends and friends rarely get in touch. After a divorce, you will need a lot of emotional appeal and emotional support.

At this time, you need to make more friends, but these friends must not bring you negative energy, or friends who have also experienced divorce, because the content of the conversation will always stay in too many negative emotions, and communicate more with friends about life outside of marriage. Don't confide too much about your marriage to your ex-husband to people you don't know.

3.Reflect on yourself and change yourself.

Any failed marriage is caused by both husband and wife, and each of the husband and wife has shortcomings and problems in this failed marriage, but who is more responsible. A divorced woman should reflect on why this marriage failed, her own mistakes, her own shortcomings and shortcomings.

If the last marriage was divorced because of personality discord, you have to reflect on whether you got married after a thorough understanding of your ex-husband when you were in love, and whether your decision to agree to marry your ex-husband at that time was too hasty; If the divorce is caused by a bad relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, you must reflect on whether you have achieved the filial piety that a daughter-in-law should do, and whether you have respected your mother-in-law;

If the divorce was caused by your betrayal of your relationship, you need to reflect on your betrayal. Reflect on yourself so that you can avoid these problems and mistakes again in your next marriage and live a happy married life.

No, although divorce is related to the children, but it is the happiness of their own life, and they will not choose an empty shell marriage for the children, which is not good for the physical and mental health of the children.

Getting married and having children is not impulsive, and getting along with each other in life is not a momentary confusion! From meeting and following each other to seeing each other and hating each other now, it will not be a whim, there are always various reasons!

Life is like a flower, what kind of seed bears what kind of flower, but some are delicate and some are withered. Peonies can never produce roses! Because the cost is too great!

What you have to think about now is the problem between the two of you, it won't change much, but it's up to you whether you can tolerate it or not!

Many people will always talk about children, and an unhappy life is the real misfortune for children, and not all children of single parents are unlucky! Maybe children can't understand it now, but they will always grow up, they will always know life, and they will always have their own thinking! The grievances of the husband and wife, the husband and wife solve it themselves, if they must be imposed on the child, whether they are separated or not, the child is a sorrow, because misfortune is an infectious disease, infecting the people around them who care about themselves!

Let's break down the situation in detail:

First, since you already have children, it means that your relationship foundation was still very good. If you can resolve the conflict reasonably, and the parents love their children, then I suggest that you relax your divorce thoughts before thinking about it. Giving a child a healthy and harmonious family is very beneficial to his growth.

Second, if you are meeting an irresponsible husband, then it is advisable to take the children to divorce decisively. Although it is not easy to raise children, it is a waste of time and life to continue to hesitate.

Third, if neither of the above two is the case. So I suggest that before the divorce, think clearly, whether the children can be properly settled, and the life after the divorce will definitely be better than before the divorce? If you can't be sure, I think it's better to cherish the present moment and live the present life seriously!

People generally believe that women can be happy only if they have a good marriage and family, and before the divorce, I also thought so, and it is difficult for me to imagine how a person should be happy. Before the divorce, I was a person who was very afraid of loneliness and needed companionship, and I was very dependent on my ex-husband, and my family felt that I couldn't do without him for the rest of my life, and felt that I should be patient and accommodating to live on the place, but I still resolutely divorced. I think if I have to endure and accommodate for the rest of my life, then I will not have much happiness in the future, why not just divorce and maybe have more possibilities for happiness?

I have been living alone for more than half a year since the divorce, and I am still unemployed for half a year, I came to the field alone with my savings, rented a house alone, moved alone, and ate and slept alone every day. It turns out that a clansman does not feel lonely, but is very comfortable, he can do whatever he wants, no one will come to point fingers, no one will judge the footprints, and there is no need to argue with people for any trivial things, it is so cool to be alone. However, the key to maintaining a good attitude is that you can continue to grow and make your heart stronger and stronger.

Now I am a part-time graduate student and spend most of my time in school, with my fellow students. Although I am more than 5 years apart from them, we get along as well as our peers. During that time, I was in the process of getting divorced, and they all knew that although they didn't even know anything about love, their company and listening also gave me a lot of support and happiness.