Is career or relationship important for women?

If you have the ability, you will pay attention to your career, and if you don't have the strength, you can invest more feelings, and women can conquer men and the world.

Economic strength determines the superstructure.

Personally, I think that a woman is a woman after all, and the traditional concept of the need to teach her husband and children at home, filial piety to her in-laws and parents, in the face of career and emotion, it is recommended to put feelings first, as the saying goes, "it is better to marry well than to do well", and it is really important to find a good husband.

All important. Time period:

Before the age of 20, feelings.

30-40 Career is more, emotional annoyance.

50 careers.

After 55-60, feelings and family are important.

For a modern person, career and relationship can be said to be very important. A woman has her own career, she will live with dignity, status, and vitality, and while showing her personal charm, independence can also bring you more opportunities to choose love. It can be said that as long as you have the ability to do it, don't make yourself a vassal of men, and the walking dead have no oasis of freedom that should belong to you.

If a man makes you give up your career in the name of love, you can imagine how selfish this man is. Think about it, a girlfriend who just wants to turn his girlfriend into his daily necessities without taking into account her feelings, can this be said to be a girlfriend who really loves him? If you give up and want to develop again, it can be said that it is almost impossible to work hard.

So, if you really don't want to give up your career, try to win the other person's support. Unless you are willing to give up your career for love. Otherwise, you can kick the ball to him and let him decide:

If you choose me, then please let me continue my career.

Career is a girl's confidence, career will not abandon you, you can always do what you really want to do, career is also a kind of life practice, you can be a good mother, but also as a good independent woman.

So how important is a career for women? Why do women have a career? I think there are a few reasons for this:

1. Career makes you more independent. Chinese women have a very strong desire for independence. They understand that economic independence is the foundation of all independence.

The beginning of marriage is an important turning point in life, and our personal time and energy are limited, it is difficult for us to take care of all aspects of life, so we need to weigh and make choices in career and family, and choices often determine the direction of our lives. Life is like a scientific experiment, and it requires constant trial and error to adjust its direction.

Second, career makes women more confident and have a status in the family. Having a baby is a woman's life choice, and everyone will have different choices at different ages, choose what you can bear, and bear what you choose.

If women do not have an independent career, when there is a conflict, they will not be able to create direct economic value, and they will naturally have less right to speak, and they will not have the "status" of them, which is naturally the free labor force in the family, their needs will not be seen, and their interests will naturally not be guaranteed in the slightest. Therefore, career is the guarantee of women's own lives, and it is also to make their lives more confident.

3. Career makes women stronger and fearless. For women, the best backer is never a good family background, rich or powerful, let alone finding a good husband, so that they can have no worries about food and clothing for the rest of their lives.

A woman's best backing is herself, and it is eternal, and it will never collapse. If your family and marriage are unhappy, at least you have a job that will keep you in touch with society and free you from the trivialities of everyday life. At the same time, career is not the standard for men, it is actually the standard for women, in today's environment, career is not only important for women, but also for men.

Fourth, career can allow women to meet a better self and get a beautiful love. First of all, a girl who insists on her career may be able to get true love to a certain extent. Many couples are often in the process of pursuing their careers, and they will be tempted to meet someone who has similar experiences.

Because the reason why they can interact with each other and have deep feelings is precisely because they have similar attitudes towards each other in their careers, and they can help each other in their careers, and their feelings for each other will become deeper and deeper in the process.