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One: I can only refute the arguments of the opposing side, and I don't know if I can help you.
As follows: 1. Rebuttal: External opportunities are uncertain factors and cannot be encountered by everyone.
There is only opportunity without ability, and no matter how good the opportunity is, it is a waste, so ability is the foundation.
2. Explain your advantages.
What society needs is capable people, not fishers in troubled waters who rely on the opportunities provided by society.
Capable people don't need to wait for external opportunities, but create them themselves.
In this way, the reason why you are being led by the other party is because you care too much about the other person's point of view.
When debating, you need to grasp the other party's point of view and refute it, but more importantly, your own point of view. After all, your goal is not to convince others that the other person is wrong, but to convince others that you are right. You can admit that there is an opportunity, but is it an external opportunity?
What is needed is to create opportunities on your own, not just wait.
The technique of debating is that no matter how the other person leads in the other direction, you have to go over the other person's bitter questions in a way to illustrate your strengths.
There are two key points that you have to grasp in this debate. First of all, you have to disassemble the debate.
1. "Self" and "Outside", Self and Outside.
2. "Ability" and "opportunity", opportunity can only play a role under the condition of ability, so ability is the foundation and condition. "Opportunity is for those who are prepared" can be seen from the famous quote in the second half of the most critical time.
Then, most importantly, the combination of the problem.
own capabilities" and "external opportunities".
You should focus on the first half of the debate, "The Key to Young Talents."
What is a real success, obviously not famous or rich, capable is called a talent. Then the key to success cannot be external opportunities, obviously "success" = "ability".
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"Guiguzi" Essentials of Strategy 4: Careful planning is the foundation of success.
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A well-mannered, talented, adventurous, sincere and friendly little boy has conquered hundreds of millions of readers around the world with his legendary experience. Do you know who he is? He is Harry Potter, the protagonist of the "Harry Potter series**" written by British female writer J.K. Rowling.
Do you want to know how J.K. Rowling did this ***?
Like other writers, the young Rowling was an avid writer and a fantastical English teacher. The happy family is the envy of the family, and the satisfying job is enough to satisfy Rowling. Unexpectedly, the sweet family, happy marriage and ideal job turned into yesterday's clouds in an instant.
With her husband gone, no job, no permanent home, no money, and a daughter waiting to be fed, Rowling suddenly became destitute. However, the failure of family and career did not discourage Rowling from writing, in her own words: "Maybe it's to fulfill a dream for years, maybe it's to drive away the unhappiness in my heart, or maybe it's to make it up every night."
The story is told to my daughter. She writes all day long, and sometimes she even stays in a café for a day to save money and electricity. And so, the first Harry Potter book was born.
However, when Rowling recommended the book to the publisher, she was rejected again and again, and no one was interested in this fairy tale book for children. But Rowling was not discouraged until the first Harry Potter book was published by British Scholars Press, which created a publishing miracle, being translated into 35 languages and distributed in 115 countries and regions, causing a sensation around the world. Rowling succeeded, but who knows how much hard work and hardship is behind this success.
The easiest things in the world are often the hardest things to do, and the hardest things are also the easiest things to do. It's easy because anyone can do it if they are willing to do it; It's hard because only a very small number of people can really do it and persevere. Halfway through the process often say "that's enough", "it's not worth it", and "things can go bad".
And those who can persevere will say "do your best", "do your best", and "hold on a little longer". The story of the tortoise-hare race also tells us that the reason why the winner of the race is a clumsy tortoise instead of a dexterous hare is inseparable from the rabbit's lack of perseverance in the competition. Great success depends not on strength but on resilience, and competition is often a competition for staying power.
Those who have perseverance are often the ones who laugh last and laugh the best.
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"Guiguzi" Essentials of Strategy 4: Careful planning is the foundation of success.
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Success = Foundation + Opportunity.
If you have a good foundation but have never had the opportunity, you may not be able to get promoted and move forward smoothly in your career.
If you have a lot of opportunities, but you don't have a little foundation, or you have a little bit of foundation, then even if you are given a heavy responsibility by the leader, but you are not competent, you will lose your current position or position.
Therefore, in order to succeed, both the foundation and the opportunity are important.
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To be honest, I feel that staying in a hotel is more important. Because to be honest, you can't live all year round, it's a hotel, and it's really not the more expensive the better.
I think family affection is a little more important, and if you love it, it will eventually turn into family affection.
No matter how great love is over the age of its prime, it will seem bland, just like getting married and having children, then it is not only love but also family affection, so from a long-term perspective, the need for material is always in a very important position, love is also to have a career to protect, at least people always have material enjoyment and then spiritual enjoyment, I say that career is better than love.
It depends on how you look at your own values.
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