Where does the saying that a poor man and a rich woman come from?

It is an ancient folk saying, and there is no source.

The true meaning of raising a poor child and a rich daughter is not to be too indulgent when raising a son, and not to be too stingy when raising a daughter.

has always been rich and ladylike, and since ancient times, he has been a great man. The rich daughter is not greedy for small profits, has an extraordinary temperament, and the tempering of life makes the poor son stronger-willed. Boys will go into society in the future and assume social and family responsibilities, so they should be poor to inspire their aspirations.

Otherwise, he will be a big man, and he will tease how to serve his parents and raise his wife and children. Wealthy girls will be taken in and out of various occasions since childhood, increasing their ability to read the world, and when they are as old as flowers, and then difficult to grow up in the world, they will not be easily confused by all kinds of glitz and vanity.

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A girl who has never seen the big world is likely to be defeated by rhetoric under the sugar-coated cannonballs of the gentlemen. The rich girl is knowledgeable, independent, assertive, wise, and knows very well what she really pursues. Rich adopted daughters are actually a kind of educational investment, educational abundance.

Raising a man in poverty is a kind of setback, and men should be self-reliant, and boys who have not experienced failure and setbacks will not grow up.

Some people say that boys will struggle in the future, and they must let him know that money is not easy to come by. A girl is going to get married, and she must cultivate her vision of discerning things, so as not to be coaxed away by a piece of cake in the future. This is a feudal erroneous view of gender, which is not suitable for the development trend of the new era, and must be taken as a warning.

When I feel that my child is easily satisfied, and sometimes I don't have lofty ideals and goals, then I think that my child must be rich. The reason why girls should be rich.

1. Cultivate the character of self-esteem and self-love Girls do not have an independent economy, they want to strive for their own economic independence, only when they are financially independent, they will become more self-loving, the most important thing for girls is to learn self-esteem and self-love, but if the girl is not financially independent, it is easy to give up herself for something, and even pay a relatively large price.

Second, do not easily ask boys for help When people are helpless, they will want to ask others for help, girls will encounter a lot of difficulties and are not envious, sometimes they can't solve it themselves, they have to find someone to help, it may be those rich rich children, but rich people are not all well-wishers, if some people are malicious, they will lie to her when they see a good-looking girl, if the girl is rich, the difficulties will be solved with money, instead of wanting to ask for help from others at the first time.

Third, it is not easy to rely on people Girls who are not financially independent often have a feeling of envy for rich people, hoping that they will one day be like others, buy whatever they want, so when they meet rich men, they will have a feeling of dependence, or that sentence, rich boys are far more than women, children will play a lot, girls don't know when they are deceived, and they can't see what tricks boys will play.

Fourth, become more confident Girls are rich like having a pair of classic high heels, they will become very confident when they wear them, and the self-confidence they have developed since childhood is shown in front of men, which makes men timid, not cringe, boys will be in awe of confident women in the face of confident women, and confident women have always had the ability to think, and will not lose their wisdom at some point because of low self-esteem.

A digression.

It is precisely because of this point of view that the "rich" women will no longer look down on these "poor" men when they grow up, sad!!

Whose fault is it?

1；Poor men are.

copy because the boy was a little poor when he was a child, and when he grew up, he knew how to struggle, and he knew that it was difficult

Laborious. 2；If you are a rich daughter, after you grow up, the girl will not be attracted by the outside world, and she will not go down the wrong path, otherwise she will think about those easy paths to make money.

3；As for the **, it's really not clear, it seems that the folk have been saying this.

Who knows. I think the boy will be in charge of the house in the future, and he will have to develop the ability to endure hardships and stand hard work. If you are too pampered, it is not good for growth. And the girl will marry sooner or later, and wealth can make her requirements for the other half increase (the psychology of the elderly). Your own understanding, seek adoption.

This has been passed down from generation to generation, not from anywhere. This rises to the level of philosophy, and the truth is gained in practice. The specific reason for this is that China still basically relies on men to bear most of the responsibility of supporting the family, so poor support can hone male compatriots, so that they can have better planning and arrangement for life, as well as develop the correct three views.

The burden on the shoulders of girls is generally lighter, but also because of the tradition of many years of dominance and mandom, women have a higher pursuit of life since childhood, which will make the future family more satisfying and life more quality. Pure handmade, hope to adopt.

As the saying goes, the experience of ordinary people in the 21st century.

If the boy wants to make him poor when he is young, he will have ambition, he will understand the truth early, he will not be the second ancestor, and cultivate his own sense of entrepreneurship and struggle.

Girls want to be rich, which means that they can be rich materially (the premise is, of course, that the family has the conditions to provide it, and you can't always give her the floor), and they must broaden their horizons, so that they will not learn badly for a little thing or a little money in the future.

The fact is that as the saying goes, "the poor raise their children, the rich raise their daughters" is this truth! That is to say, to make the son feel poor, to make the son feel pressured, then the son will have the courage and thought of a man, dare to create, dare to do things, if you let the son know that he is very rich from an early age, he will not know how to work hard since he was a child, and you will have nothing to do when you grow up, on the contrary, raising a daughter is rich and raising a rich way to give her a rich from an early age, and when the daughter grows up, she will not lose her life for some selfish interests, or be committed, and she will not do something despicable!

If you raise a girl poorly, a mobile phone can abduct her, or find a poor man and get married. You have to figure out that women don't need to be too good at earning, and women who are too good at making money can only find poor and poor men to match.

Raising a boy rich will only make the boy feel that money comes easily, spend money lavishly, and gnaw at his parents when he becomes an adult, do you think this is good?

As the saying goes, raising a boy is like raising a dog, and raising a girl is like raising a princess, which is very reasonable. As the old saying goes, hahaha.

Give you the most direct answer.

Man: It doesn't matter what happens in your home, you have to.

You have to live on your own, so let him.

Rong learns to endure hardships and learn to be self-reliant.

Woman, if you mix well, then it doesn't matter, if you don't mix well, marry yourself, no one will say anything about you, and if a man is not good, then I don't need to say more.