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Anonymous users2024-02-06Regardless of any conflicts between family members, it is recommended not to find a way to retaliate, but to communicate more to resolve misunderstandings between the two parties. Family members should live in harmony, if there is indeed an unacceptable and intolerable situation, they can choose to live separately from their mother-in-law if they can't live together, and if they can't do it, then they can also choose to divorce, but they can't retaliate against others.
[Legal basis].
Article 1043 of the Civil Code [Advocacy Provisions on Marriage and Family] Families shall establish a good family style, promote family virtues, and attach importance to the construction of family civilization.
Husbands and wives should be faithful, respectful and caring for each other; Family members shall respect the elderly, love the young, help each other, and maintain equal, harmonious, and civilized marriage and family relations.
Article 1076: [Divorce by Mutual Consent]Where both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration office.
The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.
Article 1077: [Cooling-off Period for Divorce]Within 30 days from the date on which the marriage registration authority receives the application for divorce registration, if either party is unwilling to divorce, he or she may withdraw the application for divorce registration from the marriage registration authority.
Within 30 days after the expiration of the period provided for in the preceding paragraph, both parties shall apply in person to the marriage registration authority for the issuance of a divorce certificate; If the application is not made, it shall be deemed that the application for divorce registration has been withdrawn. Article 1078: [Divorce Registration] Where the marriage registration authorities ascertain that the parties have indeed divorced voluntarily and have reached a consensus through consultation on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling, they are to register and issue a divorce certificate.
Article 1079:[Divorce by Litigation]Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organizations may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.
People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.
In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:
1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;
2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;
3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;
4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;
5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.
Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.
Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05Live your life well, endure everything, never bow your head at any time, boil up, they will always have a day of old age, a day of death, indifference, treat them as air, consume them.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04Hehe, how can you have this kind of thought? Mother-in-law no matter what, that is also an elder, that is also your husband's mother, you do this, don't say anything else, how can you be embarrassed by your husband's affection?
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Anonymous users2024-02-03If you don't know the suffering of others, don't persuade others to be kind.
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Anonymous users2024-02-02Don't make the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the world more difficult to handle.
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Anonymous users2024-02-01It's not fun to break the law, there's always a kind of itchy rush through the boots. In fact, if the evil mother-in-law loves his son the most, you can take him to live separately from the mother-in-law, so that she can't see her son all the time, won't she be angry if she loses her son?
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Anonymous users2024-01-31diet, for example, she doesn't eat spicy,
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Anonymous users2024-01-30The most ruthless revenge against your in-laws is to try to live a good life for you and your husband, and learn to get along with your father-in-law.
It's not a good thing for people to be too angry when they're old, and there are a lot of things that you can't get used to in the world, and you really can't compete. Especially when treating family members, you shouldn't compete because you can't get used to it, otherwise you will only ask for your own hardship. It is not only young people who leave their good temper to outsiders and their family members, but many elderly people also make such mistakes.
When people are at a low point, when they are in adversity, they are accustomed to thinking of retribution and revenge, and feel that they must have made some big mistake in the past, which caused the evil consequences of today. Don't argue with your mother-in-law, right and wrong have cause and effect.
Indifference relatively
The so-called indifference is to try not to confront your mother-in-law head-on, not to accuse your mother-in-law of any behavior, no matter what your mother-in-law does. If you want to ease the relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, there are some things that still need to be done. If we want to resolve the contradiction after the contradiction occurs, we must talk about things, and do not shake out all the old sesame seeds and rotten grains, because this will only make the contradiction bigger and bigger.
Therefore, after the incident happens, you must not be unforgiving, and stop in moderation, so as to save face for the other party and not be too embarrassed. No one wants to quarrel, and when you encounter something like this, you have to reflect, learn to be tolerant and understanding, or at least learn to be patient. It is normal for different people to have different perspectives and ways of behaving, and learn to think from the other person's point of view.
This will reduce a lot of conflicts, and if you can learn to be tolerant, then the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will get along.
Friend: There is a natural lack of innate closeness between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so mother-in-law and daughter-in-law still need to be a little polite. To maintain a good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is necessary to be both like mother and daughter, and the daughter-in-law should treat her mother-in-law as well as a filial mother, but she should not be as open-mouthed to her mother-in-law as she is to her mother; The mother-in-law should feel as sorry for her daughter-in-law as she does for her daughter, and she cannot be as careless and reprimanded as she is for her daughter. >>>More
Your classmate's vicious mother-in-law is very vicious, how can the daughter-in-law give birth to a child and the mother-in-law doesn't care, "I don't take care of the caesarean section for a day, I haven't made a meal, I haven't paid a penny", and she pretended to be sick and hospitalized, "It's really vicious", you don't consider the safety of your daughter-in-law and you should also care about your grandchildren, it seems that your classmate is really pitiful, and her mother-in-law is really too bad, people do things, the sky is watching, you watch, the old woman can't die well! As you said, "I don't think such a vicious mother-in-law will end well." It's really sad that your classmate married into this family, and he chose the wrong wave! >>>More
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If you don't have money, you go out to work, or you have to look at your mother-in-law's face! Can't do it! The mother-in-law treats the children with sincerity and sincerity, and it will not be bad, although I don't like them to bring, but women must have their own circle, and no matter how humble the salary is, it is better than nothing!
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