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Anonymous users2024-02-06When you love someone, don't talk about separation easily.
Although you may not think so.
But yours he will misunderstand.
If you don't have an opportunity to communicate, such misunderstandings can stay with you for the rest of your life.
Tolerate each other, it's really lost, and it's the most painful thing to love each other but can't turn back.
It's not good, no matter how fierce the quarrel is, don't break up at every turn.
But as for why it's bad, I don't understand. Maybe it's not easy for two people to be together, and people will be more or less contradictory after getting along for a long time. It's normal to quarrel, and a breakup may push the love between the two of you to the extreme, maybe to the end.
No matter how you can't use this to press your boyfriend, so, you can't keep talking about breaking up in the futureYou have to change it, otherwise you will really lose that day, and you will regret what you did in the first place.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05Long-lasting love is in your heart, just as many people often ask if there is true love in this world, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in you, and eternal love is your love.
We know that love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, and the reward of love is the eternal happiness of the other person.
And happiness, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. Whether it is in love before marriage or in the ordinary life after marriage, as long as you really love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is by your side, not that you have eternal love, but that you have created eternal love.
Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist
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Anonymous users2024-02-04It is a very childish behavior for a boy to break up as soon as he quarrels, and it is not normal.
It proves that this boy is not mature in his heart, he can't give his girlfriend enough security, and he always mentions breaking up as soon as he quarrels, which is still very hurtful, and it is always inevitable that two people will be noisy when they are together, as long as it is resolved in time. If you hurt people and destroy feelings, it is really a very uneconomical thing. So no matter what time you are, even if you are angry, you must keep your mouth shut.
As the saying goes, trouble comes from the mouth. No matter how angry you are, you must not easily hurt the person you like.
If a boy mentions breaking up every time they quarrel, then even if you and your girlfriend get back together, your girlfriend will have an extra thorn in her heart.
Therefore, when a boy has a conflict with his girlfriend, he must remain calm and restrained.
Of course, if a girl meets such a boyfriend and always breaks up after a fight, then my advice is to say goodbye to this guy as soon as possible.
There are so many good boys in the world, if it doesn't work, change one. If this person is always annoying you and always gives up the relationship between the two of you easily. Then I don't think this guy is mature enough to take on the responsibility of a relationship.
If you leave him, you may be able to find your true destiny.
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Anonymous users2024-02-03I don't know if your boyfriend is relatively young and doesn't know how to take care of other people's feelings. Breaking up as soon as you quarrel seems irrational, immature, and somewhat selfish.
Maybe it's really too young to experience the pain of separation, but whenever you think of a "break up", it breaks your lover's heart and may ruin a relationship, which is really regrettable.
Saying that he doesn't take care of the other party's feelings hurts a lot for a girl who takes this relationship very seriously, and she will think that you really don't care about this relationship and don't care about this partner around you.
People who often talk about "breaking up" also mean that they may also think so in their hearts, and if they always say so, there is a kind of self-suggestion, forming a subconscious, and it is difficult to think about the ending.
Your boyfriend may not love you enough and you won't break up. Your repeated compromises will make him get carried away.
1. The boy didn't immediately comfort you.
Suppose after a fight, the boy lets you get angry, and then the two gradually become cold and violent. Boys don't show weakness, they don't apologize to you, they don't even talk to you. Then you'll feel more and more angry.
I don't think it's as good as proposing to break up. Maybe it's a little more free to live alone. It feels like he's always you off, and he's not coaxing.
He must not love you enough. Then you will always think a lot of cranky, and finally feel that it is not worth being with him anymore. It's better to break up as soon as possible.
Therefore, as soon as you argue, you will propose to break up.
Since you have seen that he is not a responsible person, and you have been disappointed, and you have discovered many of his faults through your interactions, if you feel that you can go further, then be tolerant, understand and cover everything, communicate with each other when appropriate, and give each other their opinions. If you also have the heart to let go, there is nothing to be reluctant to, willing to be willing, willing to be willing to gain, and then entangled for a long time, you may suffer the grievances will increase, and your feelings are constantly degenerating, he is kind, good people have their own place, rather than so tired to maintain this relationship is better to be a little simpler, just like in the end there will be no beautiful results, why bother to keep chasing it......You are also very kind, otherwise you wouldn't care about the emotional foundation that went through ups and downs in half a year, people always have spirituality, and it is inevitable to have emotional interactions, if you have another him, everything will fade away.
In your case, it's best to be prepared accordingly.
First of all, start with those buddies he knows, let his buddies feel that he has done you too much, you are really guilty of being with him, it's time to break up, and pull his buddies to his own front. At least after the breakup, there are those buddies who can persuade him and prevent him from taking some inappropriate measures and behaviors. >>>More
My husband and I also quarrel all the time, and even fight, and he is very stingy, even when I buy a dress, I have to look at his face, is this kind of man still worth being with him?
It's okay to quarrel, don't cold war.
My wife and I have been arguing for a year and a half (of course, she apologized to me). >>>More
Couples always break out because of a little problem on the outside, this is very important, no one has the obligation to accommodate others, will accommodate because they care, but that is also limited, must not continue to use quarrels to consume the bottom line, how to change I think in fact, you know in your heart, but how to do is important, I think you have to develop a habit, the habit of being silent for three seconds before you break out, the two of you have to sit down and talk about it, remember, it's good, if you can't do it, Hearing him say your true shortcomings, you can't accept that it will erupt, don't talk about it, it's meaningless, if you can control yourself in advance, then you have to let him vent his dissatisfaction with you for so long, and you also tell what you are afraid of and worried about because you love him, so that both parties have vented, and a transparent confession can bridge your rift, otherwise, even if you chase it back this time, the next time you break out again, it will only consume his remaining bottom line until it is irretrievable. >>>More