I broke up with my boyfriend, but I regret it, what should I do

Updated on psychology 2024-02-26
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Couples always break out because of a little problem on the outside, this is very important, no one has the obligation to accommodate others, will accommodate because they care, but that is also limited, must not continue to use quarrels to consume the bottom line, how to change I think in fact, you know in your heart, but how to do is important, I think you have to develop a habit, the habit of being silent for three seconds before you break out, the two of you have to sit down and talk about it, remember, it's good, if you can't do it, Hearing him say your true shortcomings, you can't accept that it will erupt, don't talk about it, it's meaningless, if you can control yourself in advance, then you have to let him vent his dissatisfaction with you for so long, and you also tell what you are afraid of and worried about because you love him, so that both parties have vented, and a transparent confession can bridge your rift, otherwise, even if you chase it back this time, the next time you break out again, it will only consume his remaining bottom line until it is irretrievable.

    Say something off-topic, in fact, girls will be like this, the focus is completely on the feelings, which is very cute and sad, if you have other interests, such as very effective reading, reading books such as chicken soup for the soul, it can completely improve your open-mindedness, make you become a little more intellectual, and effectively avoid the problem of jumping on small things.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't miss it again, if you feel that you can't save face, ask your friend to remind him! I think if he loves you very much, he will forgive you!

    I advise you that people need to understand each other, and be tolerant, don't just say break up!

    Everyone has shortcomings, don't just look at each other's shortcomings, when you are angry, think more about how good he is to you, you will not be so angry!

    I wish you all the best and I wish you happiness!

    Addendum: It's very excessive, what you fancy will be bought by people the next day, which shows that people have a heart for you!

    Where to find this kind of man, don't hurry up and chase him back!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There is a saying that couples are divided and united, and they will eventually be separated. This may not be suitable for all couples, but there is some truth to it. If you divide too much, your feelings will be diluted and worn away.

    What's more, you are in a long-distance relationship, which is even more torture. My boyfriend and I also experienced a long-distance relationship, and we almost couldn't hold on, and then we became in the same place. Because of the long distance, the other party can't be by your side and help you share your troubles when you are in difficulty, so there will be various contradictions, and because of the distance, they cannot be solved in a timely and effective manner, so it drags on, and one day, the contradictions will snowball bigger and bigger, which is the disadvantage of long-distance relationships.

    And you've already broken up once, which means that there is a problem between you, and the previous problem may not have been solved after getting back together, so the same or similar problem will appear again, I don't know if the problem you described is something you have ever had, but at least it means that you have to solve the problem, and breaking up will only make things more out of control. Your relationship has not been short for a short time, you should become mature, you can't always be so willful, this problem is not big, it can be solved through communication and compromise, if you still love him, go and redeem it, but remember, no matter how emotional you are, you must refrain from it, don't be willful anymore, men take breakups seriously, don't always talk about breakups, this will make your relationship go to a dead end.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It is estimated that you are in such a situation, the age is not very old, the two of them are fated to be together, there is no problem of the principle of the general direction, and the two of them don't need to care too much about all kinds of wrongs, because if you care, you will be very tired, and women should learn to be smart, so men will naturally be inseparable from you. FYI.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I shouldn't be looking for him. He has made you so sad, why are you still so aggrieved to find him, there will be a lot of such things in the future, you are very passive, slowly learn to forget, start a new life, it will be fine.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Work hard, and if you can recover it, then you will treat others well. If not, then you can treat others well, and let him let you go. After all, you can barely get a lifetime of happiness.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Good horses don't eat back grass, but not necessarily, it depends on fate.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Emotional matters are not clear to others, and they make their own choices.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Oh, you can see that you really care.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Since you know that your temper is not good, don't be willful, he is gone, it is impossible to return to you, it's time to let go, be good to everyone.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Forget it, leave some dignity for yourself.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you regret breaking up with your boyfriend, you can choose to try to adjust your state at this time and then save the relationship. Don't immediately redeem the other party when you regret it, because you may still be more impulsive at this time, so you may say some radical words. In addition, if you propose to the other party to get back together without thinking about it, you may still break up in the future because of the same problem, so I hope you can think about it before making a decision.

    It is important to remember that recovery takes a cycle, and if you reconcile with the other person immediately after the breakup, it may give the other party a sense of playfulness, which is very friendly to the future development of the relationship. After breaking up, you can try to live a life alone, slowly adjust the bad things in yourself, and make yourself better, only in this way can you better redeem the other party. Don't be too impatient when redeeming, and don't force the other party to reconcile with yourself, because this kind of behavior is very inappropriate.

    You can slowly let the other party see your own changes, and at the same time, let the other party see that the problem between the two people has been solved, only in this way can you give the other party confidence, and only in this way can the other party accept yourself again. Don't lose your temper as long as the other party doesn't go too far when you win back the other party, because if you lose your temper at this time, all the previous efforts will be ruined. Don't let the other person feel like you're drawing a blank check for him, let the other person see the real changes in yourself.

    At the same time, it is also necessary to allow yourself to obtain new value during this period, and to make yourself better, only in this way can the other party be willing to pour new feelings from yourself. There are many people who think that there is no need for two people to improve themselves after falling in love, in fact, this kind of thinking is also wrong, no matter when you can not give up the pace of progress. Everyone should be a new existence every day, and when you redeem each other, you can also let the other party see the new value in yourself, so that it is easy to make the other party change their minds.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    At this time, you can find your boyfriend again, express your feelings to him, tell him that you regret it and want to show up with him, at this time you must show very good and care for him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you regret it, go to your boyfriend and show your boyfriend your heart again, saying that you like him very much and want to be with him.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you regret it very much, you can find your boyfriend to call your boyfriend, or apologize to him in person, and then go to redeem the other party.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    After taking the initiative to break up with your boyfriend, you regret it, and if you really love each other in such a situation, you should take the initiative to show favor, express your emotions to each other, and fight for love.

    Since you have regretted it, don't be hypocritical at this time if you know your intentions, otherwise it will only be you who will be embarrassed. When you regret it after breaking up, you must save the relationship in time, otherwise if you miss the time, you will make yourself and your boyfriend completely useless, and eventually become two people who have no relationship.

    No matter what the reason for the breakup in this relationship, you should know how to compromise and retreat, otherwise this relationship will definitely not change. Since it is your own proposal to break up, taking the initiative to contact the other party will let the other party have a step and let the other party see their sincerity. I think that if you really love each other, you should work hard for love, so that the other party will know what she thinks, so as to forgive yourself for your original behavior, after all, breaking up is the biggest harm to each other.

    No matter what happens, don't easily break up, otherwise the damage caused by the breakup is irreparable, and many times it will lead to a big shadow.

    I think girls should not easily propose to break up in love, let alone test each other's hearts, which will affect the relationship. When you regret that you have love for your boyfriend, you should seize the opportunity in time, don't let the other party leave you easily, and let the other party give you a chance to change.

    No matter how unhappy you are in the relationship, don't break up easily, otherwise the damage will be unpredictable, and everyone can't accept their temper, so if you want to have a good relationship, you need to make appropriate compromises. Many times love needs to give way, don't think of yourself as high, which will hurt the people around you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you regret breaking up with your boyfriend, it means that you don't want to leave him at all, and you still have him in your heart. You can take the initiative to talk to him, tell him what you think, apologize for what should be apologized, and ask for his forgiveness.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you break up with your boyfriend on the spur of the moment and regret it, you have to redeem it in time, find the other party, explain the misunderstanding or contradiction between the two people, and see his attitude. Some feelings you can redeem, and some people may break up and never go back to the way they were, so don't break up on impulse.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You can also try it out, because it takes a long time.

    There may be no chance of redemption.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    After the breakup, regret and want to get back together, if the other party doesn't look for you, you take the initiative to find him.

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