Why do I keep making the same mistakes?

No one is perfect. Everyone makes mistakes at times, and they don't have to blame themselves for their mistakes. If there is a mistake, it will be corrected.

If you know that you have made mistakes, it is not right to do them again and again. Before doing anything, you must carefully consider whether you should do it, whether you can do it, and what the consequences will be. As the saying goes, think twice before you act, and you will avoid some unnecessary mistakes.

Learn to restrain yourself.

I'm a mold structure designer and I've been doing this job for three years. During these three years, I have gained a lot, but I have also made a lot of mistakes. I don't know if it's because of the mistakes I made, or if it's because of some mistakes.

But I really want to figure out, can I make mistakes less likely? Especially similar to the same bugs.

A little sad, a little melancholy.

Confucius said: "Passing without changing the name of the fault." It means that when a mistake is made and not corrected, it is called a mistake.

Yes, every time I make a mistake at work, I will obediently sign my name on the assessment form, and then change it seriously and bumpy. Isn't that a mistake?

Zuo Qiuming, a thinker in the Spring and Autumn Period, also said in his "Zuo Chuan: The Second Year of Xuangong": "If a person is not a sage, he can do no wrong." After that, it can be changed, and it is very good.

That's right, whether we are in life or at work, being able to correct and learn lessons from mistakes shows that we are improving and improving. But what if it's the same, similar error? Every time you cross the same river, you fall into it every time, is that really good?

Looking at my list of mistakes of 2016 with a face full of vicissitudes, I couldn't find the slightest comfort in the presence of the two sages. Because I always fall in the same river, I always choke on the water of the same river, I feel uncomfortable, I am very unwilling to be reconciled to myself. When I can't sleep at night, I often think:

Why do I keep making similar mistakes? Could it be that my behavior pattern (work methods, work habits) is wrong? So how do I change my behavior?

There is a category of people who always make the same mistake in the same scene and will fall in the same place many times! Some people will say that this kind of person does not have a long memory, but is this phenomenon just the reason for not having a long memory?

There is also a group of people who will never make a second mistake if they make a mistake, so is this kind of person because of their good memory?

Whether at work or in life, it is clear that the former has been paying for his mistakes, while blaming himself and spending it in remorse! And the latter, iterate themselves every day, turn mistakes into productivity, and eventually the mistakes they make become experience and wealth!

So what is the reason for the growing gap between these two types of people?

That's the two words "review"! The willingness to review is a Go term, that is, after playing a game of chess, players will go through it all over again, which is used to summarize and analyze which move was good, which move was bad, and which move was the key to winning or losing the game! Later, Mr. Liu Chuanzhi, the founder of Lenovo, regarded the "review" thinking as a corporate culture for employee management and self-iteration!

How to review? Teach you the easiest three-step way to review!

1.What new knowledge have you learned? That is, what did you never know, but eventually knew? For example, in today's work, I know what the specific aspects of competitive negotiation are, which I didn't know before!

2.What old knowledge has changed for you?

The so-called old knowledge may be some cognitive bias that we have accumulated in the past! For example, some people often say that beautiful girls are not willing to work hard, and most of them are just vases! In other words, if a woman does not get married at the age of 30, she is an older woman, and this person must have something wrong with her heart, etc.!

3.What's next for you?

After summarizing the new knowledge and iterating the old knowledge, you will plan out your actions, just talking on paper, and it is useless not to turn the summarized experience into action, which is equivalent to learning in vain! So this step is also key!

What is the difference between a review and a life without a review!

People who will review, each time they will summarize an event, project, or even daily work after the fact, they will summarize the entire process of today's work, the reasons that led to the results, what experiences can be summarized and problems to avoid, and next time they will directly abandon the weaknesses summarized last time, and further iterate their work and thinking!

And people who never review it, they never know what they did, how they did it, and what unnecessary mistakes they made in a day! One day's work and life are blurry, like a plate of loose sand, and you don't know what to do tomorrow, resulting in your whole life paying for your stupid mistakes and actions! ​​

The same kind of mistake, the first time you make it, you can say you are ignorant, the second time you make it, you can say it is unintentional, and the third time you make it can be said that you are unintentional, but if you make it more than three times, you are stupid. Isn't it stupid to fall in the same place several times, the first time you can not remember for a long time, but you can't always make a mistake in the same noisy place one after another, although I often do this kind of stupid thing, but I don't make the same mistake more than three times, because in my opinion, if you make the same mistake one after another, it is really brainless.

People keep making mistakes because they are forgetful, or they may be because they don't fall hard. We don't learn enough so we forget it after a while, and then we keep repeating the same mistake. Every time I do something wrong, I will write down the mistakes, on weekdays, when doing exercises, I will prepare a set of mistakes for myself, and then write down the wrong questions on it, when there is nothing to do, I will take it out and take a look, and then every time I look at it, I will silently remind myself in my heart that I am not allowed to make such a mistake again next time, and then gradually developed a habit, which also improved my learning efficiency and benefited me in the future.

I am a person with a very bad memory, often go out and forget to bring the key, if it is better when I am at home, there are people in the family will not be shut out, but in the school, if I forget to bring it, I may have to wait for them to come back and open the door for me, sometimes, they go to a farther place, I can only wander around the campus alone and wait for them to come back. Once in winter, I forgot to bring my mobile phone key when I went out, and I was frozen to death outside, and I guess it was that time that left me a shadow, so every time I went out, I would check my pocket and schoolbag to see if my phone and keys were inside. Therefore, after a hard lesson, people will have a long memory, and after a severe pain, the feeling of this pain will be unforgettable, so that when you think about it later, you will still have a faint pain.

If you don't have the patience and time to write down these mistakes, you can also post it at home where you often see, post it with the mistakes you have made, and when you go home every day, you can see it at first glance, and you can also give yourself a reminder, if you feel that this method is more old-fashioned and outdated, you can choose to use the label of the mistakes you have made, and then set it as the mobile phone wallpaper or desktop, as long as you open the phone, you can see it, which is very convenient. In fact, as long as you have the heart, no matter what the mistake is, as long as you want to avoid it, you can easily avoid it. But if it's really the kind of person who lacks the heart, I think I can take these methods, because these are my own experiments.

There are many reasons for this, but they are none other than money, power, and profit.

The journey of life is high and wide, and the end of the world is far away; And we are always easy to get lost, so that we make wrong choices, but no matter what kind of mistakes, as long as we have the courage to bear and correct, it is not too bad. Buddhism has clouds: the sea of bitterness is boundless, and the shore is turned back.

No matter how far we go or how wrong we are, as long as we are willing to go back to the sock hall to get it, there will always be a better way out.

To err is human; Moreover, making mistakes is indispensable for a long life; Life needs to make mistakes, because there are mistakes, will be self-introspective, self-awakening, self-realization; So as to be better treated with life. Don't doubt your ability because of a momentary mistake, and don't deny other people's lives because of a momentary mistake, people live a lifetime, not because of a rotten mistake can be changed. Don't be easily discouraged and compromised, because all the mistakes today are indispensable tests in life, and they are also for that more wonderful tomorrow.

Life in the world is always half good and bad, right and wrong; There is no need to be sad about some things and mistakes, and there is no need to panic when some roads and mistakes are taken. The journey of life is long, there will always be some ups and downs on the road, and there will always be some mistakes and regrets. We should be glad that every mistake in the journey we made is another growth in life, and we can only find our own right direction by constantly exploring and making mistakes.

There are many reasons why humans make mistakes. Sometimes it's because we lack information or knowledge, sometimes because we don't have enough experience or skills, sometimes because we're affected by emotions or stress, and sometimes because our judgment is biased or misguided. In addition, the human brain also has some inherent limitations, such as our limited memory capacity, easy distraction, and subjective bias.

These factors can all cause us to make mistakes in certain situations. However, making mistakes is also part of human learning and growth. By making mistakes, we can discover our shortcomings, learn from them, and improve our behavior and decision-making, so that we can become smarter and more mature.